Episode 58: Coming Home To Self | Series 10: All The Pendencies

Episode 58: Coming Home To Self | Series 10: All The Pendencies

In the series finale, Robin and Stephanie arrive at what All the Pendencies has been orbiting the whole time — the self that got left behind. Through a structural dissociation and parts lens, they explore the part that learned to disappear, what it was protecting, and why return isn't a moment of insight but a slow movement back toward yourself. Plus a coping skill that might make you cry, a nervous system nugget on what it takes for the body to learn that landing is safe, and reflection questions that look both back across the series and forward into what comes next.

Episode 57: The Cultural Water — Interdependence, Individualism, and Who Gets Pathologized | Series 10: All The Pendencies

In this episode we zoom out...way out. Codependency didn't arrive in a vacuum. It was born inside a very specific cultural moment, and the water we've all been swimming in has shaped what we call healthy, what we call disordered, and who ends up with the diagnosis. Robin and Stephanie explore Western individualism and its complicated relationship with needing people, the gendered history of caregiving labor and how it became a symptom list, who gets pathologized and why, and what relational cultural theory offers as a counter-narrative. Plus — what healthy dependency actually looks like when the cultural noise quiets, a coping skill to help you find what's genuinely yours, and a nervous system nugget on why safety has to be felt before it can be trusted.

Episode 56: A Warmer Frame - Prodependency and Loving Someone in a Hard Place | Series 10: All The Pendencies

In this episode, we explore the concept of prodependence as an alternative to the traditional codependency model, emphasizing love, compassion, and understanding in relationships. Robin and Stephanie discuss how love is often misunderstood and how shifting the perspective can lead to healthier, more compassionate relationships.

Episode 55: The Family Blueprint: Enmeshment, Parentification, and Where We Learned This Series 10 | All The Pendencies

In this episode, Robin Green and Stephanie Edsall explore the profound impact of family systems on our nervous system, focusing on enmeshment, parentification, and emotional incest. They discuss how these patterns shape our relationships and somatic health, offering insights into healing and self-awareness.

Episode 54: Fawning Is Not a Flaw | Series 10: All the Pendencies Mini Episode

This episode explores the concept of fawning, a relational response often misunderstood as a flaw. Hosts Robin and Stephanie discuss its origins, neurological basis, costs, and practical ways to notice and shift this pattern for healthier relationships.