Untapped Stories

Kathy Taylor on Building Winning Teams Through Accountability and Development

In this episode of Untapped Stories, we sit down with Kathy Taylor — longtime and highly decorated women’s college lacrosse coach — to talk about leadership, athlete development, and why long-term success is built on accountability long before it shows up in the win column. After decades of coaching at a high level, Kathy has learned something that many people in sports overlook: Winning is the byproduct of development. Championships, rankings, and records may get attention, but sustainable success comes from building something deeper — a culture filled with hardworking, respectful, connected athletes who trust one another and take pride in doing things the right way. Kathy explains that the best teams aren’t always the most individually talented. They’re the teams built on communication, consistency, discipline, and shared accountability. Talent might win moments, but culture wins seasons. For young lacrosse players especially, development goes far beyond stick skills and athletic ability. Passing, catching, defensive footwork, ground balls, and shooting mechanics all matter — but character, coachability, and work ethic ultimately determine how far athletes can go. From there, the conversation shifts into one of Kathy’s strongest beliefs as a coach: Growth requires responsibility. In today’s world, it’s easy for parents or coaches to step in and solve every problem for young athletes. Forgotten equipment gets delivered. Missed assignments get excused. Mistakes get cleaned up before athletes feel the consequences. But Kathy believes those small moments matter. When athletes are allowed to forget something, fail, regroup, and learn from it themselves, they begin building independence and resilience. Those lessons carry far beyond sports — into school, relationships, careers, and life. She emphasizes that adversity isn’t something coaches should always remove. Sometimes it’s something athletes need to experience in order to grow. Throughout the episode, Kathy highlights the core principles that help teams and athletes succeed long-term: • Building strong team culture through accountability and respect • Developing communication and leadership skills • Teaching athletes to embrace responsibility and ownership • Mastering lacrosse fundamentals like passing, catching, and ground balls • Creating environments where athletes can learn through mistakes • Prioritizing long-term development over short-term outcomes One of the biggest takeaways is that great coaching isn’t just about producing wins — it’s about helping athletes become capable, resilient people. Kathy’s approach to coaching reflects decades of experience developing not only strong lacrosse players, but strong young women prepared for life beyond the game. This episode is a must-listen for lacrosse players, parents navigating youth and college sports, and coaches who believe culture and development are the foundation of lasting success. 🎙️ Untapped Stories is presented by Athletes Untapped [https://athletesuntapped.com/] — the nation’s leading platform for private sports coaching. We connect athletes and families with elite coaches who help players build strong fundamentals, confidence, leadership, and lifelong habits through sports. 👉 Follow Athletes Untapped [https://www.instagram.com/athletesuntapped/] for more conversations with elite coaches and athletes, and explore private lacrosse coaching to elevate your game and development.

Maggie Andreis: From Ohio State to Pro Soccer — and Why Consistency Builds Confidence

In this episode of Untapped Stories, we sit down with Maggie Andreis — former player at Ohio State University, professional soccer athlete, and now a strength & performance coach — to talk about consistency, resilience, and what it really takes to build a long-term career in sports. Maggie’s journey through soccer wasn’t built on perfect conditions or a straight path. Like many high-level athletes, her career was filled with both highs and lows — moments of confidence and moments of uncertainty. But one constant defined her development: Showing up and giving 100% every single day. During her time at Ohio State, Maggie learned that results aren’t always in your control. Playing time, outcomes, injuries, and external circumstances can shift quickly. But effort, attitude, and preparation are always within reach. She explains how consistency — especially on the days when motivation is low — is what builds real confidence. Not highlight moments. Not short bursts of success. But stacking quality days over time. A big part of that consistency came from an unexpected place: the weight room. Maggie fell in love with strength training and performance work, realizing how directly it translated to her game. Speed, power, injury prevention, and durability all stem from building a strong physical foundation. For soccer players especially, strength & conditioning plays a critical role in acceleration, change of direction, and maintaining performance across 90 minutes. From there, the conversation shifts into one of the most important lessons Maggie learned: The path to success is never linear. Injuries, setbacks, and unexpected challenges forced her to slow down at different points in her career. But instead of derailing her progress, those moments helped her develop resilience, patience, and a deeper understanding of her body. They also shaped her future. Those experiences ultimately led Maggie into performance coaching, where she now helps athletes navigate the same challenges she once faced — with more clarity, structure, and confidence. She emphasizes that athletes often feel like they’re falling behind when things don’t go according to plan. But in reality, those moments are often where the most growth happens. Throughout the episode, Maggie highlights the key principles that help soccer players and athletes elevate their performance: • Showing up with consistent effort, regardless of circumstances • Building strength, power, and durability through structured training • Improving speed, acceleration, and change of direction mechanics • Prioritizing recovery, mobility, and injury prevention • Staying mentally resilient through setbacks and uncertainty One of the biggest takeaways is that confidence isn’t built from perfect outcomes — it’s built from consistent effort over time. Maggie’s journey from college athlete to pro soccer player to performance coach is proof that setbacks don’t define your path — how you respond to them does. This episode is a must-listen for soccer players looking to improve their physical performance, athletes navigating injuries or setbacks, and anyone working toward long-term success in sports. 🎙️ Untapped Stories is presented by Athletes Untapped [https://athletesuntapped.com/] — the nation’s leading platform for private sports coaching. We connect athletes and families with elite coaches who help players build strength, confidence, and the habits needed to succeed on and off the field. 👉 Follow Athletes Untapped [https://www.instagram.com/athletesuntapped/] for more conversations with elite athletes and coaches, and explore private strength & performance training to elevate your game.

