Future of Sex

In this episode, host Bryony Cole delves into how AI, particularly ChatGPT, is being used to mediate relationship issues, plan dates, and possibly even save relationships.  Joined by experts like sexologist Kaamna Bhojwani, behavioural scientist Rob Brooks and Nicholas Velotta from the AI intimacy platform Arya, Bryony explores the benefits and drawbacks of integrating AI into our intimate lives.  They discuss the potential of AI to act as a 'third partner,' the importance of human discernment, and whether these technologies enrich or interfere with our connections.  She meets with Abella Bala and Dom Versaci who are experimenting with using ChatGPT in their relationship. Featuring real-life examples and expert insights, this episode raises critical questions about the future of love and intimacy in the age of AI.

The world of sex, love, and intimacy is changing—faster than ever. For years, Future of Sex has explored the cutting edge of human connection. But this season? We’re pushing the conversation even further. A new season, new voices, and the biggest questions yet... Is AI helping your love life or killing it? Are dating apps secretly ruining your game? Who decided sex gets worse with age? Can psychedelics take your sex life to another level? How did a 'back massager' become a billion-dollar secret? If all of this sounds like your kind of thing, you can help us keep it going if you subscribe to our channel, and send us your questions (ask@futureofsex.com)

This week’s episode features two leading experts on human sexuality, Dr. Justin Lehmiller, Kinsey Institute fellow and author and Sara Tang, sex coach and podcast host. They talk us through some fascinating insights into how we can talk about our sexual fantasies and explain that fantasies are a normal thing and how to explore them. We’ll also be looking at how technology might help us live out our wildest sex dreams. To learn more about this show, visit FutureOfSex.org [https://www.futureofsex.org/]. To keep up with all things Future of Sex, follow us on Instagram @futureofsex [https://www.instagram.com/futureofsex/] and Twitter @futureofsexshow [https://twitter.com/futureofsexshow]. Guests: Dr Justin Lehmiller, Kinsey Institute fellow, founder of Sex and Psychology website [https://www.sexandpsychology.com/] https://www.sexandpsychology.com/author of Tell Me What You Want, The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help Improve Your Sex Life [https://www.sexandpsychology.com/books/] and Sara Sense, Sex coach and Sexologist, you can listen to her podcast Better in Bed here [https://www.sarasense.com/podcast]  Sponsors We-Vibe: We-Vibe are creator's of the world's best couples vibes and our favourites when it comes to innovation in sex toys. Check out We-Vibe's Touch X which is not only a Swiss army knife for your pleasure (7 vibration modes) - visit at www.wevibe.com [https://we-vi.be/Future_of_Sex] for more info! From November 24th check out We-Vibe’s Black Friday sale with up to 50% discounts on selected products! Pure: As mentioned in today’s episode by Sara the Pure app is the ultimate dating app to explore all your fantasies and desires. Pure is all about honest dating without shame. Pure works as online board with classified ads where people write what kind of experiences they are looking for, which can be specific kinks, a date for a wine/coffee or maybe invitation to museum/cinema. You decide. To download Pure, follow the link here [https://puredating.app.link/q14l3A2M7kb] Frenchie: Frenchie has been created for a new generation of lovers. They believe sex should be fun, natural, simple and safe for everyone - just like your sexual wellness products should be! Frenchie have a range of lubes and condoms all made with vegan and natural ingredients. Check out their latest Lovers Kit [https://getfrenchie.com/collections/bundles-kits/products/lovers-kit] for a passionate weekend or night in ;) Credits Host: Bryony Cole on IG @bryonycole [https://www.instagram.com/bryonycole] Twitter @bryonycole [https://twitter.com/bryonycole], www.bryonycole.co [http://www.bryonycole.co/] Producers: Bryony Cole and David Lamb on IG: @davylamb [https://www.instagram.com/davylamb] Editor: Chad Michael Snavely on Twitter @chad_michael [https://chad_michael/], www.chadmichael.com [http://www.chadmichael.com/]

