Midlife Identity Shift: The Story That's Been Holding You Back

Midlife Imposter Syndrome: Stop Letting Self-Doubt Make Your Decisions

Self-doubt has a way of making us question everything. It can make us wonder if we're qualified enough, experienced enough, or even capable of taking the next step. For many women, that's exactly how imposter syndrome (also spelled impostor syndrome) in midlife begins to show up. In this episode of Own Your Midlife, we're talking about the thoughts that fuel self-doubt, what imposter syndrome can sound like in everyday life, and how those beliefs can influence the decisions we make. If you've ever thought, "Who do I think I am?" or "Someone else could do it better," you're not alone. I'll also share the three mindset shifts that have helped me recognize those thoughts, build confidence through action, and stop letting imposter syndrome make my decisions. Whether you're thinking about changing careers, starting a business, writing a book, going back to school, or simply stepping into a new season of life, I hope this episode reminds you that you don't have to wait until you feel confident to move forward. ✨In this episode, you'll learn: • What imposter syndrome is and what it can sound like in everyday life • How to recognize the voice of self-doubt • Why confidence is built by taking action • How to collect evidence instead of excuses • Three practical ways to stop letting self-doubt make your decisions 😊 Connect with Susie Instagram - @susiemclean.xo [https://www.instagram.com/susiemclean.xo] 📧 Tell me what episode you enjoyed!Email: ownyourmidlifepodcast@gmail.com [ownyourmidlifepodcast@gmail.com] ⭐️ If this show has made you feel less alone in the middle of it all, a review on Apple Podcasts would mean the world. It helps other women find their way here too ❤️

Hidden Generational Beliefs Keeping Women Stuck in Midlife with Anthony McLean

Have you ever wondered who decided what age you're supposed to have life figured out? Or why so many of us feel like there's a timeline we're supposed to follow, and if we miss it, we've somehow fallen behind? In this episode, I'm sitting down with my husband, Anthony McLean, and we're getting into something most of us have never stopped to question. The unspoken rules our generations handed us. The beliefs we absorbed without even realizing it about asking for help, following the right path, and what life is supposed to look like by a certain age. One of the things I appreciate most about Anthony's work is his heart for bringing generations together rather than driving them apart. This conversation isn't about blaming one generation or another. It's about understanding where our beliefs came from and getting curious about whether they're still serving us today. We talk about why midlife women often carry the belief that asking for help is weakness, why so many elder Millennials feel like they followed the map and it still didn't work out, and how to recognize the beliefs we've been carrying for years, where they came from, and whether they're still serving us today. Because here's what this conversation kept coming back to. The rules you've been living by were written for a world that doesn't exist anymore. And it is never too late to write new ones. In this episode, we discuss: • The unspoken rules Gen X and elder Millennials were handed growing up • Why asking for help feels like weakness for so many midlife women • The outdated map many elder Millennials feel they've been following • How to recognize which beliefs are still serving you in midlife • Why midlife reinvention is more possible now than ever before • Why those of us between 35 and 55 are in a uniquely powerful position right now If this episode resonated with you, please follow the podcast, leave a review, and share it with a friend. Connect with Susie @susiemclean.xo [https://www.instagram.com/susiemclean.xo/] Connect with Anthony Instagram: @anthonymcleantv [https://www.instagram.com/anthonymcleantv/] Anthonys Book: The Four Generations: How Boomers, Gen X, Millennials, and Gen Z Can Finally Work Together [https://anthonymclean.org/fourgenerations]

Divorce in Midlife: The Emotional Survival Guide for Women Starting Over with Oona Metz

