Silver Disobedience® Perception Dynamics with Dian Griesel: How People Think, Lead and Succeed

Unpacking the Cool Factor with Thomas W. Hodgkinson

53 min · 15 de may de 2026
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Thomas Hodgkinson on Coolness: Why Trying to Be Cool Is Uncool (and How to Live in the Now) In this SilverDisobedience© Perception Dynamics™ podcast conversation Dian Griesel welcomes author Thomas Hodgkinson [https://www.thomaswhodgkinson.com/], whose book How to Be Cool: The 150 Essential Idols, Ideals and Other Cool S*** [https://amzn.to/3Ped87r] explores the elusive, self-defeating nature of defining coolness. Dian recounts how Hodgkinson proved his own cool by promptly redirecting her to another Thomas Hodgkinson she was trying to find -- and how he provided the correct email! They discuss cool as a state of being rather than actions, the paradox of caring versus indifference, and how fame and social-media “likes” distort the idea of cool. Hodgkinson traces cool’s roots to early 20th-century American jazz and African American culture as a “third way” for the powerless, emphasizing living in the present. They examine oppositional cool, talent and effortlessness, risky “now” living, mortality’s role in wisdom, childlike creativity, and examples from history and culture including Lucius Quinctius Cincinnatus, Clint Eastwood, Keith Richards, Oscar Wilde, Bob Dylan, and Bjork. SHOW RUN: 00:00 Cold Open Intro 00:08 Meet Thomas Hodgkinson 00:31 Accidental Cool Email 02:19 Why Write Cool 02:38 Defining Coolness 06:16 Fame Versus Cool 07:34 Cool As Being 08:42 Origins In Jazz 12:11 School Cool Crowd 13:44 Do Versus Be 15:44 Authenticity Not Approval 20:41 Likes And Validation 23:17 Indifference With Values 24:15 Cool Hero Narrative 28:14 Parenthood And Cool 29:36 Parenting Through Cool 30:37 Letting Kids Fly 32:46 Coolness And Risk 35:44 Mortality Changes Cool 39:31 Crafting Effortless Cool 44:03 Oscar Wilde Philosophy 48:04 Childlike Coolness 49:29 Art Like A Kid 51:43 Closing And Recommendations Please SUBSCRIBE! I’m Dian Griesel, Ph.D. aka @SilverDisobedience to my hundreds of thousands of monthly blog readers. You can learn more about me here:   ⁠https://diangriesel.com⁠ [https://diangriesel.com/] But for starters…I am a perception analyst [https://diangriesel.com/], counselor, hypnotherapist [https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/dian-griesel-new-york-ny/450545], author of 16 books and a Wilhelmina [https://www.wilhelmina.com/new-york/women/direct/1368-dian-griesel] model. For 30 years I have helped my clients to achieve greater understanding as to how perceptions impact everything we do whether personally or professionally. What happens when raw curiosity collides with uncharted truths? In Silver Disobedience® Perception Dynamics, host Dian Griesel—a provocateur of perception—dives into unscripted, no-holds-barred stories from fascinating guests across diverse lives. We unpack work, play, psychology, pop culture, trends, B.S. + more through thought-provoking questions that spark honest revelations, pivotal moments & unguarded insights—stunning even the boldest with their own "aha" truths. Raw inspiration, mindset shifts & uplifting wisdom fuel deeper self- and other understanding. No scripted fluff. Check it out!

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