Velvet's Edge with Kelly Henderson

What Love Looks Like After the Honeymoon Phase (The Edge)

Kelly and Chip continue the conversation inspired by relationship expert Thais Gibson’s framework on the six stages of relationships, from the honeymoon phase to the inevitable power struggle and everything that comes after. Together, they reflect on their own relationship experiences, unpack what modern culture (and shows like Love Is Blind) often gets wrong about love, and explore what it actually takes to build deeper, healthier connection over time. This episode is an honest conversation about conflict, growth, expectations, and why lasting love is often much less like a fairytale and much more meaningful because of it. Watch us on YouTube! (By clicking this [https://m.youtube.com/velvetsedge]) Email us: theedge@velvetsedge.com [theedge@velvetsedge.com] TikTok: @velvetsedge [https://www.tiktok.com/@velvetsedge] Follow the podcast on Instagram: @VelvetsEdgePodcast [https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedgepodcast/] HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge [https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/] // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorsch [https://www.instagram.com/chipdorsch/]   Produced and edited by: @HoustonTilley [https://www.instagram.com/houstontilley/] Follow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/ [https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/] See omnystudio.com/listener [https://omnystudio.com/listener] for privacy information.

What Happens After the Honeymoon Phase? With Thais Gibson (The Velvet)

The honeymoon phase gets all the attention, but real love is built in what comes after. In today’s episode, Kelly talks with psychologist and relationship expert Thais Gibson about the 6 stages of relationships, the common patterns that create disconnection, and how couples can move through conflict with more awareness and compassion. Together, they explore attachment styles, subconscious beliefs, emotional healing, and what it truly takes to create lasting intimacy beyond the initial spark. Instagram: @thepersonaldevelopmentschool [https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/] Website: PersonalDevelopmentSchool.com [https://university.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?gc_id=18002521897&h_ga_id=139615267403&h_ad_id=669729918143&h_keyword_id=kwd-1063506652254&h_keyword=the%20personal%20development%20school&h_placement=&utm_campaign=%7Bcampaign_id%7D&utm_source=google-search&utm_medium=cpc-lead&tw_source=google&tw_adid=669729918143&tw_campaign=18002521897&tw_kwdid=kwd-1063506652254&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=18002521897&gbraid=0AAAAACmCs_-NUqU_vRWJD-6RKzCiHwdSx]   Watch us on YouTube! (By clicking this [https://m.youtube.com/velvetsedge]) Email us: theedge@velvetsedge.com [theedge@velvetsedge.com] TikTok: @velvetsedge [https://www.tiktok.com/@velvetsedge] Follow the podcast on Instagram: @VelvetsEdgePodcast [https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedgepodcast/] HOST: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge [https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/] // velvetsedge.com   Produced and edited by: @HoustonTilley [https://www.instagram.com/houstontilley/] Follow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/ [https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/] See omnystudio.com/listener [https://omnystudio.com/listener] for privacy information.

Wait… Is This Guilt or Just Conditioning? (The Edge)

After Kelly’s conversation with psychiatrist Dr. Jennifer Reid about guilt and unreasonable expectations, Kelly and Chip sit down to unpack what actually stuck with them personally. What started as a conversation centered around women’s guilt quickly turned into a bigger discussion about the ways both men and women are conditioned to feel responsible for everyone, everything, and constantly doing more. Chip shares how these pressures show up from the male perspective, while Kelly reflects on the patterns she recognized in herself after the conversation. They also talk about the small ways they’re already trying to apply what they learned to their own lives — from noticing automatic guilt responses to questioning where certain expectations even came from in the first place. A lighter, honest conversation about the pressure so many of us carry without even realizing it. Watch us on YouTube! (By clicking this [https://m.youtube.com/velvetsedge]) Email us: theedge@velvetsedge.com [theedge@velvetsedge.com] Follow the podcast on Instagram: @VelvetsEdgePodcast [https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedgepodcast/] HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge [https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/] // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorsch [https://www.instagram.com/chipdorsch/]   Produced and edited by: @HoustonTilley [https://www.instagram.com/houstontilley/] Follow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/ [https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/] See omnystudio.com/listener [https://omnystudio.com/listener] for privacy information.

Breaking Free From Guilt & Impossible Expectations with Dr. Jennifer Reid (The Velvet)

Psychiatrist and author Dr. Jennifer Reid joins Kelly to unpack why so many women walk through life feeling like they’re constantly falling short — even when they’re doing everything “right.” From perfectionism and people pleasing to over-functioning and feeling responsible for everyone else’s emotions, this conversation dives into the quiet ways guilt shapes our decisions, relationships, careers, and sense of self. Jennifer explains why guilt has become such a common emotional baseline for women, how unrealistic expectations keep us trapped in cycles of burnout and self-criticism, and what it actually looks like to start making decisions from self-trust instead of obligation. Kelly and Jennifer also discuss the discomfort of disappointing people, the pressure to “have it all,” hyper-accountability, and why so many women struggle to identify what they actually want outside of what’s expected of them. Buy Jennifer's book: GUILT FREE: Reclaiming Your Life From Unreasonable Expectations [https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/763503/guilt-free-by-jennifer-reid-md/] Visit Jennifer's website: jenniferreidmd.com [http://jenniferreidmd.com/] Instagram: @jenreidmd [https://www.instagram.com/jenreidmd/] Check out Jennifer's Substack here [https://amindofherown.substack.com].   Watch The Velvet's Edge on YouTube! [https://m.youtube.com/velvetsedge] Email us: theedge@velvetsedge.com [theedge@velvetsedge.com] TikTok: @velvetsedge [https://www.tiktok.com/@velvetsedge] Follow the podcast on Instagram: @VelvetsEdgePodcast [https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedgepodcast/] HOST: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge [https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/] // velvetsedge.com   Produced and edited by: @HoustonTilley [https://www.instagram.com/houstontilley/] Follow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/ [https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/] See omnystudio.com/listener [https://omnystudio.com/listener] for privacy information.

Why Do We Work the Way We Do? with Kelly & Chip (The Edge)

After Kelly’s conversation with Brooke Taylor about The Success Wound, Kelly and Chip sat down to unpack their own personal takeaways from the episode and the conversation turned into a very honest look at why they each operate the way they do. From productivity and pressure to structure, motivation, avoidance, burnout, and the feeling of “is this ever enough?”… this episode is less about fixing anything and more about getting curious about the patterns underneath how people work, push themselves, and attach identity to achievement. Kelly and Chip compare notes on their very different relationships with discipline, routine, ambition, and work habits, while also reflecting on how much of what drives people may come from conditioning, personality, survival patterns, or simply the ways they learned to move through the world. The episode also lightly touches on Chip’s recent ADHD exploration, but more through the lens of understanding himself better, not turning it into a diagnosis conversation. Watch us on YouTube! (By clicking this [https://m.youtube.com/velvetsedge]) Email us: theedge@velvetsedge.com [theedge@velvetsedge.com] Follow the podcast on Instagram: @VelvetsEdgePodcast [https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedgepodcast/] HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge [https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/] // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorsch [https://www.instagram.com/chipdorsch/]   Produced and edited by: @HoustonTilley [https://www.instagram.com/houstontilley/] Follow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/ [https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/] See omnystudio.com/listener [https://omnystudio.com/listener] for privacy information.