Dear Primas

Dear Mamacitas

🎙 Dear Mamacita 💐☕ Primas… Mamacitas...Mother's Day is coming up, and we have QUESTIONS 😅 Like… what do you actually want? A thoughtful gift? A quiet house? A hotel room alone with uninterrupted sleep?? 👀 In this episode, Kristi and Clari are talking all things Mother's Day! What do we truly want in this season of motherhood? We're sharing past Mother's Day experiences, and the reality that sometimes all a mom wants is caffeine and nobody touching her for 2-4 hours 😭💅 From flowers and gifts to alone time and quality time, we're unpacking the question: Do we want presents, peace and quiet… or both? 😅💌 This episode feels like a Mother's Day group chat with your primas funny, honest, and full of love for the moms doing their best every single day. So grab your cafecito ☕ (hopefully while it's still hot) and come sit with us, mamacitas 💕 Follow us: Listen via anywhere you listen to your podcasts! @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠ @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠ Currently Reading: Kristi: One Last Rainy Day Currently watching: Clari: Love Island: Beyond the Villa Kristi: Euphoria

Dear Chat, How Does One Make Friends...As An Adult?

🎙 Dear Chat, How Does One Make Friends…As An Adult? Primas… why does making friends as an adult feel harder than dating?? 😅 In this episode, Kristi and Clari are getting real about something we don't talk about enough: how to actually make friends in this season of life. Between motherhood, busy schedules, and just being a little more… aware (and maybe a little more tired), putting yourself out there can feel awkward, intimidating, and honestly, a little vulnerable. We're sharing our own experiences the good, the awkward, and the "should I text her or is that weird?" moments along with practical ways to meet people, build genuine connections, and find your people in a world that doesn't make it as easy as it used to be! Because friendships don't just happen like they did when we were younger! They take intention, effort, and sometimes a little courage. If you've ever thought: "Why is this so hard?" "Where do I even meet people?" "Is it too late to make new friends?" Primas… this one is for you. 💕 If you don't have a group chat like this yet, we're your primas 💌 Grab your cafecito ☕ and let's figure it out together. Follow us: Listen via anywhere you listen to your podcasts! @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠ @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠ Currently Reading: Kristi: #acotar : #acourtofthornsandroses #acourtoffrostandstarlight Clari: #remindersofhim Currently watching: Clari: Paradise Kristi: Summer House

Dear Millennial Mom Behavior

Primas… can we talk about the fact that we're señoras now?? 😅 Like… we grew up in the 90s with dial-up internet, LimeWire downloads, and parents yelling "get off the house phone," and somehow now we're the ones packing lunch boxes, scheduling dentist appointments, and reminding our kids to drink water. In this episode, Kristi and Clari unpack the very specific species that is the millennial mom. The moms who grew up riding bikes until the streetlights came on… but now track their kids' location, Google/ChatGPT every symptom, and send calendar invites for playdates months in advance. We talk about how technology shaped our generation, the social media habits we swore we wouldn't have (but somehow do), and the parenting styles that make millennial moms… well, millennial moms. From nostalgia about our childhood to the way we're raising our kids today, this episode is a funny, honest look at the behaviors that define this era of motherhood. Because let's be honest, we're still youthful, still figuring it out, and just trying to raise good humans while remembering where we put our caffeine. ☕ If you're a 90's baby turned señora, this one is for you. 💅Share this with a 90's baby who is now someone's mom 😅 Grab your cafecito and come laugh with your Primas. Follow us: Listen via anywhere you listen to your podcasts! @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠ @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠ Currently Reading: Kristi: #acotar : #2 #acourtofthornsandroses #acourtofmistandfury Clari: #remindersofhim Currently watching: Clari: Paradise Kristi: A Love Story Chapters: 00:00 Welcome to Dear Primas 04:41 Beverage Choices and Spring Break Vibes 09:35 Audiobook Adventures 14:21 TV Show Obsessions 19:17 Millennial Reflections and Responsibilities 20:03 The Evolution of Technology and Its Impact on Millennials 22:07 Gentle Parenting: The Millennial Mom's Dilemma 33:06 Navigating Personal Devices and Screen Time 37:42 Fostering Social Skills in a Digital Age 42:26 Navigating Screen Time and Outdoor Play 45:13 The Debate on Technology and Kids 46:46 Fast Food Culture and Parenting Challenges 49:04 Millennial Parenting and Independence 52:09 Balancing Freedom and Responsibility in Parenting 55:55 Nostalgia and the Millennial Experience

Dear Family, Are We Complete

🎙 Dear Family, Are We Complete Primas… this one is tender. 🥹💌 In this episode, Kristi and Clari open up about a question that quietly sits in so many moms' hearts: Are we complete? From planning Santi's first birthday without family nearby, to the emotional weight of those early wake-ups and sleepless nights, we talk honestly about the newborn bubble, how beautiful it is, how fleeting it feels, and how exhausting it can be when you're in it. We unpack the realities of having kids close in age, the physical toll of motherhood that no one fully prepares you for, and how deeply personal the decision to grow your family really is. Is there a "right" age gap? Is there a perfect number? Or are we all just figuring it out as we go? We also talk about the differences in raising boys and girls, the importance of partner support, and why open communication matters more than ever when you're navigating these life-changing decisions together. If you've ever wondered whether your family is complete… or whether your heart still wants more… this conversation is for you. 💕 No pressure. No judgment. Just real talk from two Primas learning as they go. Grab your cafecito ☕ and come sit with us! Let's get into it Primas! Currently Watching: Clari- Paradise Currently Reading: Kristi- Everyone is lying to you Jo Piazza Clari- Listen for the lie Let's get into it Primas! Follow us: @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠ @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠ Dear Primas - YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/@DearPrimas]

Dear We Have Thoughts

Primas… we have THOUGHTS. 😅💅 In this episode, Clari and Kristi are doing what we do best catching up on what we're watching, what we're reading, and the shows that absolutely have a chokehold on us right now. From His & Hers to The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives and Tell Me Lies, we're unpacking the twists, the red flags, the characters who make questionable choices, and why we're still so invested. SPOILER ALERT*** This convo feels like the group chat after everyone finishes the same show a little nostalgic, a little "why are we like this?" So grab your cafecito ☕, settle in, and come spiral with us. And don't forget to tell us what YOU'RE watching next because if there's one thing we're always ready for, it's more recommendations. 💌 Follow us: @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠ @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠ Dear Primas - YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/@DearPrimas]