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The Life Insurance Wake-Up Call for Women Over 40

32 min · 30 de mar de 2026
Portada del episodio The Life Insurance Wake-Up Call for Women Over 40

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It's a tale as old as time. Four male investment managers try to tell a woman that a product she's interested in doesn't exist. How does she know they're wrong? She literally traded them when she worked at Goldman Sachs. That's just one moment that inspired Wallis Tsai to start her own company, AboveBoard Financial, built on the idea that you deserve straight answers about your insurance. We get into red flags to watch for when choosing an agent, the real difference between term and permanent life insurance, why your workplace coverage probably isn't the deal you think it is, and what to do if you're in your 40s or 50s and haven't tackled this yet. Don't want to take notes? We did it for you. Grab the cheat sheet [http://grownasswoman.guide/insurancecheatsheet] that covers all three episodes. Mentioned in this episode: Get The House Manual Today The simple system that puts everything about running your home in one place so you can find what you need, stay ahead of maintenance, and stop telling yourself you’ll remember that thing later. Running a home comes with a ridiculous amount of information. Utility accounts. Appliance manuals. Warranty information. The contractor who fixed the roof two years ago. The paint color in the hallway. Where the hell the water shutoff is. The problem isn’t just collecting it all. It’s knowing where to find it when you actually need it. The House Manual gives every important detail about your home one permanent place. House Manual [https://grownasswomansguide.captivate.fm/housemanual]

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