you’re not social blind

Kurt Cobain sucks (and so do you)

Kristen (so/sp 9w1 963), Emeka (sx/sp 8w7 854) and David (sp/sx 9w1 974) talk about the phenomenon of Kurt Cobain (and Courtney Love). Was there a collective identity projected onto him that deeply skewed the reality of who he really was day to day? With an accurate understanding of the Enneagram types, we can confidently say - yes. This topic discusses personality patterns, idealizing character traits, and seeing the edges and stark differences of the Enneagram. If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment what you think, we’d love to hear from you ~ If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~ House of Enneagram Network: Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com Official Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) https://www.youtube.com/@TheEnneagramSchool Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=f76019854909416c Unrequited enneagram thirsting and type interviews @ Hopeless Romantwinks: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=96zqIl3sTMc Timestamps: 00:00 - Identity and idolization 11:15 - Seeing the shiny celebrity vs personality struggles 29:34 - Chaotic energy in the sexual instinct 35:02 - The preciousness of identity in typology 44:30 - Complexities and contradictions of human experience and personality patterns 52:25 - Understanding personality fixation 56:18 - Allowing disillusionment and differences 59:46 - The enneagram beyond definitions #enneagram #enneagramtypes #personalitytypes #enneagraminstincts #kurtcobain #typology #courtneylove

Backrooms Is Really About A Sad Angry Enneagram 9

[SPOILERS] Emeka (SX/SP 8w7 854) and Kristen (SO/SP 9w1 963) dive into enneagram themes in the Backrooms movie. House of Enneagram Network: Official Typing Team @ ⁠https://www.enneagrammer.com [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbTFWRkdXZnpWMl9YTFNkRk5zU2ZZaFpPMkVLUXxBQ3Jtc0ttcVhka3BFQjY3RFZmVmhDUzFMWjAxSnF1U2xHNmVHTm1wRWYzSllJYjlCWE1OUkFyS3pMU3l0QTJjbUREbzhkM0N3cGM5bXVfWUJaTm5qalJtRGZvTmd2cDd0d1MxTnJTNVlKY1QyNi14NWh2bHA2UQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.enneagrammer.com%2F&v=1PIBIqe5JUA]⁠ The Enneagram School @ ⁠https://www.theenneagramschool.com [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbmNKdkY0UXdNYVR1M0U5Z01uZW94am5NVHg1UXxBQ3Jtc0ttUHZwdDJhTXkwOXQwVzM0bFJhTUlTZl9DNGpXdXFieUdIcXFWS2lGQ0VaUktqSzBkM2RKcS1nZkdlY3RWZmhad3BpUEVTNjlXZmlIa21qUWw5VmU1b0hITEJNbEdrLUFIS1A4S2wyaWRWb0pNZ3dVcw&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.theenneagramschool.com%2F&v=1PIBIqe5JUA]⁠ Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) ⁠https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvkn... [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbEg2dk5aWXpZc0FsWGdfVmJwcXFjNDU4aG1PZ3xBQ3Jtc0tscnpMdWhPUEdBWnllN0tEWFFzeTRtc0RtR3Vwd1hUV3JuVEFwNXhIeEtzT2trUDViWVNYeGxZcTZ6azJZdzlwQWNTXzh5MWhWeWladlI0VFBoa2tUb3VlUkZDVEhqM2lGdWpZaWYzVnAxX2RrZHh4RQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fopen.spotify.com%2Fshow%2F5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM%3Fsi%3D7b82ff544ae74405%E2%81%A0&v=1PIBIqe5JUA] Unrequited Enneagram Thirsting and Type Interviews   https://youtube.com/@HopelessRomantwinks [https://youtube.com/@HopelessRomantwinks] Show Notes  0:17 Backrooms Is Really About Enneagram 9 3:04 Virtual Life Obsessions Of 9 6:45 9 Self-Fragmentation In The Backrooms 8:21 9 Feeling Stuck Disowning Their Autonomy 13:31 5 Fix Vs 6 Fix Storytelling 18:54 Comparing The Backrooms To The Shining 20:47 Body Types Are Great At World Building 25:00 Thoughts On The Reception And The Ending 29:23 The 20 Year Old Director Who ‘Made It’ 35:41 5 Deconstructing Reality 42:54 ‘We Don’t Have To Change’ Backrooms Of The Psyche 45:45 SX Middle Tension In Films 48:44 Attachment Types Being Insufferable  50:41 Hexad Vs Attachment Entities 53:19 3 Vs 4 Fix Storytelling

SHADOW SERIES: Type 7

Kristen (so/sp 9w1 963) is moving on with the shadow series to the Hexad types of the Enneagram (1, 2, 4, 5, 7, & 8) by starting off with everyone's favorite entertainer; Type 7. Kristen breaks down some of the more common personal shadows a 7 might have, and then pivots to the shadows we typically collectively project onto the type. If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about your experience with type 7, we’d love to hear from you ~ If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~ House of Enneagram Network: Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com Official Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) https://www.youtube.com/@TheEnneagramSchool Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=f76019854909416c Unrequited enneagram thirsting and type interviews @ Hopeless Romantwinks; https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=96zqIl3sTMc Timestamps: 00:00 - Intro to Enneagram Type 7 09:46 - Disclaimer 10:35 - Shadows Within: HEXAD 15:14 - 'Navigation' 16:06 - Positive / Assertive / Frustration 22:42 - Fear & responsibility 25:41 - Unprocessed emotions 29:15 - 'Character' 29:38 - Keeping energy 'up', idea generator 32:12 - Performing heart for others, emotions are for fun/entertainment 35:02 - Self-interested, cheap stimulation 37:36 - Collective Shadows 38:11 - 'Mind' 38:30 - Creativity, the disappointment of reality 41:15 - Addiction/self-interest scapegoat 45:14 - Gambling, risks, chance 47:54 - 'Personhood' 48:30 - Life is playful, seeking spark, what 'lights you up' 53:25 - 'Resilience' 56:27 - Wide/deep spectrum of elated emotions, collective cheapens/mutes these experiences 59:32 - Conclusion #enneagram #enneagramtypes #personalitytypes #enneagram7 #enneagramtype7 #shadowwork #psychology #typology

