From Shame to Freedom: Shane’s Story (Part 1) | Episode #054
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For 23 years, Shane lived trapped in an addiction to pornography.
He tried programs, accountability groups, Bible studies, discipleship, and every solution he knew to try. But no matter what he did, he could never go more than three weeks without failing again.
Then one day, his wife gave him a sobering ultimatum:
“You can have pornography, or you can have your family. But you can’t have both.”
That moment woke Shane up and gave him the courage to try one more time.
In this powerful and honest conversation, Shane shares how becoming a student of the Truly a Masterpiece Course helped him finally experience breakthrough. He explains the life-changing difference between confessing the symptom of sin and addressing the deeper root—unbelief.
Today, Shane is experiencing freedom, joy, and deeper love than he ever thought possible, and that freedom is now overflowing into every area of his life and relationships.
Shane said:
“Knowing what I know now, I would have paid thousands of dollars for this training and considered it a bargain.”
This is Part 1 of a two-part conversation.
Part 1 is about finding freedom.
Part 2 is about life after freedom.
If you’ve ever struggled with shame, addiction, self-doubt, or feeling stuck, this conversation will encourage you deeply.
Time Stamps
01:00 Meet Shane
3:31 A Year and a half free
3:39 The cost of self-doubt
04:41 Shane's mindset while living with the addiction
0:5:49 The ultimatum
06:31 How he was first introduced to pornography
07:05 23 years addicted and never more than 3 weeks without a failure
07:22 What he had tried to find freedom
08:32 What motivated Shane to try again
09:37 "I knew I needed to solve this porn problem... but I got so much more"
12:23 Nowhere else to turn
13:20 The effects on his wife
14:00 The breakthrough
16:51 Shame speaking louder than truth
18:04 Struggled with "unbelief" but he was not an unbeliever
19:37 "In Christ" is enough
19:49 the change was almost instant
20:32 Free indeed
21:05 My heart posture is what caused the change... it wasn't my words
21:43 Two surprising things Shane was never asked to do
24:12 Truly a Masterpiece is not theropy
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