Why are Black Gay Men Determined to be Successful and Independent? A Conversation on Gaychivement

Diving Deeper into the 50/50 Relationship Theory. The dating, dowries, weddings and more!

Be sure to watch Part 1 of of this conversation first! We conclude the conversation on 50/50 relationships and dating. Anjeleigh, Ray, Jeff, and DMC talk about dating, transactional situations, and handling different responsibilities in today's dating world compared to the past. "Just... The 50/50 Theory: Part 2"_______________________________ Takeaways: * Why perfect equality is unrealistic and potentially unfair. * Emotional and financial contributions: balancing responsibility versus capacity. * Unlearning traditional gender roles and societal expectations around partnership. * The importance of full-hearted investment and showing up 100-100. * How reciprocity and intentionality shape healthy relationships. * The impact of cultural backgrounds and upbringing on partnership dynamics. * Flexibility in love: seasons of giving more or less. _______________________________ Listen to Our 90’s Playlist: YouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTzaf4yOmTtwfewr5Lq5jTB9Y5JvKg8lh&si=Lqv2Xassq-woeJUA Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4xX9SSUHjjxdk7CkqUHUuN Apple Music:  https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/the-just-drawz-podcast-presents-decades-the-90s/pl.u-06oxDB6uJNjgJe _______________________________ Guests: Anjeleigh: https://www.instagram.com/anjeleighpart1 [https://www.instagram.com/anjeleighpart1] Ray: https://www.instagram.com/oquendoduke [https://www.instagram.com/oquendoduke/] Hosts: DMC: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded [https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0] ⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠⁠ [https://x.com/DMCureton%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0] ⁠https://linktr.ee/deeemcee⁠ [https://linktr.ee/deeemcee] Jeff: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup [https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/%E2%81%A0] ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup [https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0] ⁠https://linktr.ee/jefflevelsup⁠ [https://linktr.ee/jefflevelsup] _______________________________ Just Drawz on Social Media: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast [https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0] ⁠https://linktr.ee/JustDrawz⁠ [https://linktr.ee/JustDrawz] _______________________________ Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup [https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0] ⁠⁠⁠_______________________________ Music: "Neptunes" - by Black Assassin - ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin [https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0] _______________________________ Keywords: acceptance, achievement, adult content, authenticity, Black and brown men, Black gay men, boundaries, collaboration, communication, cultural differences, emotional healing, expectations, family, future aspirations, gay, gay marriage, healing, honest conversations, identity, independence, industry insights, influence, legacy, LGBTQ, LGBTQ relationships, LGBTQ+, LGBTQIA, LGBTQIA+, love, marriage, marriage views, masculinity, mental health, personal growth, proposals, queerness, recognition, relationship dynamics, relationships, safe spaces, Same gender loving, same sex marrige, self improvement, self love, self reflections, self-discovery, self-perception, sexual exploration, SGL, social media, societal perceptions, success, support, vulnerability, 50-50 relationships, Partnership dynamics, Emotional contributions,Gender roles, mutual support in love, relationship flexibility, cultural impact on relationships, financial, balance in partnerships, unlearning societal norms, reciprocity in relationships _______________________________ #JustDrawz #Acceptance #Achievement #Authenticity #BlackAndBrownMen #BlackGayMen #Boundaries #Collaboration #Communication #CulturalDifferences #EmotionalHealing #Expectations #Family #FutureAspirations #Gay #GayMarriage #Healing #HonestConversations #Identity #Independence #LGBTQ #LGBTQRelationships #LGBTQPlus #LGBTQIA #LGBTQIAPlus #Love #Marriage #MarriageViews #Masculinity #MentalHealth #PersonalGrowth #Queerness #Recognition #RelationshipDynamics #Relationships #SafeSpaces #SameGenderLoving #SameSexMarriage #SelfImprovement #SelfLove #SelfReflections #SelfDiscovery #SGL #SocietalPerceptions #Success #Support #Vulnerability #5050 #reciprocity

Is the 50/50 Relationship Theory an Unrealistic "Relationship Goal" Fantasy or Does it Really Work?

