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Is it okay to 'OUT' closeted Conservatives??

1 h 3 min · 10 de jun de 2026
Portada del episodio Is it okay to 'OUT' closeted Conservatives??

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A big question on our minds as we attempt to resist and overthrow fascism is always... "should we use the tools of the enemy while fighting them"?? One of those weapons that they wield so proudly is "outing" closeted queer people to endanger our lives and get us ostracized from our communities. So the question on our minds is... do we fight fire with fire? Should we be "outing" the anti-LGBTQIA2S+ people who are secretly DL for us?? On one side: LAURA, taking the affirmative, and on the other: CHLOE, arguing the negative. If y'all like this, we have plenty more ideas for things we could debate--things that we MOSTLY agree with each other on but there's always a little piece of disagreement. Leave a comment if you have more debate ideas, or if you agree or disagree with any of our points! ALSO! If you haven't joined it yet... things are popping OFF over on our Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/cw/LadyandTheTransPodcast 😍 We update with (at least !) 3 new videos a month, including 1) Get Ready With Mes, 2) Magic the Gathering games, 3) Random BTS footage/Bloopers, & 4) Off-the-wall conversations/debates where we theorize about everything--from the potential existence of 4th Dimensional Beings, to deep conversations where we challenge each other's beliefs and habits to continue to become better allies. Go now, so you don't miss out! Gogogo! 00:00 Preview/Breakdown 0:04:39 Opening Statements 0:11:00 WHEN is it okay? 0:17:39 Source of Hate 0:22:46 Redemption? 0:26:55 The Message it sends 0:35:46 Changing Minds 0:38:50 Ammunition 0:46:35 Final Arguments 0:51:34 Dealing with Bullies 1:00:17 Takeaways Like, subscribe, and leave us a review on the podcast app of your choice (please?) for more from The Lady and the Trans Podcast. New full episodes on Wednesdays! If you have any feedback or questions, we'd love to hear from you! Email us or reach out on our socials: Email: LadyAndTheTransPodcast@gmail.com IG/Threads: @LadyAndTheTrans_ @nochlosbard @Laura_Canyon_ TikTok: @Laura_Canyon_ @LadyAndTheTransPodcast #pridemonth  #dl  #debates  #jubilee  #politics  #lgbtqia

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Portada del episodio What CIS people DON'T understand about transition

What CIS people DON'T understand about transition

Cis people -- mainly the transphobic ones , but some "allies" as well -- are often fed propaganda about trans people & how transition works, so we wanted to set the record straight! In this PART TWO of our "what cis people & transphobes don't understand about transition and trans people" episode, we explain why people misunderstand so much about the process! Follow us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/cw/TheGenderYapPodcast 😍 SWERF & TERF Ideology IS misogyny: https://youtu.be/AZmEYOZ4Vzk DEBUNKING 15 Transphobic Beliefs: https://youtu.be/nDGOugn-rGo Subscribe to our Shorts channel: https://youtube.com/@TheGenderYapClips IG/Threads: @TheGenderYap TikTok: @TheGenderYap Email: TheGenderYap@gmail.com Like, subscribe, comment, and make sure you have notifications on! SHOUTOUTS: N/A 00:00 Hook 0:00:57 Theme Song 0:01:32 Intro/Welcome 0:03:27 "Bra Phase" - Baby Trans 0:07:59 Child-like joy 0:09:46 Thieves of joy 0:11:57 Trans power/Feeling yourself 0:14:20 Femininity: sexualized 0:18:33 Internalized misogyny 0:22:42 Trans Men 0:24:42 Ideal Men 0:26:36 Dylan Mulvaney 0:28:20 Being two ages 0:29:46 Sisterhood 0:32:30 Ped0 culture 0:36:03 Relating to each other 0:37:00 Wrap it up #cisgender #transition #thegenderyappodcast #puberty #hormones #girlhood  We've lightly touched on some of these ideas in past episodes, but for this week, we wanted to REALLY explore a number of things that cis people (mainly the transphobic ones, but it's not just them) don't understand. In this episode, we explore a number of misconceptions about transition: the early life of trans people, going through puberty as an adult, child-like joy, the bra phase, how it feels to finally love yourself, how being trans in a world that hates us is POWER, the ways that femininity is sexualized (and how that plays a HUGE role in transmisogyny), TERF projection, why it's so easy for cis people to mistake trans joy as sexual, ped0 culture, why the world was so angry with Dylan Mulvaney, how the experiences of trans men differ from trans women, why trans men are usually IDEAL mean, and how patriarchy plays a role in ALL of this.

