ATTACHMENTATIONS

SHADOW SERIES: Type 7

Kristen (so/sp 9w1 963) is moving on with the shadow series to the Hexad types of the Enneagram (1, 2, 4, 5, 7, & 8) by starting off with everyone's favorite entertainer; Type 7. Kristen breaks down some of the more common personal shadows a 7 might have, and then pivots to the shadows we typically collectively project onto the type. If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about your experience with type 7, we’d love to hear from you ~ If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~ House of Enneagram Network: Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com Official Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) https://www.youtube.com/@TheEnneagramSchool Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=f76019854909416c Unrequited enneagram thirsting and type interviews @ Hopeless Romantwinks; https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=96zqIl3sTMc Timestamps: 00:00 - Intro to Enneagram Type 7 09:46 - Disclaimer 10:35 - Shadows Within: HEXAD 15:14 - 'Navigation' 16:06 - Positive / Assertive / Frustration 22:42 - Fear & responsibility 25:41 - Unprocessed emotions 29:15 - 'Character' 29:38 - Keeping energy 'up', idea generator 32:12 - Performing heart for others, emotions are for fun/entertainment 35:02 - Self-interested, cheap stimulation 37:36 - Collective Shadows 38:11 - 'Mind' 38:30 - Creativity, the disappointment of reality 41:15 - Addiction/self-interest scapegoat 45:14 - Gambling, risks, chance 47:54 - 'Personhood' 48:30 - Life is playful, seeking spark, what 'lights you up' 53:25 - 'Resilience' 56:27 - Wide/deep spectrum of elated emotions, collective cheapens/mutes these experiences 59:32 - Conclusion #enneagram #enneagramtypes #personalitytypes #enneagram7 #enneagramtype7 #shadowwork #psychology #typology

you’re not social blind

And you don’t really get what it is. Emeka (SX/SP 8w7 854) and Kristen (SO/SP 9w1 963) dive into what is most misunderstood about social blindness. If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about what you liked about this episode. If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~ House of Enneagram Network: Official Typing Team @ ⁠https://www.enneagrammer.com [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbTFWRkdXZnpWMl9YTFNkRk5zU2ZZaFpPMkVLUXxBQ3Jtc0ttcVhka3BFQjY3RFZmVmhDUzFMWjAxSnF1U2xHNmVHTm1wRWYzSllJYjlCWE1OUkFyS3pMU3l0QTJjbUREbzhkM0N3cGM5bXVfWUJaTm5qalJtRGZvTmd2cDd0d1MxTnJTNVlKY1QyNi14NWh2bHA2UQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.enneagrammer.com%2F&v=1PIBIqe5JUA]⁠ The Enneagram School @ ⁠https://www.theenneagramschool.com [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbmNKdkY0UXdNYVR1M0U5Z01uZW94am5NVHg1UXxBQ3Jtc0ttUHZwdDJhTXkwOXQwVzM0bFJhTUlTZl9DNGpXdXFieUdIcXFWS2lGQ0VaUktqSzBkM2RKcS1nZkdlY3RWZmhad3BpUEVTNjlXZmlIa21qUWw5VmU1b0hITEJNbEdrLUFIS1A4S2wyaWRWb0pNZ3dVcw&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.theenneagramschool.com%2F&v=1PIBIqe5JUA]⁠ Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) ⁠https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvkn... [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbEg2dk5aWXpZc0FsWGdfVmJwcXFjNDU4aG1PZ3xBQ3Jtc0tscnpMdWhPUEdBWnllN0tEWFFzeTRtc0RtR3Vwd1hUV3JuVEFwNXhIeEtzT2trUDViWVNYeGxZcTZ6azJZdzlwQWNTXzh5MWhWeWladlI0VFBoa2tUb3VlUkZDVEhqM2lGdWpZaWYzVnAxX2RrZHh4RQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fopen.spotify.com%2Fshow%2F5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM%3Fsi%3D7b82ff544ae74405%E2%81%A0&v=1PIBIqe5JUA] Unrequited Enneagram Thirsting and Type Interviews   https://youtube.com/@HopelessRomantwinks [https://youtube.com/@HopelessRomantwinks] Show Notes  0:18 People Not Getting What Social Blindness Really Is 2:52 Kristen Mistyping As A Social-Blind 6:15 Social Blinds Don’t Frame Their Character Contextually 8:56 Everyone Thinks They Suck At Social 13:15 What Hooked Emeka Into The Enneagram 16:23 Social Blinds Are Missing The “Our Story” Tab 23:17 Social Blinds Haven’t Confronted The Context Of Their History  30:11 Social Is Having A Relationship With Your Personhood 34:52 Why People Mistype As Their Blindspot 38:00 SX Is A Very Small Part Of Evolution 40:56 The Craziness Of SX Being A Person’s Day To Day Fixation 44:56 Social Blinds Not Having Empathy For Other People’s Personhood 51:23 Social Blinds Not Signaling If They Like You Or Not 59:58 A Social Blind’s Cave 1:04:41 SP/SX VS SX/SP Energy 1:19:53 Social Blinds In Dark Rooms As A Baseline 1:26:31 Social Blind Objectification Feels Vampiric  1:29:17 SX Chasing Euphoria  1:33:06 The Social Blind Death Drive

