Your Personality is a Group Project

The Other Side of the Couch: Confessions from Two Therapists

This week on Shrinks on the Brink, we're talking about the human side of being therapists - and what therapists wish people knew about the work. We discuss common misconceptions about therapists, the pressure of being held to impossible emotional standards, and the reality that therapists are still human beings with emotions, stress, boundaries, and personal lives. We also explore professionalism, emotional labor, cancellation policies, burnout, and why therapy works because therapists are human - not because they're above being human. Along the way, we talk about the phrase "aren't you supposed to be a therapist?", and the complicated balance between empathy, boundaries, accountability, and care. As always, the conversation includes clinical insight, honest reflection, and enough humor to keep us from emotionally combusting.

What Therapy Really Is (and Isn't)

This week we're talking about what therapy really is... and what it definitely isn't. We explore some of the biggest misconceptions about therapy, including the idea that therapists simply give advice, endlessly validate people, or magically "fix" problems overnight. We also discuss the uncomfortable parts of therapy - accountability, emotional vulnerability, behavioral change, and why growth often feels messy before it feels better. We talk about the therapeutic relationship, the role of emotional safety, why insight alone doesn't automatically create change, and how therapy is often much more nuanced than social media makes it seem. As always, we combine clinical insight with honest conversation, humor, and a realistic look at what healing actually involves.

What Anger is Trying to Tell You

This week we're talking about anger - what it actually is, why it shows up, and why it's often misunderstood. We explore anger as a signal emotion, what it's protecting underneath (hurt, fear, shame, grief), and how it can become problematic when it's either suppressed or expressed without awareness. We also talk about the differences between healthy expression and dysregulation, and why the goal isn't to eliminate anger - but to understand it. As always, we mix clinical insight with honest, relatable conversation about what it means to feel - and navigate - big emotions.

Still Mad: Forgiveness-ish

This week we're talking about forgiveness - the real version, not the inspirational quote version. We explore what forgiveness actually means, why people struggle with it, and whether healing truly requires letting go. We also discuss boundaries, resentment, self-forgiveness, and the complicated reality of trying to move forward when accountability or apologies never come. As always, we bring both clinical insight and honest conversation to a topic that's a lot messier than people realize.

Fact Check: We were probably Wrong

After a heavy few weeks and a conference hangover, we needed a break from being profound. Turns out, memory is unreliable, confidence is not evidence, and we may have said a few things we'd like to revisit. It's part correction, part reflection, and mostly just us laughing at ourselves while trying to get it a little more right this time.