In this first part of a two part episode, Jeff and DMC explore the evolving dynamics of relationships beyond the common 50-50 rule. They unpack the complexities of partnership, traditional roles, emotional equity, and what it really means to show up fully for each other, whether in heterosexual, LGBTQ+, or unconventional arrangements. Returning to the panel is frequent guest Anjeleigh in her first appearance with DMC and Jeff! Her point of view comes from the female end of a heterosexual marriage. We're also welcoming Ray who is brings the view point from a long term same sex marriage.  Be sure to watch Part 2 of this conversation! “Just… The 50/50 Theory" _______________________________ Takeaways: * Why perfect equality is unrealistic and potentially unfair. * Emotional and financial contributions: balancing responsibility versus capacity. * Unlearning traditional gender roles and societal expectations around partnership. * The importance of full-hearted investment and showing up 100-100. * How reciprocity and intentionality shape healthy relationships. * The impact of cultural backgrounds and upbringing on partnership dynamics. _______________________________ Listen to Our 90’s Playlist: YouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTzaf4yOmTtwfewr5Lq5jTB9Y5JvKg8lh&si=Lqv2Xassq-woeJUA Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4xX9SSUHjjxdk7CkqUHUuN Apple Music:  https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/the-just-drawz-podcast-presents-decades-the-90s/pl.u-06oxDB6uJNjgJe _______________________________ Guests: Anjeleigh: https://www.instagram.com/anjeleighpart1 [https://www.instagram.com/anjeleighpart1] Ray: https://www.instagram.com/oquendoduke [https://www.instagram.com/oquendoduke/] Hosts: DMC: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded [https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0] ⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠⁠ [https://x.com/DMCureton%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0] ⁠https://linktr.ee/deeemcee⁠ [https://linktr.ee/deeemcee] Jeff: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup [https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/%E2%81%A0] ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup [https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0] ⁠https://linktr.ee/jefflevelsup⁠ [https://linktr.ee/jefflevelsup] _______________________________ Just Drawz on Social Media: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast [https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0] ⁠https://linktr.ee/JustDrawz⁠ [https://linktr.ee/JustDrawz] _______________________________ Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup [https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0] ⁠⁠⁠_______________________________ Music: "Neptunes" - by Black Assassin - ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin [https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0] _______________________________ Keywords: acceptance, achievement, adult content, authenticity, Black and brown men, Black gay men, boundaries, collaboration, communication, cultural differences, emotional healing, expectations, family, future aspirations, gay, gay marriage, healing, honest conversations, identity, independence, industry insights, influence, legacy, LGBTQ, LGBTQ relationships, LGBTQ+, LGBTQIA, LGBTQIA+, love, marriage, marriage views, masculinity, mental health, personal growth, proposals, queerness, recognition, relationship dynamics, relationships, safe spaces, Same gender loving, same sex marrige, self improvement, self love, self reflections, self-discovery, self-perception, sexual exploration, SGL, social media, societal perceptions, success, support, vulnerability, 50-50 relationships, Partnership dynamics, Emotional contributions, gender roles, mutual support in love, relationship flexibility, cultural impact on relationships, financial, balance in partnerships, unlearning societal norms, reciprocity in relationships _______________________________ #JustDrawz #Acceptance #Achievement #Authenticity #BlackAndBrownMen #BlackGayMen #Boundaries #Collaboration #Communication #CulturalDifferences #EmotionalHealing #Expectations #Family #FutureAspirations #Gay #GayMarriage #Healing #HonestConversations #Identity #Independence #LGBTQ #LGBTQRelationships #LGBTQPlus #LGBTQIA #LGBTQIAPlus #Love #Marriage #MarriageViews #Masculinity #MentalHealth #PersonalGrowth #Queerness #Recognition #RelationshipDynamics #Relationships #SafeSpaces #SameGenderLoving #SameSexMarriage #SelfImprovement #SelfLove #SelfReflections #SelfDiscovery #SGL #SocietalPerceptions #Success #Support #Vulnerability #5050 #reciprocity

