111. She Built a World for Us | World Childless Week with Stephanie Joy Phillips

116. The Value of Friendships When You Don't Have Children

Host Elizabeth Tiglao-Guss reflects on a week that contrasted her prior discussion of the “messy middle,” sharing how her heart felt unexpectedly full through layered moments of connection. A lifelong best friend visited and they spent time eating, beachgoing, laughing, and enjoying K-pop and K-dramas; another close friend came for a soul-filling night of conversation. She hosted a brunch where three friends from different chapters of her life met and bonded, followed by a mahjong gathering at her home that left her grateful and surprised by how social and supported she feels. She emphasizes that meaningful friendships are built with intention, time, and courage, offering hope to those feeling lonely. She also shares being a Midi Health ambassador and joining a brand photo shoot with six other women, leaving inspired by the community and mission around menopause care and being heard. * From Messy to Joy * Brunch Nerves Payoff * Mahjong and Social Season * How Friendships Grow * Midi Health Backstory * Ambassador Photoshoot Week * Joy After Hard Seasons * Closing Thanks Check out MIDI health http://bit.ly/3QHmKZ0 [http://bit.ly/3QHmKZ0] Connect with Elizabeth: IG: @bychanceavenue [https://instagram.com/bychanceavenue/] Stay connected & up to date with all things By Chance [https://bychance.myflodesk.com/emailsignup] Want to share your story? Apply to be a guest! [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1RWGRzGCeggUdsVdwAM7-b7kLZpjMVNkrHhx2NEPtkPk/edit]

115. The Messy Middle Can Feel Lonely | But You're Not Alone In It

Host Elizabeth Tiglao-Guss reflects on living in a “messy middle” where her life feels both joyful and heavy: she’s making new friends, enjoying a new hobby, and feeling excited about projects, while also processing difficult new news about her dad’s health after last year’s serious health scare and caregiving season. She shares how being the only one in her large Filipino family without children has led her to place extra responsibility on herself—feeling she must be more available, justify her existence, and preempt potential judgment—despite knowing childfree people don’t inherently have more bandwidth. She wrestles with guilt about honoring grief while continuing to build her life, and concludes that two truths can coexist. She encourages listeners, especially those without kids, to name and acknowledge this self-imposed load as a first step to change. * Living in Contradiction * Dad’s Health Update * The Messy Middle * Carrying Extra Weight * Love vs Self Growth * Two Truths Can Coexist * If You’re Childfree Too * Closing Thoughts Connect with Elizabeth: IG: @bychanceavenue [https://instagram.com/bychanceavenue/] Stay connected & up to date with all things By Chance [https://bychance.myflodesk.com/emailsignup] Want to share your story? Apply to be a guest! [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1RWGRzGCeggUdsVdwAM7-b7kLZpjMVNkrHhx2NEPtkPk/edit]

114. It Was Enough | A Full Circle Moment in the Desert

Host Elizabeth Tiglao-Guss shares the fuller context behind an Instagram video about returning to Joshua Tree for her 13th wedding anniversary with Victor, contrasting it with a trip nearly three years earlier when they went to the desert to decide whether to renew their adoption home study and continue a decade-long infertility journey. On that earlier trip, amid emotional weight and a storm, they had a vulnerable conversation and chose to end the process, with Elizabeth fearing Victor might later regret the decision. Revisiting the same desert recently, she notices a new sense of peace, contentment, and joy alongside ongoing sadness, and emphasizes that this inward peace comes from her own grieving and healing work, not from having a partner, offering hope to listeners wherever they are in their journey. * Why Share Again * Anniversary Desert Trip * The Hard Joshua Tree Decision * Storm and Final Conversation * Returning With Peace * Peace Comes From Within * Closing Reflections and Hope Connect with Elizabeth: IG: @bychanceavenue [https://instagram.com/bychanceavenue/] Stay connected & up to date with all things By Chance [https://bychance.myflodesk.com/emailsignup] Want to share your story? Apply to be a guest! [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1RWGRzGCeggUdsVdwAM7-b7kLZpjMVNkrHhx2NEPtkPk/edit]

113. The Hard Call with Sarah Clifford | A Woman's Choice to Stop and Live Fully

Host Elizabeth Tiglao-Guss speaks with Sarah, co-founder of The Otherhood Collective, about Sarah’s path toward living without children and how the project began with longtime friend and co-founder Lisa Levy. Sarah is the co-founder of The Otherhood Collective, a community and storytelling platform that gives voice to those navigating life outside traditional expectations of motherhood, family, and identity. With nearly two decades of experience working with brands like Amazon, ESPN, Disney, NBC, and Paramount, she’s passionate about creating spaces where diverse stories are heard, celebrated, and empower others to live authentically. Sarah shares trying to conceive in her early 30s, undergoing medical testing and hormone treatments, being told IVF likely wouldn’t work, and choosing not to pursue surrogacy, donor paths, or adoption due to emotional capacity amid repeated family losses, including the deaths of her parents, her husband’s brother, a niece, and later her mother-in-law’s decline. She discusses redirecting love toward nieces, nephews, and community, the ongoing grief without regret, and a non-label approach to “childless/childfree.” They describe The Otherhood Collective’s year of storytelling content, the catharsis participants feel sharing with strangers, plans for in-person events, and where to find the Collective online, including a new Substack. * Her Motherhood Journey Begins * Fertility Treatments and Pauses * Choosing Another Path * Loss and Mental Capacity * Regret, Grief, and Acceptance * Founding The Otherhood Collective * Childfree vs Childless Labels * Community Threads and Storytelling * Future Plans and In-Person Events * Defining a Full Life Today * Closing and Where to Find Them Connect with Sarah: https://theotherhoodcollective.substack.com/ [https://theotherhoodcollective.substack.com/] YT, TT, IG, FB, LI all @theotherhoodcollective Connect with Elizabeth: IG: @bychanceavenue [https://instagram.com/bychanceavenue/] Stay connected & up to date with all things By Chance [https://bychance.myflodesk.com/emailsignup] Want to share your story? Apply to be a guest! [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1RWGRzGCeggUdsVdwAM7-b7kLZpjMVNkrHhx2NEPtkPk/edit]

112. Okay Hear Me Out | Why Stepping Outside the CNBC Bubble Might Actually Help You Heal

Host Elizabeth Tiglaso-Guss reflects on how, during grief and loss around not having children, people need empathetic community that “gets it,” and affirms the value of childless-not-by-choice spaces like the one they are building. They also warn that the same supportive bubble can become too small and limit growth if it becomes someone’s whole world, and they gently encourage listeners to “breathe different air” without abandoning the community or bypassing grief. Using examples like taking American mahjong lessons, hosting a beginner mahjong soiree where no one knew their story, and attending salsa dancing workshops, they describe the freedom of reconnecting with parts of themselves that existed before this journey. They also share their preference for reading general books on grief, healing, mindset, and growth rather than books centered on childlessness, and invite listeners to try one hobby, friend group, or space where they can simply be themselves. * A Gentle Contradiction * Why Empathy Matters * The Bubble Effect * Step Outside Briefly * Reclaim Old Joys * Choosing Different Books * More Than One Identity * One Small Experiment * Community Plus Growth Connect with Elizabeth: IG: @bychanceavenue [https://instagram.com/bychanceavenue/] Stay connected & up to date with all things By Chance [https://bychance.myflodesk.com/emailsignup] Want to share your story? Apply to be a guest! [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1RWGRzGCeggUdsVdwAM7-b7kLZpjMVNkrHhx2NEPtkPk/edit]