Muse Yourself | Real talk on self-love and starting over

43. A LIFE RESET: The Power Of One Decision

What if you knew that the life you want - the one where you live as the most fearless, authentic, fully expressed version of you, was only one decision away? In this episode, I’m talking about the power of making bold moves - BEFORE you feel ready - and how a single action can completely change the trajectory of your life. Not reckless, misaligned action - but trusting your vision, following your intuition, and saying yes to the incredible life that’s waiting for you. I’m covering: * Why “good enough” isn’t good enough for the version of you who came here to live fully in her power * How one action can set in motion your biggest transformation * The mindset shift that allows you to move from survival mode into full expression * How to trust yourself even when the next step isn’t visible yet This is your reminder that you were not put here to stay small. You were meant to live boldly, expansively, and unapologetically. So what’s your next move? Until next time Muses X PS. If this episode sparked something in you, please consider sharing it with someone! RESOURCES: * GET YOUR FREE GUIDED VISUALISATION: Sign up HERE [https://vip.museyourselfpodcast.com/] to join the MuseLetter list and receive a FREE 10-minute guided visualisation to help you release old identities and step into your most powerful era yet * SUBSCRIBE to my free Substack community HERE [https://gemmaj.substack.com/] to join the conversation and receive new episodes straight to your inbox * CONTACT ME: If you’d like to explore how we can work together you can get in touch HERE [https://forms.gle/ystMC6cHZLFmyhs49] * Make sure you’re subscribed on your favourite podcast platform! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/whats-your-story/id1725984271] | Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/6crrBEwJRMHt5k5YvYFhNn] Get full access to Muse Yourself Podcast at gemmaj.substack.com/subscribe [https://gemmaj.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4]

42. How to stop people pleasing & set boundaries this Holiday Season

Hi Muses, A short but powerful reminder for you in this week’s Monday Muse as we start to approach the Holiday Season - if you’ve spent years being the fixer, the peacekeeper, or the one who holds everything together for everyone else, this is the episode for you. I’m getting into why so many of us feel the need to carry what doesn’t belong to us, absorb energy that isn’t ours, how we confuse worthiness with being needed, and how reclaiming our boundaries can bring us back into our power. Inside this episode, you’ll hear: * Why we feel conditioned to carry other people’s problems * How taking on someone else’s problems not only steals your peace but also their growth * What it means to love someone without trying to save them * A grounding reflection to help you release what isn’t yours * A powerful reframe to help you protect your energy this week This is your permission slip to step back, breathe, and let people live their own experience - without making it your responsibility. A reflection to take into your week:Where have I been carrying that doesn’t belong to me? What would it feel like if I could let it go? If this episode supports you, please hit subscribe - it helps the show reach more women who need these conversations! Wishing you a beautiful and peaceful Monday, Muses X RESOURCES + LINKS: * GET YOUR FREE GUIDED VISUALISATION: Sign up HERE [https://vip.museyourselfpodcast.com/] to join the MuseLetter list and receive a FREE 10-minute guided visualisation to help you release old identities and step into your most powerful era yet * SUBSCRIBE to my free Substack community HERE [https://gemmaj.substack.com/] to join the conversation and receive new episodes straight to your inbox * CONTACT ME: If you’d like to explore how we can work together you can get in touch HERE [https://forms.gle/ystMC6cHZLFmyhs49] * Make sure you’re subscribed on your favourite podcast platform! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/whats-your-story/id1725984271] | Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/6crrBEwJRMHt5k5YvYFhNn] Get full access to Muse Yourself Podcast at gemmaj.substack.com/subscribe [https://gemmaj.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4]

41. STARTING OVER: How to let go of old identities, turn endings into new beginnings, and step into your MOST powerful era yet

What happens when the life you thought you were meant to live doesn’t work out the way you planned…? Hi Muses, In this week’s episode I’m so excited to welcome back one of the most popular guests we’ve ever had on the show - host of The FemmeCast podcast, Visibility Healer & Coach, and my beautiful friend, Maria Rei. In this deeply honest conversation, we’re exploring what it really takes to let go of old identities, release what’s no longer aligned, and start over - whether it’s by choice or because life’s thrown you some unexpected plot twists… We’re covering: * The messy middle of turning endings into aligned new beginnings - how to stop clinging on to an old identity and start actively choosing who we want to be * Why, and how, pain can be a portal to our next level * The scarcity mindset that keeps us holding on even when we know we need to let go, and how to stop the cycle for good * Learning to trust our inner guidance (even when it’s not logical!) * How we can learn to surrender control and trust our own intuition And SO much more! This is a conversation about courage, trust, and becoming who you were always meant to be. If you’re in a season of transition, whether in relationships, love, or career, I hope this episode reminds you that endings aren’t failures - they’re your invitation to your next chapter. P.S. You can find Maria’s previous episodes here: Episode 8: How to blow up your life, start over, and master self-love along the way, with Relationship Mentor Maria Rei [https://gemmaj.substack.com/p/16-how-to-blow-up-your-life-start] Episode 14: Understanding Narcissism: How to Break Toxic Relationship Patterns with relationship mentor Maria Rei [https://gemmaj.substack.com/p/22-understanding-narcissism-and-breaking] Until next time X RESOURCES + LINKS: * Listen to Maria’s podcast HERE [https://www.thefemmecast.com/podcast] Connect with her on Instagram HERE [https://www.instagram.com/thefemmecast/] and get your FREE 3-part meditation series HERE [https://thefemmecast.kit.com/activationseries] * GET YOUR FREE GUIDED VISUALISATION: Sign up HERE [https://vip.museyourselfpodcast.com/] to join the MuseLetter list and receive a FREE 10-minute guided visualisation to help you release old identities and step into your most powerful era yet * SUBSCRIBE to my free Substack community HERE [https://gemmaj.substack.com/] to join the conversation and receive new episodes straight to your inbox * CONTACT ME: If you’d like to explore how we can work together you can get in touch HERE [https://forms.gle/ystMC6cHZLFmyhs49] * Make sure you’re subscribed on your favourite podcast platform! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/whats-your-story/id1725984271] | Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/6crrBEwJRMHt5k5YvYFhNn] Get full access to Muse Yourself Podcast at gemmaj.substack.com/subscribe [https://gemmaj.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4]