Garry Linton on Recruiting: Build Your Brand & Treat Tournaments Like Business

In this episode of Untapped Stories, we sit down with Garry Linton — former basketball trainer turned mental performance coach — to talk about how recruiting has evolved, why athletes need to take ownership of their path, and how mindset and branding now play a major role in getting to the next level. Garry has worked with athletes across different stages of development, and one of the biggest shifts he’s seen isn’t just in how players train — it’s in how they get recruited. For years, many families relied on high school programs or travel teams to handle exposure. But today’s recruiting landscape looks very different. Between the transfer portal, increased competition, and limited roster spots, college coaches are more selective than ever — and relationships matter. That’s why Garry offers a simple but powerful mindset shift for parents: Treat every tournament like a business conference. It might sound unconventional, but it reframes how families approach recruiting. Instead of just showing up and hoping to be noticed, athletes and parents can be intentional. Research which coaches will be in attendance. Identify programs that are a good fit. Be proactive in building real conversations. Because unless an athlete is a clear, top-tier prospect, recruiting is rarely instant. It’s a process built on trust, familiarity, and repeated exposure. From there, the conversation shifts into another critical piece of modern recruiting: Athletes need to build their own brand. Garry explains that in today’s game, visibility doesn’t just come from box scores or word of mouth. Social media, highlight videos, and personal outreach all play a role in how athletes are perceived by coaches. And while some programs still support recruiting efforts, the reality is that most athletes need to take ownership of their exposure. That doesn’t mean becoming an influencer — it means being intentional about how you present yourself as a player and person. Sharing your work ethic. Showing your development. Communicating who you are. Because when coaches evaluate athletes, they’re not just looking at talent. They’re evaluating character, consistency, and whether that athlete fits their program. Throughout the episode, Garry highlights the key principles that help athletes navigate recruiting successfully: • Treating tournaments as networking opportunities • Researching programs and building genuine relationships with coaches • Taking ownership of exposure and communication • Using social media to showcase development and character • Developing confidence and clarity around personal identity as an athlete One of the biggest takeaways is that recruiting is no longer passive. Athletes who take initiative — both on and off the court — give themselves a significant advantage. Garry’s perspective blends basketball experience with mental performance principles, helping athletes approach recruiting with intention instead of uncertainty. This episode is a must-listen for basketball players working toward college opportunities, parents navigating the recruiting process, and athletes who want to stand out in a crowded, competitive landscape. 🎙️ Untapped Stories is presented by https://athletesuntapped.com/ [https://athletesuntapped.com/] — the nation’s leading platform for private sports coaching. We connect athletes and families with elite coaches who help players develop skills, build confidence, and navigate their athletic journey with purpose. 👉 Follow https://www.instagram.com/athletesuntapped/ [https://www.instagram.com/athletesuntapped/] for more conversations with coaches and performance experts, and explore private training to support your development on and off the court.

Elena De Alfredo on Creative Basketball Training, Game IQ, and Trusting Your Journey

