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The Hard Truth About Being “Not Fully Chosen” - Choose Yourself First

20 min · 21 de may de 2026
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In this episode, I open up about grief, dating, self-worth, situationships, intuition, and the journey of learning to choose yourself fully.After losing deep love, I realized a part of me had quietly given up hope that I could experience it again. That realization changed everything.I share lessons from my recent dating journey, including chemistry that blurred my intuition, staying longer than I should have, and what it taught me about settling, self-respect, and listening to the quiet inner knowing within ourselves.We explore: * Why being “half chosen” never feels fulfilling * Listening to your intuition in love * Love bombing & false dreams * Situationships and self-worth * Becoming your own best friend * Dating yourself & creating pleasure within your own life * Healing after heartbreak and grief * Scarcity mindset vs trusting in love again * Creating a life so full that love becomes an added joy, not a missing piece This is an honest, flowing conversation about love, healing, self-trust, and remembering that the relationship you build with yourself sets the tone for everything else in your life.You deserve to be fully chosen — especially by yourself first.Let me know in the comments below if you've ever gone through this or how this episode resonated with you. Please like, share, comment and subscribe!Until next time, my love,Christa

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