Know Your Worth: Defy Expectations & Set Boundaries for True Self-Love

Being a Black man in today’s world comes with challenges that often go unspoken. An additional challenge is to be non heterosexual. Society tells us to tone down our authenticity just to make others comfortable. But let’s be real... it's a form of control and conformity, not solidarity.Your worth doesn’t hinge on others’ approval. It’s time to reclaim your space and voice, to show up for yourself as fiercely as you do for others. That is the message with this episode."Just Thoughts... Know Your Worth" ______________________________ Listen to Our 90’s Playlist: YouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTzaf4yOmTtwfewr5Lq5jTB9Y5JvKg8lh&si=Lqv2Xassq-woeJUA Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4xX9SSUHjjxdk7CkqUHUuN Apple Music:  https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/the-just-drawz-podcast-presents-decades-the-90s/pl.u-06oxDB6uJNjgJe _______________________________ Hosts: DMC: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded [https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0] ⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠⁠ [https://x.com/DMCureton%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0] ⁠https://linktr.ee/deeemcee⁠ [https://linktr.ee/deeemcee] Jeff: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup [https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/%E2%81%A0] ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup [https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0] ⁠https://linktr.ee/jefflevelsup⁠ [https://linktr.ee/jefflevelsup] _______________________________ Just Drawz on Social Media: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast [https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0] ⁠https://linktr.ee/JustDrawz⁠ [https://linktr.ee/JustDrawz] _______________________________ Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded [⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded] ⁠⁠⁠_______________________________ Music: "Neptunes" - by Black Assassin - ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin [https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0] _______________________________ Keywords: acceptance, achievement, adult content, authenticity, Black and brown men, Black gay men, boundaries, collaboration, communication, cultural differences, divorce, divorce impact, emotional healing, expectations, family, future aspirations, gay, gay marriage, healing, honest conversations, identity, independence, industry insights, influence, legacy, LGBTQ, LGBTQ relationships, LGBTQ+, LGBTQIA, LGBTQIA+, love, marriage, marriage views, masculinity, mental health, overachiever, personal growth, proposals, queerness, recognition, relationship dynamics, relationships, safe spaces, Same gender loving, self improvement, self love, self reflections, self-discovery, self-perception, sexual exploration, SGL, social media, societal perceptions, success, support, vulnerability _______________________________ #justdrawz  #Acceptance #Achievement #Authenticity #BlackAndBrownMen #BlackGayMen #Boundaries #Collaboration #Communication #EmotionalHealing #Expectations #Family #FutureAspirations #Gay #Healing #HonestConversations #Identity #Independence #IndustryInsights #Influence #Legacy #LGBTQ #LGBTQRelationships #LGBTQPlus #LGBTQIA #LGBTQIAPlus #Love #Marriage #MarriageViews #Masculinity #MentalHealth #Overachiever #PersonalGrowth #Queerness #Recognition #RelationshipDynamics #Relationships #SafeSpaces #SameGenderLoving #SameSexMarriage #SelfImprovement #SelfLove #SelfReflections #SelfDiscovery #SelfPerception #SocietalPerceptions #Success #Support #Vulnerability

DMC and Jeff Answer Viewer Questions In Studio

We've selected some of your questions to answer for this third round of our Q and A session! Tune it to see if yours made it! We are always down for more so feel free to hit us up at AskJustDrawz@gmail.com for questions about the show, us, or for a future advice show! We want to thank our viewers for submitting these! PS: Darius [⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/deeemcee⁠⁠] is showing us his editing chops in his first fully edited and produced show! “Just… Your Questions, Our Answers III" _______________________________ Listen to Our 90’s Playlist: YouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTzaf4yOmTtwfewr5Lq5jTB9Y5JvKg8lh&si=Lqv2Xassq-woeJUA Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4xX9SSUHjjxdk7CkqUHUuN Apple Music:  https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/the-just-drawz-podcast-presents-decades-the-90s/pl.u-06oxDB6uJNjgJe _______________________________ Hosts: DMC: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded [https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0] ⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠⁠ [https://x.com/DMCureton%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0] ⁠https://linktr.ee/deeemcee⁠ [https://linktr.ee/deeemcee] Jeff: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup [https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/%E2%81%A0] ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup [https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0] ⁠https://linktr.ee/jefflevelsup⁠ [https://linktr.ee/jefflevelsup] _______________________________ Just Drawz on Social Media: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast [https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0] ⁠https://linktr.ee/JustDrawz⁠ [https://linktr.ee/JustDrawz] _______________________________ Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/deeemcee⁠⁠ [https://linktr.ee/deeemcee] ⁠⁠⁠_______________________________ Music: "Neptunes" - by Black Assassin - ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin [https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0] _______________________________ Keywords: Keywords acceptance, achievement, adult content, authenticity, Black and brown men, Black gay men, boundaries, collaboration, communication, cultural differences, divorce, divorce impact, emotional healing, expectations, family, future aspirations, gay, gay marriage, healing, honest conversations, identity, independence, industry insights, influence, legacy, LGBTQ, LGBTQ relationships, LGBTQ+, LGBTQIA, LGBTQIA+, love, marriage, marriage views, masculinity, mental health, overachiever, personal growth, proposals, queerness, recognition, relationship dynamics, relationships, safe spaces, Same gender loving, same sex marrige, self improvement, self love, self reflections, self-discovery, self-perception, sexual exploration, SGL, social media, societal perceptions, success, support, vulnerability _______________________________ #justdrawz  #Acceptance #Achievement #AdultContent #Authenticity #BlackAndBrownMen #BlackGayMen #Boundaries #Collaboration #Communication #CulturalDifferences #Divorce #DivorceImpact #EmotionalHealing #Expectations #Family #FutureAspirations #Gay #GayMarriage #Healing #HonestConversations #Identity #Independence #IndustryInsights #Influence #Legacy #LGBTQ #LGBTQRelationships #LGBTQPlus #LGBTQIA #LGBTQIAPlus #Love #Marriage #MarriageViews #Masculinity #MentalHealth #Overachiever #PersonalGrowth #Proposals #Queerness #Recognition #RelationshipDynamics #Relationships #SafeSpaces #SameGenderLoving #SameSexMarriage #SelfImprovement #SelfLove #SelfReflections #SelfDiscovery #SelfPerception #SexualExploration #SGL #SocialMedia #SocietalPerceptions #Success #Support #Vulnerability

