Self Obsessed

💚 you might be pushing away healthy love without even realizing it. in today’s episode, we’re talking about the 10 “red flags” in men that are actually signs of emotional maturity — and why your past might be making you miss them. from taking time to reply, moving slow, having female friends, or even being a little “boring”… these things aren’t toxic, they’re actually green flags 🫶 🛍️ shop my abbott lyon collection: https://www.abbottlyon.io/TamKaur-YouTube-Collection use my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 for buy one get one FREE sitewide! ♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO: 00:00 – Introduction 01:45 – Debunking Dating Red Flags 01:49 – Green Flag #1: He is Picky 03:13 – Green Flag #2: He Rejects You 04:54 – Green Flag #3: No Past Relationships 05:55 – Green Flag #4: Has Female Friends 07:11 – Green Flag #5: Takes Time to Texting Back 09:03 – Green Flag #6: Challenges You 10:36 – Green Flag #7: He Has His Own Life 12:03 – Green Flag #8: He Moves Slow 13:53 – Green Flag #9: There Are No Sparks 15:48 – Conclusion SHOP & LINKS: https://tamkaur.com/products/growthjournal?_pos=1&_sid=e42fa6aa8&_ss=r https://tamkaur.com/products/manifestationjournal https://geni.us/TamKaurBook https://tamkaur.com/ STAY CONNECTED: https://www.instagram.com/tamkaur/?hl=en https://story.snapchat.com/s/tamxkaur https://www.youtube.com/@tamkaur https://www.youtube.com/@TamKaurVlogs https://linktr.ee/selfobsessed https://www.instagram.com/selfobsessedpodcast/?hl=en https://bio.site/tamkaur Business enquiries: mailto:tam@mvetalent.com *My intro and outro music was made by the incredible https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DUfCnZxvAKI&t=1s!

tired of people-pleasing, overthinking, and chasing validation? it’s time to detach, reclaim your confidence, and become the center of your own universe. ✨ we’re talking detachment, self-trust, and the quiet kind of confidence that comes from within. i’ll take you through the exact mindset shifts and weekly habits that help you stop people-pleasing, reconnect with your body, and protect your energy. this isn’t about becoming someone new — it’s about coming home to yourself. If you’re in your self-love era and ready to let go of external validation, this one’s for you 💌 ♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO: 00:00 Introduction: The Importance of Decentering 01:58 Chapter 1: Decentering Everyone and Taking Control of Your Life 09:59 Chapter 2: Centering Yourself and Becoming Self-Obsessed 16:45 Chapter 3: Homework: Practical Steps to Self-Centering 19:04 Conclusion and Final Thoughts SHOP & LINKS: SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL [https://tamkaur.com/products/growthjournal?_pos=1&_sid=e42fa6aa8&_ss=r] PRE-ORDER MY MANIFESTATION JOURNAL [https://tamkaur.com/products/manifestationjournal] ORDER MY BOOK [https://geni.us/TamKaurBook] THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER [https://tamkaur.com/] STAY CONNECTED: MY INSTAGRAM [https://www.instagram.com/tamkaur/?hl=en] MY SNAPCHAT [BTS] [https://story.snapchat.com/s/tamxkaur] MY YOUTUBE [https://www.youtube.com/@tamkaur] MY VLOGS [https://www.youtube.com/@TamKaurVlogs] LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS [https://linktr.ee/selfobsessed] PODCAST INSTAGRAM [https://www.instagram.com/selfobsessedpodcast/?hl=en] MY OTHER LINKS [https://bio.site/tamkaur] Business enquiries: tam@mvetalent.com [tam@mvetalent.com] *My intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DUfCnZxvAKI&t=1s]!

we’re halfway through 2025, which means it’s time for a mid year reset. in this video, i’m sharing the 6-step process to help you get back on track with your goals, upgrade your routines, and shift into your highest self. whether you’re feeling behind or just need a fresh perspective, this is your sign to pause, reflect, and move with intention. let’s make the rest of 2025 count 💫 ♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO: 00:00 Introduction: Realign, Refocus, and Re-strategize 01:51 Step 1: Back to Basics 05:02 Step 2: Progress Check 06:05 Step 3: Make a New Strategy 08:06 Step 4: Amplify the Wins 10:29 Step 5: Turn Losses into Lessons 14:26 Step 6: Scheduling is King 17:52 Conclusion: Action Your Midyear Resets RESOURCES & LINKS: SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL [https://tamkaur.com/products/growthjournal?_pos=1&_sid=e42fa6aa8&_ss=r] PRE-ORDER MY MANIFESTATION JOURNAL [https://tamkaur.com/products/manifestationjournal] PODCAST INSTAGRAM [https://www.instagram.com/selfobsessedpodcast/?hl=en] LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS [https://linktr.ee/selfobsessed] ORDER MY BOOK [https://geni.us/TamKaurBook] THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER [https://tamkaur.com/] STAY CONNECTED: MY INSTAGRAM [https://www.instagram.com/tamkaur/?hl=en] MY SNAPCHAT [BTS] [https://story.snapchat.com/s/tamxkaur] MY YOUTUBE [https://www.youtube.com/@tamkaur] MY VLOGS [https://www.youtube.com/@TamKaurVlogs] MY OTHER LINKS [https://bio.site/tamkaur] For business enquiries: tam@mvetalent.com [tam@mvetalent.com] *my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DUfCnZxvAKI&t=1s]!

