Where I Meet You

Episode 04: Choosing Yourself

16 min · 24. apr. 2026
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Choosing Yourself What does it really mean to choose yourself—and why can it feel so uncomfortable when you do? In this episode, we explore the quiet tension between who we’ve been expected to be and who we’re becoming. Choosing yourself isn’t always loud or obvious. Sometimes it looks like setting a boundary no one else understands, outgrowing roles that once felt safe, or finally listening to the voice you’ve been ignoring. This isn’t about perfection or having it all figured out. It’s about honesty, responsibility, and the willingness to stand in your own life—even when it changes things. If you’ve been feeling the pull to choose differently, this is a space to sit with that. You don’t have to rush the decision.  But you do have to hear yourself.

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Episode 05: To Be Seen

There's a particular kind of hiding that doesn't look like hiding at all — it looks like skipping the photo, choosing the back row, letting your body take up less space in a room you have every right to fill. In this episode, I'm getting honest about the weight gain I've been navigating and the quiet way it's made me want to disappear. It came into sharp focus on a recent trip to Arizona. Somewhere between the trip I'd been looking forward to and the camera I kept avoiding, I realized how much energy I was spending trying to be unseen — and how exhausting that has become. This episode is me sitting with that discomfort instead of editing it out. We talk about where that urge to vanish really comes from, and how it slowly turns into something else: a meditation on what it actually means to be seen — by others, and by ourselves. Because being seen, at its core, is being loved. And before anyone else can offer us that, we have to be willing to look at ourselves first — all of it, the parts we're proud of and the parts we'd rather crop out — and meet ourselves there with love instead of judgment. This one's a tender one. As always, one micro moment at a time. In this episode: * The vacation moment that cracked something open for me * Why I've been avoiding the camera — and what that avoidance is really protecting * The link between disappearing and not feeling worthy of being seen * Reframing "being seen" as an act of love, starting with ourselves * An invitation to look at yourself — fully — with more compassion

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episode Episode 04: Choosing Yourself artwork

Episode 04: Choosing Yourself

Choosing Yourself What does it really mean to choose yourself—and why can it feel so uncomfortable when you do? In this episode, we explore the quiet tension between who we’ve been expected to be and who we’re becoming. Choosing yourself isn’t always loud or obvious. Sometimes it looks like setting a boundary no one else understands, outgrowing roles that once felt safe, or finally listening to the voice you’ve been ignoring. This isn’t about perfection or having it all figured out. It’s about honesty, responsibility, and the willingness to stand in your own life—even when it changes things. If you’ve been feeling the pull to choose differently, this is a space to sit with that. You don’t have to rush the decision.  But you do have to hear yourself.

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This is the beginning. Where I Meet You is a podcast rooted in presence—meeting ourselves and one another exactly where we are, without rushing, fixing, or pretending we have it all figured out. In this intro episode, I share why this space exists, what the name Where I Meet You truly means, and who this podcast is for. This isn’t about having answers or offering formulas for growth. It’s about slowing down, telling the truth, and creating room for the in-between seasons we so often move through quietly. If you’re navigating change, sitting in uncertainty, or learning how to meet yourself with more honesty and compassion, this podcast was created with you in mind. You don’t need to arrive here healed or whole.  You just need to arrive as you are. This is where we meet.

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