Honestly Speaking by Twinkle Stanly

so...i’m challenging myself to stop hating men in 2025 (and here’s how)

Welcome back to another episode of Honestly Speaking!!!! In this episode, I’m taking on a big challenge for 2025: quitting the 'I Hate Men' mindset. Like many of us, I’ve found myself, not only falling into the 'all men are trash' narrative, but also adding to it in many ways —but this year, I’m rethinking how that perspective serves me (or doesn’t). It's extremely uncomfortable and challenging, but join me as I unpack where these feelings come from, why I’ve decided to shift my mindset, and how I’m challenging myself to approach relationships, conversations, and life with more balance and trust.

Taking my time: Why I refuse to date in my 20s

💗 Welcome back to Honestly Speaking —this is Episode 3! In today's yap sesh, I’m getting *very* real about why I’m totally cool staying single right now. I talk about the exact qualities I look for in a partner, what makes them non-negotiable, and why I refuse to settle for less than what I think I deserve. Whether you’re single, in a relationship, or somewhere in between, this episode is about trusting your timeline, and feeling confident in your choices. Let’s dive in. 🎧

I'm an introvert, and frankly I'm ok with it.

In the second episode of Honestly Speaking, I open up about the realities of being an introvert in an extroverted world—and why, honestly, I’m completely okay with it. I talk about my personal struggles with social settings and feeling completely out of place. In this episode, I’m setting the record straight and sharing what being an introvert truly means to me.. If you're curious about the part social media plays in this, I also open up about how it has become an important part in my journey of self-confidence. Although the influencer career is usually seen as a medium for extroverts to shine, platforms like Instagram and Twitter have given me the incredible opportunity for me to express myself, and introverts like me. Whether you’re an introvert, extrovert, or somewhere in between, this episode will make you feel a little less alone. Enjoy! Don't forget to shop my dress here (Code: TWINK): https://ty.gl/8tuh984bke06y