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A Buffet of Delicious Slutty Behavior with Callie Little

1 h 25 min · 22 de abr de 2026
Portada del episodio A Buffet of Delicious Slutty Behavior with Callie Little

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Callie Little is a polyamorous, pansexual witch who illustrated and co-authored my favorite tarot deck, Every Little Thing You Do is Magic, and its incredible companion book, which offers readers the opportunity to deepen their relationship with the cards and their own intuition. I reached out to them to replace two cards my dog had chewed up and they responded saying they checked out the pod and wanted to come on if I'd have them. IF I'D HAVE THEM?! I melted and exploded and said absolutely yes, thank you, Universe, and the results were glorious. IN THIS EPISODE: * going from “I’ll try anything once” to… wait, I actually have standards now?? * why you don’t have to earn your desires or make them make sense to anyone else * the difference between real connection and just doing what you think you’re supposed to do * the subtle ways patriarchy trains you to give up your autonomy and call it love * that moment when something clicks and you’re like… oh, this isn’t a choice, this is a cage * how to stay open without ignoring every red flag in front of your face * a definition of cheating that might rearrange your brain a little * what it actually looks like to be yourself first, even in a long-term relationship * how to stop spiraling in shame and start getting curious instead * why you keep wanting people who aren’t that great for you (and what that’s really about) * building relationships based on choice instead of fear, obligation, or habit * a recurring theme: you’re allowed to want what you want. yes, even that. ALSO: * tarot as a tool for figuring your shit out (more useful than you think) * book recs that will absolutely mess with your understanding of love in a good way It's SO GOOD, pinecones! FOLLOW CALLIE: Callie's Instagram: @goshcallie [https://www.instagram.com/goshcallie] Callie's Substack: The Village Witch [https://thevillagewitchperiodical.substack.com/] Callie's podcast: The Pocket Coven [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-pocket-coven/id1534021543] (apologies for calling it the Pocket Oracle in the episode!) Purchase the Every Little Thing You Do is Magic Tarot Deck [https://bookshop.org/p/books/every-little-thing-you-do-is-magic-tarot-a-78-card-deck-and-guidebook-callie-little/375da5ca77564095?ean=9780593580295&next=t] and Companion Book [https://bookshop.org/p/books/every-little-thing-you-do-is-magic-an-interactive-guide-to-tarot-ritual-and-personal-growth-a-tarot-workbook-callie-little/ddaaaa77f5ce8ef1?ean=9780593580301&next=t] Book Callie for tattoo work [https://www.callielittle.com/tattoos] All things Callie: www.callielittle.com [https://www.callielittle.com/] Book & Substack recommendations in this episode: The Ethical Slut [https://bookshop.org/p/books/the-ethical-slut-workbook-an-adventurer-s-companion-to-joyous-sustainable-relationships-of-all-kinds-dossie-easton/2393f0252e4acf86?ean=9780593798775&next=t&utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=%7Bcampaignname%7D&utm_content=6443417794&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=16235479093&gbraid=0AAAAACfld43vcmPtMl__amhasJdk-JfAo&gclid=CjwKCAjwnZfPBhAGEiwAzg-VzIXNAExPCb-5JmT3H_TgMAMP3wnEAcCL35bQlxyzpIsD0Q5ezqmynhoC7KsQAvD_BwE] by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy Matriarchal Blessing on Substack [https://celestemdavis.substack.com/] by Celeste Davis Spells for Transmuting Limerence Into Liberation [https://www.yumisakugawa.com/store/p/spells-for-transmuting-limerence-into-liberation-ebook] by Yumi Sakugawa Love in a F*cked Up World [https://bookshop.org/p/books/love-in-a-f-cked-up-world-how-to-build-relationships-hook-up-and-raise-hell-together-dean-spade/ddff896c26e4cccf?ean=9781643756462&next=t] by Dean Spade Polysecure [https://bookshop.org/p/books/polysecure-attachment-trauma-and-consensual-nonmonogamy-jessica-fern/3871723b9baf49f9?ean=9781944934989&next=t] by Jessica Fern Polywise [https://bookshop.org/p/books/polywise-a-deeper-dive-into-navigating-open-relationships-david-cooley/ef21d822b3d9bd9a?ean=9781990869143&next=t] by Jessica Fern Open Deeply [https://bookshop.org/p/books/open-deeply-a-guide-to-building-conscious-compassionate-open-relationships-kate-loree-lmft/175e4be5a9d635be?ean=9781647423353&next=t] by Kate Loree Adult Braces [https://bookshop.org/p/books/adult-braces-driving-myself-sane-lindy-west/0870b710f235c1b9?ean=9780306831836&next=t] by Lindy West SUPPORT THE SHOW! Subscribe to Samia's Substack [https://samiamounts.substack.com/] Venmo: @Samia-Mounts [https://venmo.com/samia-mounts] CashApp: $SamiaMounts [https://cash.app/samiamounts] Love ya, pinecones! xoxo, Samia Mentioned in this episode: Get 15% off Kenneth Play's Beyond Satisfied Pro course at www.kennethplay.com/closeted Get a 15% discount on all FirmTech products! Use code CLOSETED at check-out. Get a 15% discount on all FirmTech products! Use code CLOSETED at check-out.

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Casual Doesn't Have to Mean Careless with Billy Procida, Jr.

