Dillon Cain's The Developmental Gap Podcast

Episode 13: The Adults In The Room - Horace Mann Vs Luhi 2026 NYSAIS Baseball Championship

36 min · 21 de may de 2026
Portada del episodio Episode 13: The Adults In The Room - Horace Mann Vs Luhi 2026 NYSAIS Baseball Championship

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EPISODE 13: CHAMPIONSHIP WEEK & THE ADULTS IN ROOM Stream Now on Apple Podcasts [https://riverside.com/dashboard/studios/the-developmental-gap-podcast/podcast] | Spotify [https://riverside.com/dashboard/studios/the-developmental-gap-podcast/podcast] | YouTube [https://riverside.com/dashboard/studios/the-developmental-gap-podcast/podcast] EPISODE OVERVIEW Welcome to a high-stakes, maximum-intensity edition of The Developmental Gap Podcast. We are coming to you right from the absolute heart of NYC youth baseball championship week. The energy in the city has been electric. We kick things off by breaking down the heavy-hitting Poly Prep vs. The Stony Brook School showdown the night before under the lights at FerryHawk Stadium in Staten Island. Then, we take you straight behind home plate at the SUNY Purchase baseball field for the 2026 NYSAIS Championship matchup between LuHi & Horace Mann. Jumping into the live action during the top of the fifth—just as LuHi answered back with three big runs to break a tie and command a 5-2 lead—hosts Dillon Cain & Jose Franco navigate a true championship environment. And yes, the relentless NY heat actually caused the iPhone video equipment to overheat & stall mid-game, but the audio is fully intact. Every ounce of tension, dugout strategy & raw emotion is captured loud & clear as LuHi pushed ahead to an 11-2 victory. ---------------------------------------- THE MISSION: BEYOND THE BINARY CLICKBAIT In this episode, Dillon and Jose use the backdrop of these high-stakes championship games to unpack the core mission of The Developmental Gap: * The Performance Void: Moving past traditional, rigid mechanics to focus on mental conditioning and proactive awareness. * When the Game Speeds Up: How youth athletes handle sudden shifts in momentum on the big stage. * The Mirror Effect: Recognizing that youth sports don’t just test the kids—they act as a mirror for everyone involved. ---------------------------------------- SPECIAL FEATURE: HOW TO USE "THE MENTAL GAME BEFORE THE MENTAL GAME" This championship week aligns perfectly with the official launch of Jose Franco’s highly anticipated new book, The Mental Game Before The Mental Game: A Parent’s Guide To Coaching Youth Baseball Without Losing Yourself—Or Your Kid. Available completely free (no paywalls, no sponsors) at StoopJuice.com [http://StoopJuice.com], Jose outlines the exact blueprint for how parents and coaches need to approach this text: > This is not a traditional baseball manual. You do not need to read it from cover to cover. Life doesn’t arrive in order, and neither does youth baseball. Instead, use it as a situational toolkit for the emotional side of the sport. Open it when you need it most: * After a painful, completely silent car ride home from a tough loss. * The exact moment your child drops the bombshell: "I think I want to quit." * When a toxic interaction with another parent on the bleachers triggers your own deep-seated insecurity. * The moment you realize your child is carrying a mountain of anxiety that you unknowingly helped create. Each chapter begins with a heavy, philosophical question. Start with the question closest to the discomfort you are feeling right now. Because high-stakes environments rarely reveal only the child. They reveal the adults, too.

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Portada del episodio Episode 16: First Principle

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