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Raise Your Standards or Stay Stuck | Self-Worth, Dating & Personal Growth

3 min · 8 de may de 2026
Portada del episodio Raise Your Standards or Stay Stuck | Self-Worth, Dating & Personal Growth

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In this episode of my girl talk podcast, we talk about self-worth, standards, and why raising your standards can completely change your life. If you’ve been settling in relationships, friendships, or even in how you treat yourself, this episode is for you. Sometimes staying stuck has less to do with your circumstances and more to do with what you continue to accept. Growth starts when your standards do. We get into dating, boundaries, confidence, and learning how to stop shrinking yourself just to keep people comfortable. It’s giving tough love, personal growth, and choosing better for yourself. If you’re on a self-discovery journey and stepping into a higher version of yourself, this conversation will hit.

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