40. Feeling behind? How to stop waiting and choose YOURSELF

Hi Muses, This weeks Monday Muse episode is your sign to show up, speak up, and choose yourself - fully and unapologetically. I’m sharing some personal reflections on why the days of having to be ‘chosen’ to be seen, published, or successful are DONE, and why the real power is now in choosing yourself. Which, let’s be honest, we’ve known for a while…but it never hurts to have a reminder. Whether you’ve been waiting for someone to notice your work, offer you the opportunity, or validate your next move - consider this your nudge to STOP waiting and start becoming the author of your own story. Because I’ve got news for you…you now live in a world where you can give YOURSELF the platform. And you were always meant to be the main character. Until next time X RESOURCES + LINKS: * SUBSCRIBE to my free Substack community HERE [https://gemmaj.substack.com/] to join the conversation and receive new episodes straight to your inbox * GET YOUR FREE GUIDED VISUALISATION: Sign up HERE [https://vip.museyourselfpodcast.com/] to join the MuseLetter list and receive a FREE 10-minute guided visualisation to help you release old identities and step into your most powerful era yet * CONTACT ME: If you’d like to explore how we can work together you can get in touch HERE [https://forms.gle/ystMC6cHZLFmyhs49] * Make sure you’re subscribed on your favourite podcast platform! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/whats-your-story/id1725984271] | Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/6crrBEwJRMHt5k5YvYFhNn] Get full access to Muse Yourself Podcast at gemmaj.substack.com/subscribe [https://gemmaj.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4]

39. Changing your life with Human Design: How to use your unique energy blueprint to create more ease, alignment and flow in your life

Download your free Human Design chart HERE [https://www.daynafaye.com/new-page] “There is so much peace that comes when you stop trying to fit into someone else’s blueprint…if we all really allowed ourselves to step into our own genius and stop trying to be like everyone else - the world would change” Hi Muses, I have a question for you… How would your life change if you could learn to honour your natural energy flow instead of fighting it? In this week’s episode, I’m talking to Human Design reader and intuitive healer, Dayna Faye, for an incredible conversation about discovering our unique energetic blueprint, and why truly understanding our own natural design is the key to attracting more ease, flow, and aligned opportunities into our lives… We’re getting into: * What Human Design actually is (and why it’s not just another personality test) * The five main Human Design energy types - Manifestor, Generator, Manifesting Generator, Projector & Reflector, how to know which one you are, and what it means for you * Why, and how, learning to work with your design brings more ease, freedom, and alignment * How understanding your chart can help you fully understand yourself, release self-judgment and finally feel “enough” exactly as you are * The 2027 energetic shift and what it means for all of us And so much more! Whether you’re brand new to Human Design or already down the rabbit hole, this episode will leave you feeling seen, inspired, and finally understanding all the incredible and unique things that make you, YOU. This was so much fun to record, I hope you enjoy it as much as I did…until next time, Muses! X PS: If you don’t already have your chart you can download it for free at the link above! RESOURCES + LINKS: * Click HERE [https://www.instagram.com/p/DQ4VQWPDiUK/?hl=en] for the chance to win a FREE Human Design chart reading with Dayna. You can also connect through her website HERE [https://www.daynafaye.com/] or on Instagram HERE [https://www.instagram.com/dayna.faye/?hl=en] * GET YOUR FREE GUIDED VISUALISATION: Sign up HERE [https://vip.museyourselfpodcast.com/] to join the MuseLetter list and receive a FREE 10-minute guided visualisation to help you release old identities and step into your most powerful era yet * SUBSCRIBE to my free Substack community HERE [https://gemmaj.substack.com/] to receive new episodes straight to your inbox * CONTACT ME: If you’d like to explore how we can work together you can get in touch HERE [https://forms.gle/ystMC6cHZLFmyhs49] * Make sure you’re subscribed on your favourite podcast platform! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts [https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/whats-your-story/id1725984271] | Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/show/6crrBEwJRMHt5k5YvYFhNn] Get full access to Muse Yourself Podcast at gemmaj.substack.com/subscribe [https://gemmaj.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4]