Loud Words for Quiet Rebels

Episode 9: Start talking about what you do

Now, I’m not having a pop at anyone here. I’ve been just as guilty of doing this myself… but I think it’s time we had a chat about this idea that talking about what you do is “bothering” people, don’t you think? Enjoying the podcast? Subscribe for free to receive new posts and support my work. Here’s what I know… This belief is holding you back. It’s stopping you to be more visible (even just a little bit - I know, that’s an uncomfortable word for us introverts!). And yes, there are lots of ways to market your business but, for the most part, they all pretty much entail one thing… talking about yourself and what you do. That’s why I’m digging into this topic in this episode. I want to remind you that it’s ok to talk about yourself on social media. It’s ok to send out emails about your business and your offers. It’s ok to proudly stand up and say ‘Hey, I’m a [what you do]!’ and be confident in that. And if you’re up for it, there might be a teeny-tiny little challenge for you at the end of the episode. If you give it a whirl, please drop a comment below and tell me how it worked out! Links 👉🏻 Being Freelance podcast episode with Katie Chappell [https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/being-freelance/id959401077?i=1000746560309] 👉🏻 All the ways to get on my mailing list: The Home Page Copy Review [https://sarahwayte.com/home-page-copy-review-freebie/]The Brand Voice Guide Notion Template [https://sarahwayte.com/brand-voice-guide-template/]Get Great Testimonials freebie [https://sarahwayte.com/get-great-testimonials/]Just get the emails [https://sarahwayte.com/get-the-emails/] You can learn more about me, Sarah Wayte, on my website [https://sarahwayte.com/]. Thanks so much for listening! This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit sarahwayte.substack.com [https://sarahwayte.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1]

Episode 8: Making more time for creativity

At the time of sending this podcast out into the world, I have just received my first real rejection for a piece I submitted to a short story competition late last year. If you saw my post on LinkedIn [https://www.linkedin.com/posts/sarahwaytecreative_got-my-first-official-rejection-today-and-activity-7453530181169750017-qycb?utm_source=share&utm_medium=member_desktop&rcm=ACoAAA3GBRgBLC68V8y0-KbSdnZ6t1GtKYFnRGU], you know that’s not something I’m mad at. If anything, I’m seeing it as a sign that I’m finally making it as a writer! All the best writers have had rejections, don’t you know. Enjoying the podcast? Subscribe for free to receive new posts and support my work. But what does that have to do with making more time for creativity? Well, I obviously go into this more in the episode, but one of the ways in which I’ve made more time to write in the last 18 months or so has been to enter competitions, just to prove to myself I can do it. The delicious side effect of making more time to write, though? I’m feeling more creative than I ever have before. So much so, I’ve already got a title and idea for my next novel, before I’ve even finished my last one. Another thing I’ve dabbled with of late has been writing groups and writing buddies, both of which I’m very excited about. So much so, I’m actually considering setting up my own online writing group this year (drop me a comment or email [hello@sarahwayte.com] if that sounds like something you’re interested in). Links: 👉🏻 I couldn’t find the specific 100 rejections person I’d seen previously, but it seems this article might be the thing that started it all: Kim Liao’s ‘Why You Should Aim for 100 Rejections a Year’ [https://lithub.com/why-you-should-aim-for-100-rejections-a-year/]. 👉🏻 Lauren Kay’s free Critique Partner Connection [https://www.laurenkaywrites.com/critique-partner] directory. Well worth signing up to her mailing list too! You can learn more about me, Sarah Wayte, on my website [https://sarahwayte.com/]. Thanks so much for listening! This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit sarahwayte.substack.com [https://sarahwayte.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1]

Episode 7: What are you keeping quiet about yourself?