In this episode of Untapped Stories, we sit down with Elena De Alfredo — college basketball coach and renowned hoops trainer — to talk about creative player development, basketball IQ, and why no athlete’s journey follows a straight line. Elena has worked with athletes at multiple levels of the game, and one of the biggest gaps she sees isn’t skill — it’s intuition. Too many players can dribble, shoot, and run through drills… but struggle to read the game, react under pressure, and make decisions in real time. And at higher levels of basketball, that’s exactly what separates players. Her solution? Constraint-led training. Instead of telling athletes exactly what to do, Elena puts them in controlled, uncomfortable situations that force them to figure it out on their own. Limiting dribbles. Adding reaction-based cues like colors or numbers. Changing spacing and timing. The goal isn’t perfection — it’s adaptability. Because in real games, there’s no script. Defenders adjust. Help rotates. The pace changes. Players who can think, react, and create on the fly are the ones who stand out to college coaches. Elena explains that when athletes train this way, their basketball IQ skyrockets. They stop memorizing moves and start understanding the game — spacing, angles, timing, and decision-making. From there, the conversation shifts into a message that extends far beyond the court: No one’s athletic journey is linear. We asked Elena what advice she would give her younger self, and her answer was simple but powerful. Stop comparing. Stop trying to match someone else’s timeline. And don’t let outside voices define who you are as a player. In basketball — and in life — development comes with ups and downs. Some athletes peak early, others develop later. Some face setbacks, injuries, or confidence struggles along the way. Elena emphasizes that the athletes who succeed long-term are the ones who stay committed to their own path, keep working, and trust that progress compounds over time. Throughout the episode, she highlights the core principles that help basketball players elevate their game: • Training with constraints to improve decision-making and reaction time • Developing strong ball-handling, footwork, and shooting fundamentals • Building basketball IQ through game-like situations • Embracing discomfort as part of growth • Staying confident and focused on your own development journey One of the biggest takeaways is that skill alone isn’t enough at higher levels of basketball. Players need creativity, adaptability, and confidence in unpredictable situations. And none of that develops by staying comfortable. This episode is a must-listen for basketball players working to improve their game IQ, parents supporting athletes through the ups and downs of development, and anyone looking to train smarter — not just harder. 🎙️ Untapped Stories is presented by https://athletesuntapped.com/ [https://athletesuntapped.com/] — the nation’s leading platform for private sports coaching. We connect athletes and families with elite, vetted coaches who help players sharpen fundamentals, build confidence, and unlock their full potential. 👉 Follow https://www.instagram.com/athletesuntapped/ [https://www.instagram.com/athletesuntapped/] for more conversations with top coaches and trainers, and explore private basketball training to elevate your game.

Patrick Rufo - Mental Performance Coach - on Self-Awareness and Turning Stress into an Advantage

In this episode of Untapped Stories, we sit down with Patrick Rufo - mental performance coach on Athletes Untapped known for his impactful virtual training sessions and strong relationships with athletes and families - to talk about self-awareness, stress, and what it really takes to perform with confidence. Patrick’s approach to coaching is rooted in one core idea: know who you are — and play like it. Too many athletes spend their time trying to fit into someone else’s game. They compare themselves to teammates, mimic what they see online, or chase a version of success that doesn’t match their strengths. But Patrick explains that confidence doesn’t come from imitation — it comes from clarity. When athletes understand their identity — their strengths, tendencies, and style of play — everything starts to click. Decision-making becomes faster. Hesitation disappears. Performance becomes more consistent. And most importantly, athletes stop overthinking. Patrick emphasizes that great coaching isn’t about creating dependence. It’s about building independence. The goal is to give athletes tools they can use on their own — so when they step into competition, they don’t need constant reminders. They trust themselves. As he puts it: when development is working, the conversations get quieter… because the athlete gets stronger. From there, the conversation shifts into a concept that every athlete experiences — but few truly understand: stress. Patrick breaks it down simply: not all stress is bad. There’s the kind of pressure that fuels performance — the excitement of a big moment, the energy of competition, the adrenaline that sharpens focus. That’s good stress. And then there’s the type of stress that pulls athletes out of their game — overthinking, fear of failure, worrying about outcomes or judgment. That’s bad stress. The difference comes down to awareness. Patrick explains that when athletes learn to recognize how stress shows up — physically, mentally, and emotionally — they can start to manage it. Instead of being controlled by the moment, they learn how to respond to it. That’s how athletes don’t just get in the zone — they learn how to stay there. Throughout the episode, Patrick highlights the mental performance habits that help athletes compete freely and confidently: • Building self-awareness around strengths and playing style • Developing a clear performance identity • Recognizing the difference between productive and harmful stress • Learning how to reset focus in high-pressure moments • Training independence so confidence comes from within One of the biggest takeaways is that confidence isn’t something you wait for — it’s something you build through understanding yourself and training your response to pressure. Patrick’s work with athletes shows that when mindset is trained intentionally, performance becomes more consistent — and the game becomes more enjoyable. This episode is a must-listen for athletes looking to improve confidence, parents supporting players through competitive pressure, and anyone interested in the mental side of performance. 🎙️ Untapped Stories is presented by https://athletesuntapped.com/ [https://athletesuntapped.com/] — the nation’s leading platform for private sports coaching. We connect athletes and families with elite coaches who help players build strong fundamentals, resilient mindsets, and the tools to succeed both on and off the field. 👉 Follow https://www.instagram.com/athletesuntapped/ [https://www.instagram.com/athletesuntapped/ ]for more conversations with mental performance coaches and elite athletes, and explore virtual coaching to strengthen your mindset from anywhere. 🎯 Book lessons with Patrick here: https://athletesuntapped.com/coach-profile/ruforow [https://athletesuntapped.com/coach-profile/ruforow]