you’re not social blind

And you don’t really get what it is. Emeka (SX/SP 8w7 854) and Kristen (SO/SP 9w1 963) dive into what is most misunderstood about social blindness. If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about what you liked about this episode. If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~ House of Enneagram Network: Official Typing Team @ ⁠https://www.enneagrammer.com [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbTFWRkdXZnpWMl9YTFNkRk5zU2ZZaFpPMkVLUXxBQ3Jtc0ttcVhka3BFQjY3RFZmVmhDUzFMWjAxSnF1U2xHNmVHTm1wRWYzSllJYjlCWE1OUkFyS3pMU3l0QTJjbUREbzhkM0N3cGM5bXVfWUJaTm5qalJtRGZvTmd2cDd0d1MxTnJTNVlKY1QyNi14NWh2bHA2UQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.enneagrammer.com%2F&v=1PIBIqe5JUA]⁠ The Enneagram School @ ⁠https://www.theenneagramschool.com [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbmNKdkY0UXdNYVR1M0U5Z01uZW94am5NVHg1UXxBQ3Jtc0ttUHZwdDJhTXkwOXQwVzM0bFJhTUlTZl9DNGpXdXFieUdIcXFWS2lGQ0VaUktqSzBkM2RKcS1nZkdlY3RWZmhad3BpUEVTNjlXZmlIa21qUWw5VmU1b0hITEJNbEdrLUFIS1A4S2wyaWRWb0pNZ3dVcw&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.theenneagramschool.com%2F&v=1PIBIqe5JUA]⁠ Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) ⁠https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvkn... [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbEg2dk5aWXpZc0FsWGdfVmJwcXFjNDU4aG1PZ3xBQ3Jtc0tscnpMdWhPUEdBWnllN0tEWFFzeTRtc0RtR3Vwd1hUV3JuVEFwNXhIeEtzT2trUDViWVNYeGxZcTZ6azJZdzlwQWNTXzh5MWhWeWladlI0VFBoa2tUb3VlUkZDVEhqM2lGdWpZaWYzVnAxX2RrZHh4RQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fopen.spotify.com%2Fshow%2F5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM%3Fsi%3D7b82ff544ae74405%E2%81%A0&v=1PIBIqe5JUA] Unrequited Enneagram Thirsting and Type Interviews   https://youtube.com/@HopelessRomantwinks [https://youtube.com/@HopelessRomantwinks] Show Notes  0:18 People Not Getting What Social Blindness Really Is 2:52 Kristen Mistyping As A Social-Blind 6:15 Social Blinds Don’t Frame Their Character Contextually 8:56 Everyone Thinks They Suck At Social 13:15 What Hooked Emeka Into The Enneagram 16:23 Social Blinds Are Missing The “Our Story” Tab 23:17 Social Blinds Haven’t Confronted The Context Of Their History  30:11 Social Is Having A Relationship With Your Personhood 34:52 Why People Mistype As Their Blindspot 38:00 SX Is A Very Small Part Of Evolution 40:56 The Craziness Of SX Being A Person’s Day To Day Fixation 44:56 Social Blinds Not Having Empathy For Other People’s Personhood 51:23 Social Blinds Not Signaling If They Like You Or Not 59:58 A Social Blind’s Cave 1:04:41 SP/SX VS SX/SP Energy 1:19:53 Social Blinds In Dark Rooms As A Baseline 1:26:31 Social Blind Objectification Feels Vampiric  1:29:17 SX Chasing Euphoria  1:33:06 The Social Blind Death Drive

THROUGH THE LENS: Trifix and Art

Kristen (so/sp 9w1 963) presents an idea to Emeka (sx/sp 8w7 854) and David (sp/sx 9w1 974) about the value that is deep within the nature of art and artists. Kristen references J.F. Martel's book 'Reclaiming Art in the Age of Artifice' to lay out the topic and discuss how this may show up within or limit certain Enneagram type structures. This is the beginning and setup of the series 'THROUGH THE LENS' - a creative deep dive into the 'art' that illustrates a trifix (or vice versa). Reclaiming Art in the Age of Artifice: https://www.hachettebookgroup.com/titles/j-f-martel/reclaiming-art-in-the-age-of-artifice/9781541607248/?lens=basic-books If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about your ideas of art or artists, we’d love to hear from you ~ If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~ House of Enneagram Network: Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com Official Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) https://www.youtube.com/@TheEnneagramSchool Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=f76019854909416c Unrequited enneagram thirsting and type interviews @ Hopeless Romantwinks https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=96zqIl3sTMc Timestamps: 00:00 - Exploring the intersection of personality and art 06:03 - Type and artistic expression 09:50 - "AI Slop" 15:45 - Art v Artist 32:35 - Objectification within art 40:11 - Artistic identity and context #enneagram #enneagramtypes #personalitytypes #enneagraminstincts #psychology #art #artists #critique