Who Sets This Clock?

20. My mom shares the story of how she found out she was pregnant with me.

This is a wrap on Season 2! Thanks so much for listening. For this episode, I brought on a very special guest, my very own mother. We focus on the story of how she found out she was pregnant with me. It has some twists and turns! We also get into: - How her upbringing shaped her early adulthood - What she wanted to be when she grew up - The emotions and her mentality around this time - Generational cycles, repeated patterns, and double standards - The support systems in place to help her (which included close friends and Planned Parenthood) Mentions: The History of Family Leave Policies in the United States [https://www.oah.org/tah/november-3/the-history-of-family-leave-policies-in-the-united-states/] Teen Births in the United States: Overview and Recent Trends [https://www.congress.gov/crs-product/R45184] Let’s Stay Connected: Email: hello@thisclockpod.com  / Behind-the-scenes + reflections: thisclockpod.substack.com [http://thisclockpod.substack.com/] /  Instagram: @thisclockpod [https://www.instagram.com/thisclockpod]

19. Cynthia, 35, is rewriting her motherhood timeline after a life-changing health diagnosis.

Meet Cynthia. She is a close family friend of mine. Through her teens and 20s, she had a pretty normal life and always added a touch of realism to her perspective on things. In her 20s, she met her now husband and they were building a life together. In her 30s, while they were planning their dream destination wedding, Cynthia received a diagnosis that changed everything, including her timeline for marriage and motherhood. In this episode, we talk about: * How her upbringing and realist point of view shaped her thoughts on marriage and motherhood * She tells the story of how she met her now husband post-college, and we both share our engagement stories  * The shocking diagnosis in her 30s that forced her to cancel her dream destination wedding * Learning how to lean on others for help while going through treatment * After the diagnosis, making the very quick decision to opt for IVF treatments  * Figuring out how to live life as a person in remission and her new perspectives on life * Looking toward her future and pursuing it with intensity and intention  Let’s Stay Connected: Email: hello@thisclockpod.com [hello@thisclockpod.com]  / Behind-the-scenes + reflections: thisclockpod.substack.com [http://thisclockpod.substack.com] /  Instagram: @thisclockpod [https://www.instagram.com/thisclockpod]

18. Allen, 41, shares his viewpoint on home ownership from the perspective as a childfree real estate agent.

Meet Allen. He is a friend through my husband, Zach. They are both part of a tight-knit group of friends that has kept in touch for over a decade. In this episode, we talk about quite a few different topics, including:  * How he found his friend circles that he considers family (he has at least two!) * Sharing the importance of hanging out regularly and staying in touch with friends * Never really wanting to have kids, but loves his role as the fun uncle * Sharing his thoughts on whether home ownership is still part of the American Dream through the lens of a real estate agent (He shares some real estate tips for those wanting to buy a home, too.) * Reaching stability in his 40s is something he places a high value on Mentions:  Allen’s real estate IG page for anyone looking for a home in the LA area! Find him here.  [https://www.instagram.com/allenyangsoldit/] NPR article on the research showing we replace our friends every 7 years.  [https://www.nprillinois.org/2025-06-23/research-shows-we-replace-half-our-friends-every-7-years-heres-how-to-make-new-ones] Let’s Stay Connected: Email: hello@thisclockpod.com [hello@thisclockpod.com]  / Behind-the-scenes + reflections: thisclockpod.substack.com [http://thisclockpod.substack.com] /  Instagram: @thisclockpod [https://www.instagram.com/thisclockpod]

17. Caroline, 39, never expected to be a stay-at-home mom.

Meet Caroline. She is my first out-of-college work bestie. We were so young with bright eyes bushy tails, and driven to get started on our professional career path. During our time together, we became quick friends and have stayed in touch ever since. In this episode, we get into:  * Navigating her timeline with the focus on her career and not really thinking about marriage and having children * Getting a second chance through grad school to move away from home and have a college experience * Pivoting and figuring out her new timeline after a health diagnosis * Learning how to accept not being in the workforce through therapy  * Sharing how she keeps her identity after becoming a mom  Let’s Stay Connected: Email: hello@thisclockpod.com [hello@thisclockpod.com]  / Behind-the-scenes + reflections: thisclockpod.substack.com [http://thisclockpod.substack.com] /  Instagram: @thisclockpod [https://www.instagram.com/thisclockpod]

16. Marissa, 36, read a book with her husband to help with the decision to have a kid or not.

Meet Marissa. In this conversation, we get into a dialogue about making the choice to have kids or not. Her story brings in new topics to the pod, including her upbringing in Mexico and being a dual citizen. In this episode, she shares: * Growing up in Mexico and being a dual citizen in America and how she navigated life across borders * How her parents' working long hours across the border shaped her childhood * Grieving the idea of recreating her own childhood for a future child she would not have * Not wanting to live in the in-between of her choice to have a kid and to be secure in her decision * Sharing a story about friendship tensions between a friend who is a parent and how she worked through them Mentions: The Baby Decision: How to Make The Most Important Choice of Your Life by Merle a Bombardieri [https://bookshop.org/p/books/the-baby-decision-how-to-make-the-most-important-decision-of-your-life-merle-a-bombardieri-msw-licsw/e09010c4eb3bd3c3?ean=9780997500707&next=t] Motherhood – Is It For Me?: Your Step-by-Step Guide to Clarity Denise L. Carlini and Ann Davidman [https://bookshop.org/p/books/motherhood-is-it-for-me-your-step-by-step-guide-to-clarity-ann-davidman/7ea9b6c91fbac4bd?ean=9781945252167&next=t] Pew Research Study Here [https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2024/07/25/the-experiences-of-u-s-adults-who-dont-have-children/] Let’s Stay Connected: Email: hello@thisclockpod.com [hello@thisclockpod.com]  / Behind-the-scenes + reflections: thisclockpod.substack.com [http://thisclockpod.substack.com] /  Instagram: @thisclockpod [https://www.instagram.com/thisclockpod]