Grit and Grace Podcast with Tonya Bruton

Practice the Pause: Anger, Pride & the Holy Spirit

1 h 17 min · 23 de abr de 2026
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This episode is different. No script. No outline. Just a real, unfiltered conversation—recorded live while sitting on the floor, Bible open, painting, and processing in real time. Over the last few days, I’ve been dealing with anger—losing my temper, feeling justified, thinking it was anxiety… But God showed me something I didn’t expect. It wasn’t anxiety. It was pride. In this episode, we talk about what it really means to grieve the Holy Spirit—not in some distant or dramatic way, but in the everyday moments where we react instead of pause. 📖 Key Scriptures: Ephesians 4:26–32 James 1:20 Proverbs 16:32 Proverbs 29:11 Proverbs 17:27–28 Psalm 141:3 1 Peter 2:23 1 Peter 5:8 Romans 8 We unpack: • Why human anger doesn’t produce God’s righteousness • How pride fuels our reactions • What “be angry and sin not” actually looks like in real life • How reacting in the flesh gives the enemy a foothold • Why the pause is not self-control—it’s surrender ✨ The Pause Practice: 1. Identify the trigger 2. Take a 3-second breath prayer 3. Ask: “Lord, what does love look like here?” 4. Respond led by the Spirit—not your emotions This isn’t about managing your anger better. It’s about letting the Holy Spirit lead you in the moment. 📝 Companion blog (deeper reflection): 👉 https://www.tonyabruton.com/blog 💛 Support the show: 👉 Venmo: Tonya-Bruton If this episode spoke to you, share it with someone who needs it.

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