8 de jul de 202638 min
Portada del episodio Emotional HRT changes that you (probably) DON'T know about! (Pt 2)

Emotional HRT changes that you (probably) DON'T know about! (Pt 2)

Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) is one of the MOST crucial and LEAST understood aspects of transition. Most TERFy people don't even seem to know or understand THAT we (trans people) take hormones, let alone what they DO to our bodies and our minds. They insist that we're "men wearing a dress & makeup" while completely overlooking the RADICAL changes that our bodies undergo due to feminizing hormones. From breast growth to fat redistribution to LITERAL, MEASURABLE changes to the shape of our brains... this episode is gonna open your minds to the vast and misunderstood world of HRT. Follow us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/cw/TheGenderYapPodcast 😍 Why do we give HRT to KIDS?: https://youtu.be/mpGmTSxQ_C8 Subscribe to our Shorts channel: https://youtube.com/@TheGenderYapClips IG/Threads: @TheGenderYap TikTok: @TheGenderYap Email: TheGenderYap@gmail.com Like, subscribe, comment, and make sure you have notifications on! SHOUTOUTS: N/A 00:00 Hook 0:01:02 Theme Song 0:01:36 Intro/Welcome 0:03:08 Emotional Changes 0:12:13 Mental Health Boost 0:14:30 Odor / Bathrooms 0:19:14 Sensory Changes 0:20:52 Shrinking 0:23:19 Brain Change 0:26:22 Progesterone / Periods 0:29:00 Other Effects 0:29:53 Biological Women 0:33:44 Permanent Changes #HRT #transmedicine #hormones #transition #thegenderyappodcast #dysphoria  Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) is one of the MOST crucial and LEAST understood aspects of transition. Most TERFy people don't even seem to know or understand THAT we take hormones, let alone what they DO to our bodies and our minds. They insist that we're "men wearing a dress & makeup" while completely overlooking the RADICAL changes that our bodies undergo due to feminizing hormones. Sex Drive? Consider it GONE. Ability to penetrate? Not anymore! Today, we're mainly focusing on the EMOTIONAL, MENTAL, and SPIRITUAL changes that occur when we go on HRT. Our mental health improves dramatically, and we're literally capable of feeling and expressing NEW emotions that we never previously knew existed! We're gonna walk you through all of it today. So... what *DOES* HRT do to trans people?

5 de jul de 202635 min
Portada del episodio What transphobes DON'T understand about TRANS people (Part 1)

What transphobes DON'T understand about TRANS people (Part 1)

Cis people -- mainly the transphobic ones (some "allies" as well) -- are often fed propaganda about trans people and how transition works, so we wanted to set the record straight (gay). We explain a number of misconceptions about transition and the early life of trans people, health discrimination, the weird "oppression olympics" game that people play, why it's so hard for people to wrap their heads around what it's like to be trans, and how privilege plays into all of it! Follow us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/cw/TheGenderYapPodcast 😍 DEBUNKING 15 Transphobic Beliefs: https://youtu.be/nDGOugn-rGo SWERF & TERF Ideology IS misogyny: https://youtu.be/AZmEYOZ4Vzk Subscribe to our Shorts channel: https://youtube.com/@TheGenderYapClips IG/Threads: @TheGenderYap TikTok: @TheGenderYap Email: TheGenderYap@gmail.com Like, subscribe, comment, and make sure you have notifications on! SHOUTOUTS: N/A 00:00 Hook 0:00:52 Theme Song 0:01:26 Intro/Welcome 0:02:51 Structure/Summary 0:04:55 Plugs 0:08:07 Becoming TERFy 0:11:21 Penis Envy + Psychology 0:13:41 Health Discrimination 0:17:03 Oppression Olympics 0:18:55 Heal Your Trauma 0:21:32 Wrong Body / Hormone Imbalance 0:24:23 Hard to Understand 0:26:48 Cis White Het 0:28:05 Privilege & Empathy 0:32:00 Next Week (Part 2!) #cisgender #transition #thegenderyappodcast #dysphoria #oppression #terf  We've lightly touched on some of these ideas in past episodes, but for this week, we wanted to REALLY explore a number of things that cis people (mainly the transphobic ones, but it's not just them) don't understand. First, we explore HOW someone becomes a TERF using Laura's real experience having almost been sucked down that pipeline online, then we explain a number of misconceptions about transition: the early life of trans people, health discrimination, the weird "oppression olympics" game that people play, why it's so hard for people to wrap their heads around what it's like to be trans, p*nis envy, and how privilege plays into all of it!

