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Help! I Need an Adult Money -When You Suddenly Become the Adult in the Room with Dr. Jordan Grumet

When did you become the adult in the room? For many of us, it happens without warning. One day your parents are handling everything. The next day you're trying to figure out where the bank accounts are, who's paying the bills, whether there's a will, and how you're supposed to make decisions nobody prepared you for. In this episode of our Help! I Need an Adult series, we sit down with hospice physician, author, and podcast host Dr. Jordan Grumet to talk about the financial, emotional, and practical realities of caring for aging parents and loved ones. We discuss: * Why financial power of attorney may be the most important document you've never completed * How to start difficult conversations before a crisis happens * What to do when you suddenly become responsible for a parent's finances * The difference between dignity and safety when making care decisions * Medicaid, long-term care, and the realities families face when money is tight * Why these situations are often more about agency than finances * ICE (In Case of Emergency) binders and family planning conversations * What Jordan has learned from years of caring for patients at the end of life Whether you're helping aging parents, caring for a spouse, planning for your own future, or simply realizing nobody handed you the instruction manual for adulthood, this conversation is packed with practical advice and perspective. ABOUT DR. JORDAN GRUMET Dr. Jordan Grumet (Doc G) is a hospice physician, author, speaker, and host of the Earn & Invest Podcast. His work explores the intersection of money, purpose, legacy, and the lessons we can learn from people at the end of life. CONNECT WITH JORDAN * Jordan Grumet Official Website [https://jordangrumet.com/?utm_source=chatgpt.com] * Earn & Invest Podcast [https://www.earnandinvest.com/?utm_source=chatgpt.com] * The Purpose Code [https://jordangrumet.com/books?utm_source=chatgpt.com] * Taking Stock: A Hospice Doctor's Advice on Financial Independence, Building Wealth, and Living a Regret-Free Life [https://jordangrumet.com/books?utm_source=chatgpt.com] * The Healthcare Heist [https://jordangrumet.com/books?utm_source=chatgpt.com] * The Purpose Code Newsletter (Substack) [https://jordangrumet.substack.com/?utm_source=chatgpt.com] MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE * Financial Power of Attorney * Estate Planning * Elder Care Attorneys * Long-Term Care Planning * Medicaid & Medicare Resources * ICE (In Case of Emergency) Binders * Family Financial Meetings

We Thought There'd Be More Adults: Caring for Aging Parents, New Responsibilities & the Gen X Crisis

What happens when the people who always told you to "figure it out" suddenly need you to figure it out for them? In this episode of High Five Hot Mess, Lisa Wilson and Lisa Smith talk about the moment so many adults eventually face: becoming responsible for aging parents, family finances, medical decisions, caregiving, and problems nobody prepared us to handle. Growing up Gen X, many of us learned how to survive on our own. We were the latchkey kids, the problem-solvers, the ones who figured things out because there wasn't another option. But no one prepared us for the day we'd be asked to take care of the very people who raised us. The Lisas share personal stories about growing up independent, helping sick parents, managing family crises, navigating money problems, and discovering that caregiving is far more complicated than anyone warns you about. If you've ever found yourself coordinating doctor appointments, helping with bills, managing a parent's health crisis, worrying about dementia, or wondering how you somehow became the responsible adult in the room, this conversation is for you. IN THIS EPISODE • Growing up Gen X and learning to survive on your own • The moment you realize you're now the adult • Caring for aging parents who don't want help • Family finances, joint accounts, and difficult money conversations • Caregiver stress, burnout, and responsibility overload • Sibling dynamics during family crises • Why caregiving creates family conflict • End-of-life conversations nobody wants to have • What happens when parents never planned for aging • Becoming the family fixer COMING SOON: HELP! I NEED AN ADULT This episode launches a new HFHM mini-series exploring questions so many families are facing right now: • Help! I Need an Adult: Cancer • Help! I Need an Adult: Dementia • Help! I Need an Adult: Family Finances • Help! I Need an Adult: End-of-Life Planning We'll be bringing in experts to help answer the questions we wish someone had answered for us. JOIN THE CONVERSATION What's the most adult responsibility you've been unexpectedly handed? Have you found yourself caring for a parent, spouse, sibling, or family member when you never imagined you'd be responsible for someone else's survival? Tell us your story in the comments. Keywords: aging parents, family caregiving, caregiver stress, Gen X, sandwich generation, elder care, dementia, family finances, adult children, caregiving burnout, caregiving responsibilities, helping aging parents, family dynamics, caregiver support, High Five Hot Mess podcast.

