How Mothers Shape Men

Emotional Overload Isn’t Attitude

This episode explores the disconnect between men and women in relationships, especially around emotional expression. Clarence opens by questioning why women’s emotions can escalate during conflict, while Marilyn reframes the narrative, explaining that women are not “crazy” but often emotionally overwhelmed due to unmet needs, mental load, and feeling unheard.

Age Gaps

In this candid conversation, Dr. Marilynn and Clarence Miles tackle the complexities of dating and marrying across age differences. They unpack power dynamics, maturity, expectations, and whether age really is just a number.

Domestic Violence Behind the Pulpit

Tune in to Marilyn and Clarence Miles as they unpack the painful reality of domestic violence within Christian marriages, sparked by the tragic killing of Pastor Tammy McCollum Together, they explore the hidden forms of abuse that often go unnoticed behind faith, the pressure to maintain appearances in ministry, and the critical importance of recognizing warning signs, seeking help, and navigating safety with wisdom and prayer.

Misogyny and Chauvinism in relationships

Tune in to Clarence & Marilynn as they unpack the hostility and resentment often directed at strong Black women in relationships. They explore where this mindset comes from, how it shows up in men’s behavior, and what needs to shift for healthier, more respectful connections.

How Mothers Shape Men

Listen as Clarence Miles shares how growing up without his mother shaped his love, trust, and marriage, and how couples can navigate healing together.