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You're Doing it Wrong with Wes and Sarah

Podcast by Wes and Sarah Verhoef

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About You're Doing it Wrong with Wes and Sarah

Welcome to You're Doing It Wrong — the raw, real, and refreshingly honest podcast where Wes and Sarah, married for over 25 years, dive into what it really takes to build a lasting relationship. From the awkward beginnings to deep healing, epic fights to unforgettable laughs, we’re sharing the ups, the downs, and everything in between. No fluff. No filters. Just real-life stories, hard-earned wisdom, and powerful lessons from two people who’ve done a lot of things “wrong” — and somehow still found a way to grow deeper in love. Whether you're dating, newly married, in a long-term relationship, or figuring it all out, this is the relationship podcast you didn’t know you needed. Get ready to feel seen, laugh out loud, and maybe even rethink what love means. Let's heal, grow, and connect — together.

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25 episodes

episode #26 - 25 Years, 25 Lessons in Love: What We’ve Learned in Marriage | You’re Doing It Wrong Podcast artwork

#26 - 25 Years, 25 Lessons in Love: What We’ve Learned in Marriage | You’re Doing It Wrong Podcast

We swap heartfelt (and hilarious) stories about:The 25 things Sarah loves and has learned about Wes 💕The 25 things Wes loves and has learned about Sarah 📝How we navigate real-life chaos, parenthood, and partnershipWhy showing up in the “messy middle” matters more than perfectionTips for connection, curiosity, and making conflict about repair—not winningIf you’ve ever wondered what long-lasting love actually looks like behind the scenes, this anniversary episode is for you. Grab a drink, get a snack, and join us for a conversation about marriage, growth, and choosing each other—again and again.🔔 Subscribe for more real conversations about marriage, connection, and life together.💬 Comment below: What’s the best marriage or relationship lesson you’ve learned so far?marriage podcast, marriage advice, relationship advice, long term relationships, 25th anniversary, marriage lessons, marriage tips, faith and marriage, real marriage talk, couples podcast, connection in marriage, conflict repair, communication in marriage, messy middle, choosing each other, parenting and marriage, love after 25 years, marriage growth, honest marriage conversation, christian marriage, husband and wife podcast, learning in marriage, anniversary episode, you’re doing it wrong podcast, sarah verhoef, wes verhoef“25 lessons in 25 years of marriage”, “how to repair after conflict in marriage”, “what long lasting love really looks like”, “how to stay connected as parents”, “curiosity vs defensiveness in relationships”, “making faith practical in marriage”#Marriage #Relationships #Anniversary #MarriageAdvice #CouplesPodcast #FaithAndMarriage #YoureDoingItWrong #RealLove

1 Oct 2025 - 43 min
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#24 You're Doing it Wrong with Wes and Sarah

What happens when your kids grow up, get married, and start building lives of their own? In this episode of You’re Doing It Wrong, Sarah and Wes sit down with Heather and Jason Martin to talk about the joys and challenges of parenting adult children. From learning to give advice only once, to letting kids make their own choices, to supporting marriages without creating family conflict—this conversation is real, honest, and full of wisdom.They also share stories about blending families, navigating roles in childhood homes, and finding joy in watching kids thrive in their unique paths. Whether you’re raising teenagers, preparing for weddings, or already in the “adult kids” stage, this episode will leave you laughing, reflecting, and inspired.👉 Topics we cover:Communication with adult and married childrenAdvice on letting go and trusting your kidsBalancing family dynamics and in-law relationshipsThe role of parents in grown children’s livesMarriage lessons learned through parentingSubscribe for more authentic conversations on marriage, connection, and family life.🔑 SEO Tags / Keywords:parenting adult childrenhow to parent married kidscommunication with adult childrenfamily dynamics with grown kidsmarriage and parenting podcastadvice for parents of adult childrenletting go as a parentparenting after kids get marriedblending families after marriageYou’re Doing It Wrong podcastSarah and Wes Verhoef podcastreal marriage podcast conversationsraising confident kids into adultssupporting your kids’ marriagemarriage advice for parents of adult kidsadult children boundariesfamily connection podcasthow to enjoy your adult kidsparenting older kids and in-lawsmarriage and family growth📲 Hashtags for Social Media:#ParentingAdultChildren#MarriageAndFamily#MarriagePodcast#ParentingPodcast#FamilyDynamics#RaisingGrownKids#MarriageAdvice#ParentingAdvice#FamilyLife#MarriageGoals#ConnectionAndGrowth#RealMarriageTalk#YoureDoingItWrongPodcast#SarahAndWes#ParentingWithLove#LettingGoAsParents#BlendedFamilies#RaisingConfidentKids#MarriageAndParenting#FamilyConversations