Finding Love Again After Losing It: A Conversation on Same Sex Divorce and Marriage with Taune

In this episode, we engage in a candid conversation with guest Taune about the complexities of marriage within the LGBTQ+ community. With marriage being a ‘new’ option for gay men, not many have had the experience of getting married yet, let alone divorced. We wanted to explore this and we appreciate Taune’s willingness to share his journey through marriage, divorce, and remarriage. We discuss the challenges of acceptance from family, the significance of communication in relationships, and the evolving expectations that come with marriage.  The conversation highlights the importance of being true to oneself and the dynamics of love and support in the face of societal norms. Taune discusses how his views on love, marriage, and partnerships have evolved, particularly in the context of LGBTQ relationships. This dialogue emphasizes the significance of therapy, personal growth, and the need for open discussions about desires and expectations in relationships. Taune also reflects on future aspirations with his current husband, highlighting the importance of creating a unique and meaningful partnership. “Just… Why Did I Get Married Twice" _______________________________ Takeaways: * Marriage is a significant step in relationships, especially for LGBTQ+ couples. * Many gay men have not seen traditional marriage models, impacting their views on marriage. * Family acceptance can vary greatly, affecting personal relationships. * The proposal experience can be unique and non-traditional in LGBTQ+ relationships. * Communication and setting expectations are crucial in any marriage. * Support from friends and chosen family can be more impactful than biological family support. _______________________________ Listen to Our 90’s Playlist: YouTube Music: https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTzaf4yOmTtwfewr5Lq5jTB9Y5JvKg8lh&si=Lqv2Xassq-woeJUA Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4xX9SSUHjjxdk7CkqUHUuN Apple Music:  https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/the-just-drawz-podcast-presents-decades-the-90s/pl.u-06oxDB6uJNjgJe _______________________________ Hosts: DMC: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded [https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0] ⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠⁠ [https://x.com/DMCureton%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0] ⁠https://linktr.ee/deeemcee⁠ [https://linktr.ee/deeemcee] Jeff: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup [https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/%E2%81%A0] ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup [https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0] ⁠https://linktr.ee/jefflevelsup⁠ [https://linktr.ee/jefflevelsup] _______________________________ Just Drawz on Social Media: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast [https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0] ⁠https://linktr.ee/JustDrawz⁠ [https://linktr.ee/JustDrawz] _______________________________ Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup [https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0] ⁠⁠⁠_______________________________ Music: "Neptunes" - by Black Assassin - ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin [https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0] _______________________________ Keywords: acceptance, authenticity, Black and brown men, Black gay men, boundaries, collaboration, communication, cultural differences, divorce, divorce impact, emotional healing, expectations, family, future aspirations, gay, gay marriage, healing, honest conversations, identity, independence, industry insights, influence, legacy, LGBTQ, LGBTQ relationships, LGBTQIA,, love, marriage, marriage views, masculinity, mental health, personal growth, proposals, queerness, relationship dynamics, relationships, safe spaces, Same gender loving, same sex marriage, self improvement, self love, self reflections, self-discovery, self-perception, sexual exploration, SGL, societal perceptions, success, support, vulnerability _______________________________ #justdrawz  #Acceptance #Authenticity #BlackAndBrownMen #BlackGayMen #Boundaries #Collaboration #Communication #CulturalDifferences #Divorce #DivorceImpact #EmotionalHealing #Expectations #Family #FutureAspirations #Gay #GayMarriage #Healing #HonestConversations #Identity #Independence #Influence #Legacy #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA #Love #Marriage #MarriageViews #MentalHealth #PersonalGrowth #Proposals #Queerness #RelationshipDynamics #Relationships #SameGenderLoving #SameSexMarriage #SelfReflections #SelfDiscovery #SGL #SocietalPerceptions #Support #Vulnerability