In sex we often hear about foreplay, positions, erogenous zones, types of sex, where to do it? How to do it?...but what about after sex? This week we’re talking about all things Aftercare and how important it is to have post sex routine; from a cuddle and a chat to just needing to be alone - we all have different needs after sex. Bryony interviews two experts on the subject, Allison Moon author of Getting It: A Guide to Healthy Hook-ups and Shame Free Sex [http://girlsex101.com/getting-it-new/] and Kee Simone, founder of lovedbyher.com [//www.lovedbyher.com] a digital platform celebrating black queer love. In the episode they discuss different forms of aftercare, when and why we need it, along with some tips on how to communicate your aftercare requirements to your lover or partner. From one night stands, relationship sex and even after the sex sucked - Allison and Kee are here to help. To learn more about this show, visit FutureOfSex.org [https://www.futureofsex.org/]. Follow us on Instagram @futureofsex [https://www.instagram.com/futureofsex/] and Twitter @futureofsexshow [https://twitter.com/futureofsexshow]. Guests: Allison Moon and Kee Simone Sponsors We-Vibe: We-Vibe are creator's of the world's best couples vibes and our favourites when it comes to innovation in sex toys. Check out We-Vibe's Touch X which is not only a Swiss army knife for your pleasure (7 vibration modes) which also doubles as a face massager and beauty tool recently voted as one of the best beauty and wellness gadgets in 2021 - visit at www.wevibe.com [https://we-vi.be/FutureOfSex] for more info! Rugiet Ready - Did you know that Erectile Dysfunction can affect 1 in 10 penis owners in their lifetime? If this is something that has affected you or your partner, look no further than Rugiet, a fast acting ED med available now in 31 US States. Rugiet Ready’s board-certified doctors will prescribe a custom dose per the unique needs of each member through their telehealth service on www.rugiet.com [https://www.rugietmen.com/?utm_source=Future%20Of%20Sex&utm_medium=Show%20Notes&utm_campaign=Podcast] If you’d like to give it a try, we have a promo code for 20% off your first order use the code: FOS at the checkout! Future of Sex - connect with us! @futureofsex [http://www.instagram.com/futureofsex] on IG @futureofsexshow [http://twitter.com/futureofsexshow] on Twitter www.futureofsex.org [http://www.futureofsex.org/] Credits Host: Bryony Cole on IG @bryonycole [https://www.instagram.com/bryonycole] Twitter @bryonycole [https://twitter.com/bryonycole], www.bryonycole.co [http://www.bryonycole.co/] Producers: Bryony Cole and David Lamb on IG: @davylamb [https://www.instagram.com/davylamb] Editor: Chad Michael Snavely on Twitter @chad_michael [https://chad_michael/],

The Hot Vax Summer is upon us, how are we feeling about it? After all this time locked down, are we finally ready to get back out there? We’ve had so much time in the last year to think about what we want in a partner, but are we ready to find them and how do we go about it? This week Bryony chats with Tiff Baira, NYC’s ultimate dating coach and our Hot Vax Summer guide. In the episode Tiff breaks down all the old dating rules and gives us tips on how we go about creating boundaries when dating, getting what you want and ultimately being the bouncer to your own club. Whether you’re dating for the first time in a while, working out what you want to hook-up etiquette, Tiff’s got you covered! To learn more about this show, visit FutureOfSex.org [https://www.futureofsex.org/]. To keep up with all things Future of Sex, follow us on Instagram @futureofsex [https://www.instagram.com/futureofsex/] and Twitter @futureofsexshow [https://twitter.com/futureofsexshow]. Guests:  Tiff Baira https://www.takemeoutwithtiff.com [https://www.takemeoutwithtiff.com] Tiff's TikTok [https://www.tiktok.com/@tiffbaira?source=h5_m] Sponsors Womanizer: The ultimate toy when it comes to clitoral stimulation! The Womanizer uses Pleasure Air Technology to simulate the feeling of oral sex without ever touching the clitoris. Check out their latest innovation with their first ever toy made from sustainable, renewable materials - the Premium Eco [https://wowtech.go2cloud.org/aff_c?offer_id=5&aff_id=1017] Rugiet: Did you know that Erectile Dysfunction can affect 1 in 10 penis owners in their lifetime? If this is something that has affected you or your partner, look no further than Rugiet, a fast acting ED med available now in 31 US States. Rugiet Ready’s board-certified doctors will prescribe a custom dose per the unique needs of each member through their telehealth service on www.rugiet.com [https://www.rugietmen.com/?utm_source=Future%20Of%20Sex&utm_medium=Show%20Notes&utm_campaign=Podcast] If you’d like to give it a try, we have a promo code for 20% off your first order use the code: FOS at the checkout! Future of Sex - connect with us! @futureofsex [http://www.instagram.com/futureofsex] on IG @futureofsexshow [http://twitter.com/futureofsexshow] on Twitter www.futureofsex.org [http://www.futureofsex.org/] Credits Host: Bryony Cole on IG @bryonycole [https://www.instagram.com/bryonycole] Twitter @bryonycole [https://twitter.com/bryonycole], www.bryonycole.co [http://www.bryonycole.co/] Producers: Bryony Cole and David Lamb on IG: @davylamb [https://www.instagram.com/davylamb] Editor: Chad Michael Snavely on Twitter @chad_michael [https://chad_michael/], www.chadmichael.com [http://www.chadmichael.com/]