13 Sep 2025 - 30 min
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#23 You're Doing it Wrong with Wes and Sarah

You're Doing it Wrong | The Funniest & Most Honest Marriage Advice We’ve CollectedIn this episode of You’re Doing It Wrong, we (Sarah & Wes) pull back the curtain on nearly 25 years of marriage—the good, the hard, and the hilarious—and share timeless marriage advice that’s helped us (and others) keep choosing each other every day.💍 From funny family stories to wisdom passed down by parents, mentors, and friends, we talk about what really works in marriage—not just clichés, but practical tools you can use to build a relationship that lasts.Here’s what we cover:Why “never go to bed angry” isn’t always the best adviceThe power of forgiveness & choosing each other dailyKeeping your marriage fun, flirty, and full of laughterWhat our kids taught us about love and commitmentReal-life stories about conflict, communication, and compromiseThe secret marriage “code” we use that’s saved us from awkward moments in publicWhy marriage is about being on the same team (not keeping score)Whether you’re newlyweds, married for decades, or preparing for the journey ahead—this conversation will encourage, challenge, and (hopefully) make you laugh along the way.✨ Subscribe on YouTube, Apple Podcasts, and Spotify to hear more honest, unfiltered conversations about marriage, connection, and doing life together.🔑 Suggested Hashtags & KeywordsHashtags:#MarriageAdvice #MarriagePodcast #RelationshipTips #LoveAndMarriage #Connection #YoureDoingItWrong #MarriageHumor #25YearsMarriedKeywords for SEO:Marriage advice that lastsChristian marriage podcastFunny marriage storiesHow to stay married 25 yearsReal talk marriage podcastRelationship communication tipsMarriage humor and lessonsChoosing your spouse dailyForgiveness in marriageSecrets to a strong marriageIn this episode of You’re Doing It Wrong, we (Sarah & Wes) pull back the curtain on nearly 25 years of marriage—the good, the hard, and the hilarious—and share timeless marriage advice that’s helped us (and others) keep choosing each other every day.💍 From funny family stories to wisdom passed down by parents, mentors, and friends, we talk about what really works in marriage—not just clichés, but practical tools you can use to build a relationship that lasts.Here’s what we cover:Why “never go to bed angry” isn’t always the best adviceThe power of forgiveness & choosing each other dailyKeeping your marriage fun, flirty, and full of laughterWhat our kids taught us about love and commitmentReal-life stories about conflict, communication, and compromiseThe secret marriage “code” we use that’s saved us from awkward moments in publicWhy marriage is about being on the same team (not keeping score)Whether you’re newlyweds, married for decades, or preparing for the journey ahead—this conversation will encourage, challenge, and (hopefully) make you laugh along the way.

13 Sep 2025 - 33 min
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You're Doing it Wrong with Wes and Sarah

What’s the real secret to staying happily married for 25 years? 💍 In this episode of You’re Doing It Wrong, Sarah and Wes get real about their “superpower” of staying married through the good, the bad, the beautiful, and the messy parts of life.We dive into:Why lasting love is a daily choice, not a one-time decisionHow faith, perspective, and eternal commitment shape our marriageLearning and growing at your own pace (and together!)Handling mistakes, miscommunication, and forgivenessRaising kids, driving them to school, and making time for one-on-one connectionWhat we’ve learned from mentors, different communities, and our own childrenWhy curiosity, growth, and humor keep marriage aliveThis episode also marks a big announcement 🎉 — we’re adding a brand-new podcast where we’ll teach and share the gospel of Jesus Christ together.If you’ve ever wondered how to keep a marriage strong through challenges like job changes, depression, health struggles, parenting, or just the everyday grind, this conversation will give you hope, perspective, and maybe even a laugh or two.✨ Remember: staying married is a superpower you can choose, build, and grow every day.🔹 SEO Tags / Keywordsmarriage podcast, christian marriage, staying married, marriage advice, relationship podcast, marriage superpower, faith and marriage, 25 years married, marriage growth, how to stay married, christian couple podcast, marriage communication, love and faith, marriage success🔹 Content-Rich Tagsmarriage podcast, staying married, marriage superpower, secrets to a lasting marriage, how to stay married, relationship advice podcast, christian marriage podcast, faith and marriage, marriage communication, 25 years married, marriage growth and commitment, marriage and family podcast, love and marriage lessons, strong marriage secrets, christian couple podcast, how to build a strong marriage, commitment in marriage, relationship growth podcast, how to make marriage last, faith based podcast, marriage struggles and success, christian marriage advice, married 25 years, relationship superpower, how to stay happily married, marriage communication skills, real marriage podcast, growing together in marriage, christian relationship growth, long term marriage secrets, marriage tips podcast

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