ITS THAT TIME AGAIN GIRLIES! I'm answering all of your juicy dilemmas and sharing real advice you can actually use. from calling out red flags in relationships, dealing with toxic friendships, and setting boundaries, to healing your self-esteem, building confidence, and learning how to stop comparing yourself to others. we’re also talking about normalizing your wins, trusting your timeline, and how to stay focused on your own growth 💖 grab a drink and let’s get into it! ♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO: 00:00 Introduction 00:54 Dating Dilemmas: Identifying Red Flags and Breaking Cycles 10:42 Friendship Dilemmas: Setting Standards and Identifying Envy 17:16 Being Your Best Self: Achieving Goals and Self-Love 26:02 Final Thoughts RESOURCES & LINKS: SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL: https://tamkaur.com/products/growthjournal?_pos=1&_sid=e42fa6aa8&_ss=r [https://tamkaur.com/products/growthjournal?_pos=1&_sid=e42fa6aa8&_ss=r] PODCAST INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/selfobsessedpodcast/?hl=en [https://www.instagram.com/selfobsessedpodcast/?hl=en] LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS: https://linktr.ee/selfobsessed [https://linktr.ee/selfobsessed] ORDER MY BOOK: https://geni.us/TamKaurBook [https://geni.us/TamKaurBook] THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER: https://tamkaur.com/ [https://tamkaur.com/] STAY CONNECTED: MY INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/tamkaur/?hl=en [https://www.instagram.com/tamkaur/?hl=en] MY SNAPCHAT [BTS]: https://story.snapchat.com/s/tamxkaur [https://story.snapchat.com/s/tamxkaur] MY YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@tamkaur [https://www.youtube.com/@tamkaur] MY VLOGS: https://www.youtube.com/@TamKaurVlogs [https://www.youtube.com/@TamKaurVlogs] MY OTHER LINKS: https://bio.site/tamkaur [https://bio.site/tamkaur] For business enquiries please contact: tam@mvetalent.com *my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DUfCnZxvAKI&t=1s] !

REALITY CHECK: Why Your Life Still Hasn’t Changed (Even After All Your Effort) — if you’ve been doing the journaling, the meditations, the affirmations… but still feel stuck, this video is your wake-up call. we’re unpacking why effort alone isn’t enough — and how real transformation starts at the subconscious level. i’ll walk you through the shifts that helped me rewire my mindset, align my environment, and finally start seeing results. from identity work to consistency and the quiet habits that actually reshape your reality — this is the deep work that leads to real change 💭🧠 ♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO: 00:00 Introduction: Why Your Efforts Aren't Paying Off 02:02 Understanding the Subconscious Mind 04:52 The Power of Meditation and Visualization 08:37 Reprogramming Your Subconscious Mind 10:42 Environmental and Lifestyle Conditioning 14:32 Mindset Shifts for Lasting Change 19:38 Conclusion and Additional Resource RESOURCES & LINKS: SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL [https://tamkaur.com/products/growthjournal?_pos=1&_sid=e42fa6aa8&_ss=r] PODCAST INSTAGRAM [https://www.instagram.com/selfobsessedpodcast/?hl=en] LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS [https://linktr.ee/selfobsessed] ORDER MY BOOK [https://geni.us/TamKaurBook] THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER [https://tamkaur.com/] CONNECT WITH ME: MY INSTAGRAM [https://www.instagram.com/tamkaur/?hl=en] MY SNAPCHAT [BTS] [https://story.snapchat.com/s/tamxkaur] MY YOUTUBE [https://www.youtube.com/@tamkaur] MY VLOGS [https://www.youtube.com/@TamKaurVlogs] MY OTHER LINKS [https://bio.site/tamkaur] Business Enquiries: tam@mvetalent.com *my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DUfCnZxvAKI&t=1s] !