#41 How to Stop Making Yourself Miserable | Dr. Randy Paterson
Why do we make ourselves miserable without even realizing it?
In this episode of Mind Triumph, I sit down with psychologist, author, and CBT expert Dr. Randy Paterson to explore the hidden mental habits that quietly fuel anxiety, self-doubt, stress, and unhappiness.
Drawing from over 40 years of clinical experience, Randy explains how our minds develop automatic patterns that often try to protect us—but can end up keeping us stuck. We discuss the inner voice I call the Talker, why we catastrophize, how anxiety tricks us into obedience, and what it really means to build a healthier relationship with our thoughts.
One of the most powerful ideas in this conversation comes from Randy’s bestselling book How to Be Miserable, where he reveals the surprising ways people unknowingly create more suffering in their lives—and how to stop.
In this episode:
• Why your mind isn’t always telling you the truth
• How anxiety grows when we obey it
• The hidden danger of comparing yourself to others
• Why normal human emotions are often mistaken for mental illness
• How gratitude and breathing can help interrupt negative patterns
• The difference between pain and suffering
• Practical ways to challenge the Talker
About Dr. Randy Paterson
Dr. Randy Paterson is a Vancouver-based psychologist, author, speaker, and director of Changeways Clinic. He is the author of several influential books including The Assertiveness Workbook, How to Be Miserable, and How to Be Miserable in Your Twenties. For more than 30 years he has trained mental health professionals across Canada, Australia, New Zealand, and Hong Kong.
🌐 Randy’s Website: randypaterson.com
🏥 Changeways Clinic: changeways.com
📺 YouTube: @RandyPaterson
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