1 de jul de 202633 min
Portada del episodio Physical HRT changes that you (probably) DON'T know about!!

Physical HRT changes that you (probably) DON'T know about!!

Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) is one of the MOST crucial and LEAST understood aspects of transition. Most TERFy people don't even seem to know or understand THAT we (trans people) take hormones, let alone what they DO to our bodies and our minds. They insist that we're "men wearing a dress & makeup" while completely overlooking the RADICAL changes that our bodies undergo due to feminizing hormones. From breast growth to fat redistribution to LITERAL, MEASURABLE changes to the shape of our brains... this episode is gonna open your minds to the vast and misunderstood world of HRT. Follow us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/cw/TheGenderYapPodcast 😍 History of Trans Medicine: https://youtu.be/uP_DGoRqNH8 Subscribe to our Shorts channel: https://youtube.com/@thegenderyapclips IG/Threads: @TheGenderYap TikTok: @TheGenderYap Email: TheGenderYap@gmail.com Like, subscribe, comment, and make sure you have notifications on! SHOUTOUTS: N/A 00:00 Hook 0:00:42 Theme Song 0:01:17 Intro/Welcome 0:04:24 Structure 0:07:35 Breast Growth 0:11:09 Fat Redistribution 0:12:27 Skin Texture 0:15:24 Skin Oil 0:16:19 Muscle Mass 0:17:47 Body Hair 0:19:58 Shrinkage 0:28:17 Sex Drive 0:29:18 "O" My God #HRT #transmedicine #hormones #transition #thegenderyappodcast #dysphoria  Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) is one of the MOST crucial and LEAST understood aspects of transition. Most TERFy people don't even seem to know or understand THAT we take hormones, let alone what they DO to our bodies and our minds. They insist that we're "men wearing a dress & makeup" while completely overlooking the RADICAL changes that our bodies undergo due to feminizing hormones. Sex Drive? Consider it GONE. Ability to penetrate? Not anymore! Then there's the breast growth, fat redistribution, skin texture change, shrinkage (in so many different ways), utter lack of testosterone, muscle mass decrease... and SO many more. We're gonna walk you through it today. So... what DOES HRT do to trans people?

28 de jun de 202632 min
Portada del episodio Were Trans Women socialized as MEN??

Were Trans Women socialized as MEN??

TERFs love to say that Trans Women can't be "real women" because they were "socialized as men," or "experienced male privilege," so we're here to explore how socialization plays into gender and self-identity and whether or not it plays any role in the way that trans women exist! Follow us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/cw/TheGenderYapPodcast 😍 Debunking 15 Transphobic Beliefs: https://youtu.be/nDGOugn-rGo Subscribe to our Shorts channel: https://youtube.com/@Ladyandthetransclips IG/Threads: @TheGenderYap TikTok: @TheGenderYap Email: TheGenderYap@gmail.com Like, subscribe, comment, and make sure you have notifications on! SHOUTOUTS: N/A 00:00 Hook 0:00:51 Theme Song 0:01:25 Intro/Welcome 0:02:30 The Argument 0:04:44 1. "Think Like Men" 0:09:28 2. "Never sexualized" 0:12:31 Womanhood is FUN! 0:15:09 Entitlement 0:20:07 3. "Socialized Different" 0:24:57 Relating to Girls 0:28:35 Female Role Models 0:34:02 4. "Male Privilege" 0:43:15 5. "Periods" 0:47:25 Takeaways / Examples #socialization #transrightsarehumanrights #feminism #lgbtqia #terfs  #thegenderyappodcast #ladyandthetranspodcast TERFs (Trans Exclusive Radical Feminists) [aka FARTs -- Feminism Appropriating Radical Transphobes] love to say that Transgender Women aren't "real women" because they were "socialized as men," or "experienced male privilege," and we're here to debunk that idea in every way we know how! In this episode, we break down FIVE (5!) different TERFy ideas about how trans women are "socialized male," including that they "think like men," "didn't experience sexualization as a child," experienced "male socialization," enjoyed "male privilege," and never had to suffer the agonies of a period. Is there ANY truth to their ideas, or is it just transphobia all the way down??

24 de jun de 202652 min