THROUGH THE LENS: Trifix and Art

Kristen (so/sp 9w1 963) presents an idea to Emeka (sx/sp 8w7 854) and David (sp/sx 9w1 974) about the value that is deep within the nature of art and artists. Kristen references J.F. Martel's book 'Reclaiming Art in the Age of Artifice' to lay out the topic and discuss how this may show up within or limit certain Enneagram type structures. This is the beginning and setup of the series 'THROUGH THE LENS' - a creative deep dive into the 'art' that illustrates a trifix (or vice versa). Reclaiming Art in the Age of Artifice: https://www.hachettebookgroup.com/titles/j-f-martel/reclaiming-art-in-the-age-of-artifice/9781541607248/?lens=basic-books If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about your ideas of art or artists, we’d love to hear from you ~ If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~ House of Enneagram Network: Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com Official Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) https://www.youtube.com/@TheEnneagramSchool Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=f76019854909416c Unrequited enneagram thirsting and type interviews @ Hopeless Romantwinks https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=96zqIl3sTMc Timestamps: 00:00 - Exploring the intersection of personality and art 06:03 - Type and artistic expression 09:50 - "AI Slop" 15:45 - Art v Artist 32:35 - Objectification within art 40:11 - Artistic identity and context #enneagram #enneagramtypes #personalitytypes #enneagraminstincts #psychology #art #artists #critique

ATTACHMENTATIONS

Emeka (SX/SP 8w7 854) and Kristen (SO/SP 9w1 963) pick apart various  attachment and social enmeshments and the expectations that come with them. If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about what you liked about this episode. If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~ House of Enneagram Network: Official Typing Team @ ⁠https://www.enneagrammer.com [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbTFWRkdXZnpWMl9YTFNkRk5zU2ZZaFpPMkVLUXxBQ3Jtc0ttcVhka3BFQjY3RFZmVmhDUzFMWjAxSnF1U2xHNmVHTm1wRWYzSllJYjlCWE1OUkFyS3pMU3l0QTJjbUREbzhkM0N3cGM5bXVfWUJaTm5qalJtRGZvTmd2cDd0d1MxTnJTNVlKY1QyNi14NWh2bHA2UQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.enneagrammer.com%2F&v=1PIBIqe5JUA]⁠ The Enneagram School @ ⁠https://www.theenneagramschool.com [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbmNKdkY0UXdNYVR1M0U5Z01uZW94am5NVHg1UXxBQ3Jtc0ttUHZwdDJhTXkwOXQwVzM0bFJhTUlTZl9DNGpXdXFieUdIcXFWS2lGQ0VaUktqSzBkM2RKcS1nZkdlY3RWZmhad3BpUEVTNjlXZmlIa21qUWw5VmU1b0hITEJNbEdrLUFIS1A4S2wyaWRWb0pNZ3dVcw&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.theenneagramschool.com%2F&v=1PIBIqe5JUA]⁠ Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) ⁠https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvkn... [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbEg2dk5aWXpZc0FsWGdfVmJwcXFjNDU4aG1PZ3xBQ3Jtc0tscnpMdWhPUEdBWnllN0tEWFFzeTRtc0RtR3Vwd1hUV3JuVEFwNXhIeEtzT2trUDViWVNYeGxZcTZ6azJZdzlwQWNTXzh5MWhWeWladlI0VFBoa2tUb3VlUkZDVEhqM2lGdWpZaWYzVnAxX2RrZHh4RQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fopen.spotify.com%2Fshow%2F5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM%3Fsi%3D7b82ff544ae74405%E2%81%A0&v=1PIBIqe5JUA] Unrequited Enneagram Thirsting and Type Interviews   https://youtube.com/@HopelessRomantwinks [https://youtube.com/@HopelessRomantwinks] Show Notes  0:07 Let’s Talk About Attachment 1:46 Kristen’s Impressions Of The Social Hexad and SP/SX Attachment Pods 2:57 Social Creates Virtual Characters Of People 7:09 Humanity Is Built On Attachment Enmeshment 10:17 Attachmentation #1 - ‘Making It’ 16:33 The Attachment Of Family Traditions And Expectations 22:56 Attachmentation #2 - Going Along To Get Along 29:45 Everyone Is Performing Personhood 35:05 Attachmentation #3 - Tall Poppy Syndrome   42:16 The Nature Of Fandom And Social Projections 46:21 Attachmentation #4 - Keeping Up With The Jones 50:18 Collective Labels Are Attached To Everything 1:03:08 Parent-Child Projections Are The Ultimate Attachmentation 1:04:57 The Spectrum Of Social Blindness 1:09:55 We Get Archetypes From Social And Attachment 1:12:43 The Obsession With Curating A Virtual Self 1:22:57 Attachment Anticipating Ostracization

run ratrun rat run: $ELF-PRES

Kristen (so/sp 9w1 963) and Maggie (sp/sx 7w6 794) talk about the garbage can of the Enneagram instincts - Self-Preservation. Why does everyone hate it? Why does everyone have it? Is it really about workouts and supplements? If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about your experience with self-preservation, we’d love to hear from you ~ If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~ House of Enneagram Network: Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com Official Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) https://www.youtube.com/@TheEnneagramSchool Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=f76019854909416c Unrequited enneagram thirsting and type interviews @ Hopeless Romantwinks https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=96zqIl3sTMc Timestamps: 00:00 - Self-Preservation = garbage can 05:39 - Unhealthy aspects of SP 12:42 - Scarcity vs. Abundance 21:07 - Lessons from rat studies 35:06 - The cycle of rote behavior 40:57 - Fear and control in SP 45:05 - The illusion of "self-care" 51:29 - Dynamic engagement with life 01:12:35 - Consumerism in modern life 01:15:14 - Kurt Vonnegut's 'Breakfast of Champions' #enneagram #enneagramtypes #enneagraminstincts #personalitytypes #selfpreservation #typology #objectivepsychology