Why You Feel Numb Even When You Have Everything You Wanted with Kelly Ehlers (The Velvet)

Why You Feel Numb Even When You Have Everything You Wanted with Kelly Ehlers (The Velvet)

What happens when you build the life you always wanted… and still don't feel fully alive inside? Kelly Ehlers is a five-time Inc. 500 entrepreneur, founder of two multimillion-dollar companies, and author of Nice Girls Win. But after years of chasing success, checking every box, and creating a life that looked great from the outside, she found herself disconnected from her own joy. In this conversation, Kelly shares the invisible contracts so many women live by without realizing it, why people-pleasing often disguises itself as kindness, how high achievers lose touch with themselves, and what it means to choose a new season of life without burning everything down. We also discuss self-worth, deserving versus wanting, manifestation, boundaries, and why being kind may be a bigger advantage than we've been led to believe. Find Kelly on Instagram: @KellyEhlers [https://www.instagram.com/kellyehlers/] Check out Kelly's website: nicegirlswin.com Buy Kelly's Book Nice Girls Win here [https://www.nicegirlswin.com]. Listen to Kelly's Podcast: Volume Up by The Tease [https://podfollow.com/1539183805]   Watch The Velvet's Edge on YouTube! [https://m.youtube.com/velvetsedge] Email us: theedge@velvetsedge.com [theedge@velvetsedge.com] TikTok: @velvetsedge [https://www.tiktok.com/@velvetsedge] Follow the podcast on Instagram: @VelvetsEdgePodcast [https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedgepodcast/] HOST: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge [https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/] // velvetsedge.com Follow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/ [https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/] See omnystudio.com/listener [https://omnystudio.com/listener] for privacy information.

Can You Be Attracted to Other People and Still Be Happy in Your Relationship? (The Edge)

After this week's conversation with psychologist Dr. Glenn Hutchinson about the science and psychology of infidelity, Kelly and Chip sat down to discuss the ideas that surprised them most. From attraction and sexual fantasy to trust and betrayal, they explore some of the gray areas that often get overlooked in conversations about relationships. Should partners openly discuss who they find attractive? Is sexuality as black and white as we tend to make it? And how do you move forward in a healthy way after experiencing betrayal in a past relationship? As always, Kelly and Chip share their own perspectives, experiences, and questions while trying to make sense of the complicated—and very human—side of relationships. Watch us on YouTube! (By clicking this [https://m.youtube.com/velvetsedge]) Email us: theedge@velvetsedge.com [theedge@velvetsedge.com] TikTok: @velvetsedge [https://www.tiktok.com/@velvetsedge] Follow the podcast on Instagram: @VelvetsEdgePodcast [https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedgepodcast/] HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge [https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/] // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorsch [https://www.instagram.com/chipdorsch/] Follow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/ [https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/] See omnystudio.com/listener [https://omnystudio.com/listener] for privacy information.

Why Do People Cheat? The Hidden Psychology of Infidelity with Dr. Glenn Hutchinson (The Velvet)

Why do people cheat? Is infidelity really about unmet needs and unhappy relationships, or is the answer more complicated than we’ve been led to believe? This week, Kelly sits down with clinical psychologist and behavioral researcher Dr. Glenn Hutchinson, author of Unfaithful Minds, to explore the hidden psychological processes behind infidelity. Together, they unpack some of the biggest myths society tells us about cheating, why even intelligent and self-aware people can act against their own values, and what modern psychology reveals about the gap between our intentions and our actions. Kelly and Dr. Hutchinson discuss the role of the unconscious mind, the brain’s reward and novelty-seeking systems, why some people may be more vulnerable to infidelity than others, and whether understanding these patterns can actually help prevent betrayal before it happens. Find Dr. Hutchinson's book Unfaithful Minds: The Science and Psychology of Infidelity here [https://www.amazon.com/Unfaithful-Minds-Science-Psychology-Infidelity/dp/1493094432].   Watch The Velvet's Edge on YouTube! [https://m.youtube.com/velvetsedge] Email us: theedge@velvetsedge.com [theedge@velvetsedge.com] TikTok: @velvetsedge [https://www.tiktok.com/@velvetsedge] Follow the podcast on Instagram: @VelvetsEdgePodcast [https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedgepodcast/] HOST: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge [https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/] // velvetsedge.com Follow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/ [https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/] See omnystudio.com/listener [https://omnystudio.com/listener] for privacy information.

Brain Health Habits: What Kelly and Chip Are Prioritizing Now (The Edge)

After Kelly's conversation with Dr. John Lewis, Kelly and Chip are sharing the brain health habits that stuck with them most—and the ones they're trying to put into practice in their own lives. In honor of Alzheimer's Awareness Month, they discuss everything from sleep and stress to movement, nutrition, and the small changes that can add up over time. Kelly also reflects on how having a family history of Alzheimer's has shaped the way she thinks about prevention and healthy aging. This isn't about doing everything perfectly—it's about paying attention, taking care of yourself where you can, and maybe giving your future self a little extra support along the way. Watch us on YouTube! (By clicking this [https://m.youtube.com/velvetsedge]) Email us: theedge@velvetsedge.com [theedge@velvetsedge.com] TikTok: @velvetsedge [https://www.tiktok.com/@velvetsedge] Follow the podcast on Instagram: @VelvetsEdgePodcast [https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedgepodcast/] HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge [https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/] // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorsch [https://www.instagram.com/chipdorsch/] Follow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/ [https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/] See omnystudio.com/listener [https://omnystudio.com/listener] for privacy information.

The Brain Health Habits That Matter More Than You Think with Dr. John Lewis (The Velvet)

In honor of Alzheimer's Awareness Month, Kelly sits down with researcher and nutrition expert Dr. John Lewis to talk about what we know about protecting brain health and why these conversations matter long before symptoms appear. Dr. Lewis shares insights from his research on the connection between inflammation, immune health, and cognitive function, including what we've learned about Alzheimer's disease and the role prevention may play in long-term brain health. He also breaks down the top lifestyle habits he believes can help support a healthy brain, the age at which people should start paying closer attention to cognitive health, and some of the lesser-known warning signs of brain dysfunction that often go overlooked. For anyone with a family history of Alzheimer's—as Kelly does—this conversation offers both practical information and hope. From nutrition and exercise to sleep and early awareness, Dr. Lewis provides actionable ways to support your brain health at every stage of life. Whether this topic feels deeply personal or you're simply looking for ways to invest in your future health, this episode is full of insights that just might change the way you think about caring for your brain. Visit Dr. Lewis' website: DrLewisNutrition.com [https://drlewisnutrition.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorVj4ogxuQKFFzgQsTYBNk9HG-ZOhVUo7snEzJbgF_XtC9nPncQ] Follow Dr. Lewis on Instagram: @DrLewisNutrition [https://www.instagram.com/drlewisnutrition/]   Watch The Velvet's Edge on YouTube! [https://m.youtube.com/velvetsedge] Email us: theedge@velvetsedge.com [theedge@velvetsedge.com] TikTok: @velvetsedge [https://www.tiktok.com/@velvetsedge] Follow the podcast on Instagram: @VelvetsEdgePodcast [https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedgepodcast/] HOST: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge [https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/] // velvetsedge.com Follow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/ [https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/] See omnystudio.com/listener [https://omnystudio.com/listener] for privacy information.