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140. Why Feedback Feels Like Criticism: Shame, Perfectionism & Emotional Triggers

20 min · 13 de may de 2026
Portada del episodio 140. Why Feedback Feels Like Criticism: Shame, Perfectionism & Emotional Triggers

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In this episode of Roots of the Rise, we explore why feedback can feel so deeply personal — and why some people hear criticism even when constructive feedback is being offered. Sarah Hope dives into the connection between shame, perfectionism, defensiveness, trauma, and the nervous system, explaining how past experiences shape the way we receive correction, guidance, and emotional discomfort. You’ll learn the difference between criticism vs feedback, why defensiveness is often a form of self-protection rather than ego, how perfectionism creates fear around mistakes, and why being corrected can sometimes feel like rejection. This episode also offers practical tools for receiving feedback with more curiosity, self-awareness, emotional regulation, and discernment — without collapsing into shame. If you struggle with taking things personally, feeling overly sensitive to criticism, people pleasing, perfectionism, or emotional defensiveness, this conversation will help you better understand yourself and others with greater compassion. Topics include: * criticism vs feedback * shame and the nervous system * perfectionism and self-worth * defensiveness and emotional triggers * taking things personally * emotional regulation * healing shame * self-awareness and growth * trauma responses and feedback * learning how to receive feedback in healthy ways Related Episodes: Episode 6 - Curiosity Required [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2451696/episodes/16650218] Episode 55 - Breaking the Silence: How Shame Holds Us Back and How to Heal [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2451696/episodes/17072540] 139. Learn The Four Agreements And Start Living With More Peace and Clarity [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2451696/episodes/19136309] Questions or Comments? Message me! [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2451696/fan_mail/new] Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2451696/support] Interested in becoming a member and gaining access to notes, prompts, guided meditations and more? Listen to the membership episode [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2451696/episodes/18547254] to learn more, or Go here to check it out [https://patreon.com/RisingWithSarah?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink] for one week free! Stay connected by signing up for my newsletter [https://sarah-hope.kit.com/cd3383ca02] or checking out all my offerings at www.risingwithsarah.com [https://www.risingwithsarah.com]

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