Divorce can feel overwhelming, heartbreaking, and incredibly lonely, especially in midlife when so much of your life feels intertwined with your marriage, family, finances, identity, and future. In this episode we talk about the emotional side of divorce that so many women struggle through quietly. Oona shares the five phases of divorce grief, what to do first when you don't know where to start, how to protect your mental health through the process, and why the emotional rollercoaster you're feeling may be more normal than you think. Today I'm sitting down with Oona Metz, author of Unhitched: The Essential Divorce Guide for Women [https://www.oonametz.com/book-unhitched]. Oona is a therapist with 30 years of clinical experience and has spent the past 15 years helping women navigate divorce. She leads three weekly divorce support groups and trains mental health professionals to support women through divorce. Oona shares what she has seen happen for hundreds of women in midlife who once believed divorce was the worst thing that could happen, only to later find healing, growth, confidence, and even joy again. This conversation is going to give you a roadmap for what to expect, how to move through this emotionally, and hope for what's possible on the other side. ✨ In this episode, we discuss: * The 5 phases of divorce grief * What to do first when facing separation or divorce * How to protect your mental health during divorce * Why divorce in midlife feels so overwhelming * Financial fears and what women should know * Finding support and rebuilding after heartbreak * Hope, healing, and life after divorce Connect with Susie McLean Instagram: @susiemclean.xo [https://www.instagram.com/susiemclean.xo/] Email: ownyourmidlifepodcast@gmail.com [ownyourmidlifepodcast@gmail.com] Connect with Oona Metz Website: oonametz.com [https://www.oonametz.com] Instagram: @oonametz [https://www.instagram.com/oonametz/] Facebook: Women Navigating Divorce [https://www.facebook.com/womennavigatingdivorce/] LinkedIn: Oona Metz, LICSW, CGP [https://www.linkedin.com/in/oona-metz-licsw-cgp-6a14a41b/] YouTube: Oona Metz [https://www.youtube.com/@OonaMetz] Substack: Unhitched: Let's Talk Divorce [https://substack.com/@oonametz] Get Oona's book: Unhitched: The Essential Divorce Guide for Women [https://www.oonametz.com/book-unhitched] Article Mentioned in Episode: When Someone You Know Gets Divorced. Condolences or congratulations [https://www.wbur.org/cognoscenti/2026/02/10/divorce-what-to-say-oona-metz]

Why You Feel Disconnected in Your Relationship (And What It's Costing You) with Colette Jane Fehr

Feeling disconnected in your relationship and not sure why? Wondering if resentment in marriage or emotional distance with your partner is quietly building? In this powerful conversation, licensed psychotherapist, relationship expert, TEDx speaker, and author of The Cost of Quiet, Colette Jane Fehr joins me to talk about the hidden cost of staying quiet in relationships, especially for women who have spent years people pleasing, avoiding conflict, or putting everyone else first. Because sometimes relationship problems don't start with huge fights. Sometimes it looks like biting your tongue. Keeping the peace. Feeling unseen. Feeling emotionally disconnected in marriage or wondering why your relationship feels "off" even when nothing is technically wrong. In this episode, we talk about: ✨ The early signs of resentment in relationships and marriage ✨ Why emotional disconnection happens in long-term relationships ✨ How people pleasing can quietly damage intimacy ✨ Better communication in relationships and how to have hard conversations without blowing everything up ✨ How to rebuild trust after betrayal or infidelity ✨ Practical tools for healthier communication and emotional connection Whether you're navigating resentment in your marriage, struggling with communication in a relationship, dealing with emotional distance, or simply trying to understand yourself better in love and midlife, this episode will leave you feeling seen and give you practical tools you can actually start using today. 👉 Connect with Colette Jane Fehr: 📚 Get Her Book: The Cost of Quiet: How to Have the Hard Conversations That Create Secure, Lasting Love [https://www.colettejanefehr.com/new-book] 🎙️ Podcast: Insights from the Couch: Real Talk for Women at Midlife [https://open.spotify.com/show/2uAm0tXUVPI3RwScvqg2Ge?si=e117b43453c14734] 🎙️ Relationship Podcast/Radio Show: Love Thy Neighbor [https://open.spotify.com/show/6OnfiFJMy7WOPrkFsyfvhW?si=18dcff73c22d4b4b] 📱 Follow Colette on: Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/colettejanefehr/] 🌐 Visit Colette's: Website [https://www.colettejanefehr.com/] If this episode resonates with you, send it to another woman who needs this conversation. Connect with Susie: Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/susiemclean.xo] Email Susie: ownyourmidlifepodcast@gmail.com [ownyourmidlifepodcast@gmail.com]

Why Comparison Hits Differently in Midlife (And What to Do About It)

If you're in midlife and comparison has been making you feel like you're behind, too late, or like everyone else has figured something out that you haven't, this episode is going to hit home. Comparison in midlife feels different than it did in your twenties. Back then it felt like fuel. Now it feels more like a deadline. And that shift is not an accident. It's something a lot of women feeling stuck in midlife are experienced but rarely talk about. In this episode we cover: * Why comparison feels so much heavier in midlife than it ever did before * How to stop letting someone else's timeline mean something about your own * What to do the next time comparison shows up. Because it will * Why holding on too tightly to a plan or a timeline could be costing you your clarity * How to start trusting your own path again even when it looks nothing like everyone else's You are not behind. You are not too late. And you are not the only woman in this season of life wondering why everyone else seems to have figured it out. If comparison has been quietly convincing you that you missed your window, this episode is your reset. Come say hi on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/susiemclean.xo [https://www.instagram.com/susiemclean.xo]