Casually Spiraling

Stop Being a Lazy Friend

41 min · 7 de may de 2026
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When did it become normal to not show up for your friends? In this episode, I talk about the shift in friendship culture from canceling plans, “protecting your energy,” and how sometimes it feels like we’ve lowered the standard of what it means to be a good friend. I get it, we’re all tired. But there’s a difference between real burnout and just not feeling like it. We get into flakiness, last-minute cancellations, and why consistency matters more than any excuse. Because it’s not about being perfect, it’s about showing up for the people you care about. Follow, like, comment, and subscribe :) Instagram:  @casuallyspiralingpodcast [https://www.instagram.com/casuallyspiralingpodcast/?next=%2Faccounts%2Fonetap%2F] & @julbishop [https://www.instagram.com/julbishop/] Youtube: CasuallySpiralingPodcast [https://www.youtube.com/@CasuallySpiralingPodcast] Tik Tok: @casuallyspiralingpodcast [https://www.tiktok.com/@casuallyspiralingpodcast] & @julbishop12 [https://www.tiktok.com/@julbishop12] Share your stories or questions to casuallyspiralingpodcast@gmail.com Editing by Julie Bishop Cover Artwork by Angelina Richeson

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