Coffee and Cleavage

Today on Coffee and Cleavage, Lynnine, Shantal and Gary dive into your hottest fan questions about sex! From syncing mismatched desire peaks to keeping the mood alive when asking for lube, exploring mutual self-pleasure with a shy partner, navigating scent turn-ons without shaming, offering alternatives to unloved acts, navigating kindly requesting STI testing, suggesting temporary no-penetration nights.

In this episode of Coffee and Cleavage, hosts Shantal, Lynnie, and Gary tackle two candid fan submissions: dating someone who spends every Saturday hiking with an ex who refuses to meet the new partner, and receiving a late-night “miss your face” text that reopens old feelings. The trio explores clear boundaries, reasonable timelines for introductions, transparency without ultimatums, and how to navigate these challenges!

In this episode of Coffee and Cleavage, Shantal, Lynnie, and Gary respond to a listener who’s falling for someone in ethical non-monogamy and isn’t sure whether to continue. They explain ENM in plain terms, weigh curiosity versus compatibility, and challenge each other with “try it or walk away?” questions to show how each host would handle it.

In this episode of Coffee and Cleavage, hosts Shantal, Lynnie, and Gary run through today’s most-asked early-dating dilemmas—whether exclusivity before a third date signals clarity or haste, how to request a soft-launch without pressure, ways to blend friend groups so no one feels like a guest, a kind script for “I’m not ready to meet your parents,” whether to keep a useful gift from an ex, and the cleanest way to end a situationship that keeps looping back.

In this episode of Coffee and Cleavage, Shantal, Lynnie, and Gary dive into a candid fan confession: a married professional has been swapping playful snaps with a younger coworker for years—until “almost” photos and late-night messages suggest the feelings aren’t one-sided. The trio explores when fantasy becomes a problem, the difference between micro-cheating and harmless flirtation, workplace and digital-trail risks, and respectful scripts for cooling it down before real damage is done.