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If marriage is one of the biggest decisions a man will ever make, why are so many young men today confused, delayed, or checking out of the process altogether? According to the Pew Research Center, the way we approach marriage has shifted dramatically in just a few generations. In 1950, the median age for first-time marriage was 22.8 for men and 20.3 for women. By 1975, it barely moved. But in 2025, those numbers jump to 30.2 for men and 28.6 for women. At the same time, Americans still say the “ideal” age to get married is around 26.5. So what’s going on? Young people point to financial pressure, student debt, unstable careers, and economic uncertainty. They mention the rise of alternative lifestyles, shifting cultural norms, and a dating landscape that has moved from in-person connection to swipes and screens. Add in fear of divorce and broken families, and it’s no surprise many men are hesitant, passive, or simply lost when it comes to pursuing marriage. But Scripture paints a different picture. In Genesis 2:18, “The Lord God said, ‘It is not good that man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.’” God’s design for man and woman, and for marriage itself, hasn’t changed, even if the culture has. In this episode of *Tribe Talk*, Mike and Jim decide to stop guessing what women want and go straight to the source. They’re joined by Maddie Marion and Elise LeMire for an honest, practical conversation about Christian dating, expectations, and what godly women are actually looking for in a man. Together, they talk about: - How modern dating culture is shaping the way men and women relate - What Christian women desire in a man’s character, leadership, and spiritual life - Common mistakes men make in dating and how to correct them - How to pursue a woman with clarity, courage, and respect in a confusing age If you’re a young man who wants to marry someday, but you feel unsure about how to move forward, this episode gives you a rare gift: real answers from real women who love Jesus. Want to hear what Christian women want? This is your chance.
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