Sexual Geomancy and Cosmic Gridwork 🌈🧘🏽‍♀️☀️

Life after Sexual Abuse: A path to healing and wholeness in your sex, love and intimacy.

It’s more common than most people want to admit - a large percentage of Americans have experienced unwanted sexual contact as a child. If you or someone you know has had this experience, there is a path forward. A very tender, gentle, and beautiful process. As someone who has facilitated healing in this realm for 15 years, I have seen many people not only heal and recover from these traumas, but thrive and even become leaders of empowerment and liberation. In this episode, I outline some of the elements that support healing. A process of healing the body, retraining, remembering, and finally reigniting.  Of course the process begins with safety in the body, how to come to safety within your own body. And ultimately, what is broken in relationship must be healed in relationship. So once it’s safe enough, some of the healing will come in relationship with others. We no longer have rites of passage that are built into our culture to formally train us to move from childhood to adulthood. In the modern world, our entire lives are a rite of passage, a mystery school for learning and growing. We have to put together our own curriculum or program, find our own teachers and healers and helpers.  Fortunately, there are many helpers out there now. I list some options, and also invite you into my spaces which are designed for this kind of healing. What will your hero’s journey look like? Do you have a desire to walk through these gates to your own inner liberation? Your healing journey might, in the future, be a beacon of light for others precisely because of your very unique experiences. After all, it’s love that continues life, and you deserve all of the love in the world, dear one. All of the love in the world. ❤️ Hi, I'm your host River! I'm an erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness.  Let's hop on the phone and talk about where you're going in love, sex and intimacy! Apply here for a free call, I'd love to chat with you. 🤸🏼‍♀️ Oh, and ... my gift to you darling, I hope you enjoy ❤️  ✨ The Lost Art of Sexual Fantasy ~ Become an Artist of your own Spirit ✨ https://www.riverroaring.com/

Have you ravished someone today … yet? 😉 Stop over-giving, care-taking and people-pleasing in bed.

“Darling, may I have you?” I asked the question. “May I have my way with you until this timer goes off?” He said yes. That’s when time stopped. The past dropped away. The future dropped away. And I entered the eternal now. That primal place where I can hear my soul. The sensory universe. Where all that exists is delicious sensory input. Skin warm against my hand. Hair tickling my wrist. Tingles rippling through my body. The sound of the birds. Our breathe.  … My partner became my feast. In this episode, I share about my recent experience feasting on a client. And about his experience being feasted upon … in his own words. “The key take away is how sexy it was to be an object of desire. To be taken. … If I dive into that deeper, it doesn’t feel like I’ve been seen before.” Join us as we explore how to ravish. And how to safely be ravished. Because there is one MOST important part that makes it safe for the one being ravished. Do not skip this part! … It’s the key to success. Some common challenges. Some not-so-common solutions. Common myths like the other person won’t enjoy it as much. And theories about how our culture got so backward. 🤓 For it is not always better to give than to receive. Sometimes it’s better to fully receive the open-hearted gift that is given. To relish it.  To cherish it.  To get lost in the feast. … Followed, of course, by “thank you.” 🤠🥰🧚🏼‍♀️ Hi, I'm your host River! I'm an erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness.  Join us in Austin at the next Weekend Workshop with River Roaring on July 24-26!  We have a list of great nearby places to stay. If you are considering working with me privately 1:1, the workshop is a great way for us to get to know one another first. Wanna talk about it? Apply here for a free call, I'd love to chat with you. At least treat yourself to joining my email list and stay in the loop for all things luminious! 🤸🏼‍♀️ Oh, and ... my gift to you darling, I hope you enjoy ❤️  ✨ The Lost Art of Sexual Fantasy ~ Become an Artist of your own Spirit ✨

Why can’t I find my desire? Relax, you’re not broken! 💃🏼🔥🕺🏽

That empty feeling after sex. That empty feeling after self pleasure. … That empty feeling that’s starting to apply to more and more of life. You’re not broken. … This culture is broken and you grew up in it. We are taught to follow other people’s desires, rather than to find our own. We are mostly taught that our own desires are bad and shameful. So we do things that we don’t really desire to do. … And we wonder why we’re bored or depressed or distracted. The good news is: YOU are naturally perfect. Let’s remember who we are underneath all the BS we don’t agree with. LET’S RETRAIN ourselves to hear our deepest desires. … Our soul’s desire. In this episode, we look at 3 simple, not easy, steps to finding your deepest desire. Energy flows where there is space. Learn how to give your body and your being space so the energy of your soul’s desire can flow through you. … If you choose to pursue this path, I hope find your soul’s deepest desires and enjoy each one of them to their fullest. Hi, I'm your host River! I'm an erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness.  🤸🏼‍♀️ My gift to you darling, I hope you enjoy ❤️  ✨ The Lost Art of Sexual Fantasy ~ Become an Artist of your own Spirit ✨

Boner Shame Harms Us All: Let's talk about the beautiful male erection 🍆😢💪🏽🌈🦴

In this episode, learn about the far-away land where blonde people don’t get to raise their arms in the air. Nobody knows exactly how it started or why it is, but every time a blonde person raises one or both of their arms in the air, bad things happen.   First, everyone snickers, then busts out laughing, mocking, gossiping and ridiculing. It’s deeply shaming. So after hundreds of years and generation after generation following along without questioning  … Blonde people seem to be dumber (they never raise their hand in class), less emotionally regulated, more easily upset and aggressive, and less physically flexible or athletic (they never participate in most sports) than everyone else. Find out what happens in this far-away land! Thankfully, we would never be that misguided. 🤣🤣🤣 Let’s talk about boner shame.  One half of our population doesn’t get to move their body naturally.  … The part that is most related to joy, exuberance, ecstasy … arousal.  Hmmmmmmm …. might that impact our entire culture? I can hardly wait for you to check out this episode and send me your comments and emails - I want to hear from you on this one!  Hi, I'm your host River! I'm an erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness.  🤸🏼‍♀️ My gift to you darling, I hope you enjoy ❤️  ✨ The Lost Art of Sexual Fantasy ~ Become an Artist of your own Spirit ✨

Celebrating our Differences Sexually: Able-bodied, disabled, differently-abled, neurodivergent, on the spectrum and more! 🕊️🌸🍃

If you have a beating human heart, you have full capacity for glorious, nourishing, blissful sexual experiences. Each of us has a unique brand of sexual desire and expression. Each one of us different from the other. Like a totally unique puzzle piece, your sexual capacities and desires can fit together with your partner’s unique puzzle piece to make a divine piece of art! Unpartnered or partnered, your personal brand of sexual desire and expression is perfect. Did you know that a person who is paralyzed from the neck down has the capacity for multiple, rolling, full-body energetic orgasms? Heights of bliss that most “able-bodied” humans never take the time to learn. Heights of bliss that are absent from the cookie-cutter soul-squashing scenes we are fed on mainstream porn. In this episode, we talk about sexuality for all kinds of people including: - Able bodied - Disabled - Differently abled - Neuro divergent - Neuro spicy - On the spectrum -  and more No matter what type of body or mind you have, imagine the possibilities if you were able to find the highest form of your sexual expression. And imagine what will happen when you find a perfect puzzle piece that fits with your puzzle piece? 🥰 Tune in for ideas and inspiration. Hi, I'm your host River! I'm an erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness.  🤸🏼‍♀️ My gift to you darling, I hope you enjoy ❤️  ✨ The Lost Art of Sexual Fantasy ~ Become an Artist of your own Spirit ✨