What are you keeping quiet about yourself that we probably would love to know? I asked that question of myself recently, after reading a beautiful post or email (I can’t remember which) from the very lovely Laura Robinson over at Worditude [https://worditude.co.uk/]. She talked about how she knew she’d finally found her crowd after sharing about some of the more “secret” parts of her life when they made random comments to her about looking at the moon, or talking about being woo. Enjoying the podcast? Subscribe for free to receive new posts and support my work. And then I got to thinking about “professionalism”. I have a love/hate relationship with that word. Not because I don’t believe in being professional and providing the best possible experience for my clients. I absolutely do! But more because I don’t believe to be professional you have to look or behave in a certain way. Yes, I get on my high horse about this (for just a minute!), but only to make the point that you can still be professional and be yourself, quirks and all, in your business and brand. Look, I might be neurodivergent and, as a result, a chronic oversharer, but even I have a line and I don’t share absolutely everything with you all. But there’s quite a lot that I do share. I don’t mind talking about my previous life as a paramedic, or sharing how frazzled my brain can get (with a combination of AuDHD and perimenopause, thankyouverymuch). I often share when I make mistakes (because #relatable) or when I’ve been a total klutz (read: A LOT). And everything I put out into the world very much is in line with my values, because it’s important to me that the people I work with align with them too. Consider this episode a reminder to talk about yourself a little bit more! I promise, your audience (the ones that matter, anyway) will stick around and love you all the more for it. And because I promised in the episode… here’s a photograph of me for the folks who haven’t seen me before! 👇🏻 You can learn more about me, Sarah Wayte, on my website [https://sarahwayte.com/]. Thanks so much for listening! This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit sarahwayte.substack.com [https://sarahwayte.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1]

Episode 6: Idea generators vs idea gatherers

I’m often fascinated by people who can rattle off a list of ideas when given a single prompt like it’s the easiest thing in the world to them. That, to me, is a total superpower. Ideas, for me, are much more likely to be curated, found, sent down from the big idea cloud in the sky (very occasionally), but I’m not someone who can just reel a bunch of ideas off at the click of a finger. I wish I could. Enjoying the podcast? Subscribe for free to receive new posts and support my work. That’s the premise of this episode. I talk all about people who generate ideas vs people who gather them (like me!). Chances are, you’re mostly one more than the other, although maybe you flit back and forth between them, or you’re mostly one but a little of the other. Whatever your mash up, I riff on this idea for a good 10 minutes (don’t worry, I include some excellent tips along the way). I’d love to hear what you think about this topic, though. Let me know in the comments what side of the line you fall and whether you think I’m on point or not! Links to things I’ve mentioned: 👉🏻 If you haven’t yet read it (and why the heck not?!), here’s the book I mentioned and quoted from: Big Magic [https://www.elizabethgilbert.com/books/big-magic/] by Elizabeth Gilbert. You can learn more about me, Sarah Wayte, on my website [https://sarahwayte.com/]. Thanks so much for listening! This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit sarahwayte.substack.com [https://sarahwayte.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1]

Episode 5: Let’s do away with “should”

Anyone that knows me is already very familiar with the fact that I am a massive word nerd. Ask me my favourite word… go on, I dare you! (The answer is how can I possibly decide? There are so many amazing words out there.) Thanks for reading Deeper Than Words! Subscribe for free to receive new posts and support my work. The point being, when I say there’s a word I genuinely hate (and I use that word sparingly, too), then you might have some sense of how much this word makes my skin itch and my eyes burn. I physically react to its use. That word is “should”. I go into all the reasons why this word is no longer part of my vocabulary in the episode (it’s barely 10 minutes long, grab a cuppa and give yourself a well earned screen break… you deserve it!). If you often find yourself saying you should do this thing, or you should do that, then this is an episode I’m sure you’ll get some benefit from. It’s time to quit shoulding all over yourself! I made mention of a few great links/resources in this episode. You can check them out here: 👉🏻 The Creative Reboot podcast [https://creativereboot.co] (I co-host this with the excellent Carla Watkins [https://substack.com/profile/313291169-carla-watkins]). 👉🏻 The best advice I ever got about the word “should” was given on this very podcast episode [https://creativereboot.co/episodes/season-6-episode-2-creative-boundaries-with-sarah-sovereign/]. 👉🏻 And it was given by an exceptional artist and wonderful woman, Sarah Sovereign. Here’s her website [https://www.sarahsovereign.com/] so you can check out her work. You can learn more about me, Sarah Wayte, on my website [https://sarahwayte.com/]. Thanks so much for listening! This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit sarahwayte.substack.com [https://sarahwayte.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_1]