expansive evolution with emi

"I informed and it didn't work"

Sometimes, the people in our lives aren’t ready to handle a Manifestor learning to follow their creative urges, or announcing their boundaries. In this episode, I go into some of the real scenarios I’ve been in that made informing not work and why I feel it didn’t. I also add reminders and suggestions at the end for how to navigate your relationships when your informing isn’t working. Post listen reflection questions: * Where are you trying to inform, keep people in the loop and keep relationships alive when it is clearly not a reciprocal, healthy, respectful relationship for you? * Can you surrender to the idea that maybe if you repel people when you inform, it was meant to be and they are not ready for your initiations? But that that also doesn’t mean you shouldn’t go after it? * Are you willing to defend and stand up for your peace, creative urges and boundaries? Or are you going to keep sacrificing these needs of yours? Get full access to expansive evolution at expansiveevolution.substack.com/subscribe [https://expansiveevolution.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4]

Humour and Play

Here’s a TEDMED talk [https://youtu.be/GElGvkj_QMI?si=FoRdh-eQkYEuQUZB] about play from 2014 by Jill Vialet. What does your silly side look like? How are you incorporating play into your life? Get full access to expansive evolution at expansiveevolution.substack.com/subscribe [https://expansiveevolution.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4]

What happens when a Manifestor can't type anymore

A recent degradation of some fine motor skills has led to the temporary inability to handwrite, type or use a mouse very well. Resorting to using speech-to-text software has brought some insights in my life, particularly around further understanding my energy availability and how it translates into my voice and action. Get full access to expansive evolution at expansiveevolution.substack.com/subscribe [https://expansiveevolution.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4]

Creating Protective Walls in Undefined centres

Are you overprotecting your undefined centres and blocking off the magical experiences that you could be and are designed to be experiencing in this lifetime? There is a time and place for everything and it's important that you follow your Strategy and Authority to assess how to work with your openness in your design. I have an image of a castle that seems a little bit challenging to get to as a metaphor of an undefined centre that has many walls built around it to protect it. Of course as always, I have additional thoughts after I finish recording a podcast episode, apologies for that. I wanted to add that this does not mean that I advise that you follow every suggestion that you receive regarding your undefined G-Centre or any of your non-defined centres, but that you consider them and always tune in to your Authority ultimately to support you to make the best decision for yourself. And that the challenge lies when you aren't open to even considering the possibilities or the options that lay before you, and blocking yourself off from experiencing what life has to offer to you. In my naivete as a young girl who desired love and belonging, I was not tuning into my own senses to draw the boundaries and draw the lines around what I was willing to let into my undefined centres and what I was not willing to. This awareness of human design gifts me with the opportunity to work with my openness and my design to allow in the magic of life as I am meant to experience, and to also draw boundaries where I feel necessary. In my journey of recovering from trauma, I closed myself off, created lots of walls to never be hurt again. But I’m blocking myself off from experiencing life the way I am meant to. Life isn’t only about living your definition, it’s moreso about experiencing it through your undefined areas. Get full access to expansive evolution at expansiveevolution.substack.com/subscribe [https://expansiveevolution.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4]

Rest vs creation and How to work with Splenic Intuition

These are the two themes that have really been making a difference for me lately and I wanted to share them with you in case they’re beneficial for you! Rest versus creation as a Manifestor - is it really cycles? Or is it flow? In addition to what I said in my podcast, for me, trying to distinguish when I’m resting versus creating was difficult because sometimes my creating is happening while I’m seemingly resting, laying on the couch. When I’m resting, I’m often percolating, simmering, ideating, formulating mental connections, deepening my understanding of things, open to inspiration, etc. So, is that creation or is that rest? The distinction of rest versus creation maybe is not that black and white. Maybe the distinction is the internal creation versus the externalising of the creation. It’s like the pregnancy phase versus the actual birth. So, this leads me even more into this idea of FLOW, as a Manifestor. That’s what it’s about to use your energy in alignment with its natural rhythms. This reframe is a GAME CHANGERRRR!! Regarding my second revelation in my deconditioning journey: Fears - identify the different voices in you. The spontaneous fears are probably from your intuition, especially if you can’t logically understand it, and the recurring fears are likely worries from your not-self. Exercise: Draw a table, with two columns and in one column you write out the fears that you KNOW you have in one column (those are your mental fears and not-self fears) and in the other column, you write the times in your life that your Spleen/intuition told you something about danger/unhealthy situations or direction as a result of your intuition sensing a potential danger. Here’s an example, this was the beginning of my list: (see Substack) Good luck on your deconditioning journey! Let me know if these revelations of mine resonated with you! Get full access to expansive evolution at expansiveevolution.substack.com/subscribe [https://expansiveevolution.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4]