I Love AI. It Also Made Me Cry. Twice.

This week, AI made Lisa cry. Twice. Not because of a family crisis. Not because of work. Not because of a fight. Because of robots. One chatbot refused to schedule carpet cleaning no matter how many times Lisa Smith explained she never picked Sunday. Meanwhile, Lisa Wilson spent four weeks battling podcast software, support tickets, audio glitches, AI processing, and what can only be described as robot nonsense. The weird part? Lisa loves AI. AI helped create the High Five Hot Mess intro music. AI helps brainstorm ideas, organize thoughts, and turn messy concepts into something useful. So how can something be both amazing and absolutely infuriating? In this episode, Lisa and Lisa discuss: • AI customer service fails • The chatbot that wouldn't stop arguing • How AI nearly broke their podcast • AI actors, AI voices, and the future of entertainment • Whether AI is really coming for our jobs • The environmental impact of data centers • Why Lisa says "please" and "thank you" to AI • Finding balance before the robot overlords arrive Plus, the question we're all trying to answer: Is AI making our lives better... or just making us cry in new and creative ways? 🖐 We'd love to hear from you: What's one thing AI has made better in your life? And what's one thing you never want AI to replace? Connect with us: YouTube: High Five Hot Mess Podcast Instagram: @highfivehotmess Facebook: High Five Hot Mess Podcast Remember to hydrate, unclench your jaw, roll your shoulders back, and high five somebody.

I Love My Life. Why Do I Want to Run Away from Home at 55?

I had a go bag. Not a hurricane go bag. A leave-my-life go bag. For years, Lisa Wilson kept a secret "leave-my-life" bag at work...cash, a burner phone, extra clothes, and a plan to disappear if she ever needed to start over. The strange part? She wasn't trying to escape a bad life. She loved her husband. She loved her friends. She loved her job. So why did she still feel the need to have an exit strategy? In this episode of High Five Hot Mess, Lisa Wilson and Lisa Smith explore the difference between performing a life and actually living one. They talk about: ✅ The secret "go bag" that started a seven-month therapy conversation ✅ Feeling grateful for your life while still feeling disconnected from it ✅ Why so many people fantasize about running away, starting over, or living a completely different life ✅ The hobbies, dreams, and parts of ourselves that quietly disappear as responsibilities grow ✅ Being known only as "the capable one" ✅ Why "just because I'm good at it doesn't mean I want to do it" became the accidental theme of the episode ✅ Fantasy careers, floral shops, dance studios, cult leadership, and the lives we imagine we'd be living if nobody expected anything from us Most importantly, they ask a question many people secretly wonder: Are you living your life... or performing it? ---------------------------------------- Question for the comments: What percentage of your life feels like living... and what percentage feels like performing? ---------------------------------------- 🎙️ High Five Hot Mess is a comfort-comedy podcast about friendship, reinvention, happiness, modern life, and all the weird contradictions that come with being human. If you've ever looked around and thought: "Wait... how did I get here?" This episode is for you. ❤️ #HighFiveHotMess #Podcast #Midlife #Friendship #LifeTransitions #Authenticity #PersonalGrowth #WomenOver40 #GenX #ComfortComedy #Reinvention #MentalHealth #SelfDiscovery #PerformingALife #LivingYourLife

Do People Who Say NO...Live Longer?

Do people who say no actually live longer? This week Lisa and Lisa get into the emotional cost of always saying yes — and why so many women feel guilty setting boundaries, disappointing people, or putting themselves first. It starts with a study Lisa found claiming that people who resist outside pressure and act on their own terms may actually live longer. Which immediately sent both of them into a spiral about: • people pleasing • guilt • over-functioning • emotional exhaustion • and why women are so often taught that saying no makes them selfish They also talk about: • growing up in the 70s where “no” wasn’t really an option • why Lisa Smith says yes to almost everything • why Lisa Wilson absolutely does not • workplace pressure and career boundaries • friendship guilt • negotiating commitments instead of automatically saying yes • and whether constantly saying yes slowly disconnects us from ourselves This episode is not about becoming ruthless or cutting everyone off. It’s about figuring out where the line is between being kind… and disappearing yourself in the process. Mentioned in this episode: @mrsemmawalz Follow High Five Hot Mess everywhere: Instagram: @highfivehotmess YouTube: High Five Hot Mess Podcast