It's my goal to get as many of my comet lovers (and anchor lovers!) on the show as possible, and Billy Procida, Jr., is the first! Huzzah! I have such a crush. Billy is a comedian, writer, and podcaster out of New York City. He's been producing weekly episodes of the Manwhore Podcast for 12 years now, and his Naked Comedy Show - which is exactly what it sounds like - sells out every month in Brooklyn and is now expanding to Philadelphia, Los Angeles, and Chicago. He's been featured in the New York Times and writes about sex, dating, and gender for Mashable. I like Billy because he sounds like straight bro comedians like Joe Rogan could sound like if they weren't so deeply misogynistic. In this episode, we discuss: * Billy's post-breakup happy slut era! Yay! * Why casual doesn't have to mean careless * How to flirt with women without being weird * The surprising secret to getting laid more * Non-monogamy, comet lovers, and relationship freedom * Why nonsexualized nudity is important for sex positivity * Sex parties, gangbang etiquette, and consent-oriented communication that actually works * How to be emotionally available without rushing into commitment SUPPORT BILLY: Billy's Website: www.manwhorepod.com [http://www.manwhorepod.com/] Subscribe to the Manwhore Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-manwhore-podcast-sex-positive-conversations/id864068000 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-manwhore-podcast-sex-positive-conversations/id864068000] Billy on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/billyprocidajr/ [https://www.instagram.com/billyprocidajr/] Billy on Threads: https://www.threads.com/@billyprocidajr [https://www.threads.com/@billyprocidajr] Naked Comedy Show NYC (June 25): https://www.eventbrite.com/e/1989846095236 [https://www.eventbrite.com/e/1989846095236] Naked Comedy Show Chicago (July 10): https://www.eventbrite.com/e/1989444027641 [https://www.eventbrite.com/e/1989444027641] Hear Me Overshare on the Manwhore Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/can-you-switch-from-polyamory-to-monogamy/id864068000?i=1000753133897 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/can-you-switch-from-polyamory-to-monogamy/id864068000?i=1000753133897] SUPPORT THE SHOW! Subscribe to My Substack: https://samiamounts.substack.com [https://samiamounts.substack.com/] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/samia.mounts [https://www.instagram.com/samia.mounts] & http://www.instagram.com/happyslutcast [http://www.instagram.com/happyslutcast] TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@happyslutcast [https://www.tiktok.com/@happyslutcast] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@happyslutcast [https://www.youtube.com/@happyslutcast] Share this episode with a friend, a lover, or somebody who's trying to figure out the difference between casual and careless. Mrow! xoxo, Samia Mentioned in this episode: Get a 15% discount on all FirmTech products! Use code CLOSETED at check-out. Get 15% off Kenneth Play's Beyond Satisfied Pro course at www.kennethplay.com/closeted

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Great Sex Is Healing Me

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Portada del episodio Inside the World of a Professional Orgy Organizer with Ali Bravo

Inside the World of a Professional Orgy Organizer with Ali Bravo

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Mila Jam is an international pop sensation, an artivist (activist + artist), a trans icon, a rising star, and somehow magically also my friend?!?!? How did life get so cool? Mila and I go deep in this conversation. We talk about gender, womanhood, dating, celibacy, the “boyfriend show,” patriarchal conditioning, trans visibility, intimacy, emotional labor, and why so many modern women are just…tired. Also: men will apparently fuck couches. In this episode: * Mila’s journey from Southern Baptist kid to trans icon * How “the boyfriend show” can last years * The surprising freedom of celibacy * Why modern women are exhausted by men * Dating while trans in pre-social media NYC * The difference between being desired and being valued * Ghosting, emotional cowardice, and modern dating culture * How “women have out-menned men” * Patriarchy, power, and emotional labor * What women actually want from men * How to stop accepting breadcrumb relationships * Trans womanhood, safety, intimacy, and visibility * The healing power of women supporting women * Why good treatment matters more than chemistry alone For ALL THINGS Mila: https://www.milajam.com/ [https://www.milajam.com/] Listen to Mila's music: https://open.spotify.com/artist/6m7wJXzvVyE0j6eef6pj1a?si=li_LtmpJSHaHoC99v78yIQ&nd=1&dlsi=8ce32e81b47b4973 [https://open.spotify.com/artist/6m7wJXzvVyE0j6eef6pj1a?si=li_LtmpJSHaHoC99v78yIQ&nd=1&dlsi=8ce32e81b47b4973] Watch Mila's iconic music videos: https://www.youtube.com/user/milajammusic [https://www.youtube.com/user/milajammusic] FOLLOW MILA ON SOCIALS: https://www.instagram.com/themilajam/ [https://www.instagram.com/themilajam/] https://www.tiktok.com/@themilajam [https://www.tiktok.com/@themilajam] SUPPORT THE SHOW! Become a paying Substack subscriber: https://samiamounts.substack.com [https://samiamounts.substack.com] Venmo Samia: @Samia-Mounts / https://account.venmo.com/u/Samia-Mounts [https://account.venmo.com/u/Samia-Mounts] CashApp Samia: $SamiaMounts / https://cash.app/$SamiaMounts [https://cash.app/$SamiaMounts] Email me your thoughts or pitches at happyslutcast@gmail.com. I read every email! Thank you, pinecones! See ya next week. xoxo, Samia Mentioned in this episode: Get 15% off Kenneth Play's Beyond Satisfied Pro course at www.kennethplay.com/closeted Get a 15% discount on all FirmTech products! Use code CLOSETED at check-out.

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