Sex, Love & Everything In Between

“Without lineage, a man becomes a wanderer in his own body.” This one’s a rite of passage in itself. Jacob sits down with Kale Kaalehaki, cultural revivalist, father, and co-founder of Sacred Souls, to speak on what most modern men are missing, not breathwork, not biohacks, not six-packs… but belonging. Together, they unpack why grief is the doorway to manhood, how routine without reverence keeps us hollow, and what it truly means to return to land, lineage, and life as sacred. This one’s for the men who’ve trained, regulated, achieved, and still feel hollow. This one’s for the ones ready to come back to land, to ritual, to story, to fire. To what was never supposed to be forgotten. If you’ve ever felt like your nervous system was regulated but your soul still felt lost, this conversation is the fire you didn’t know you needed. 🔥 Here’s What We Dive Into: * Why the “self-made man” is a myth rooted in disconnection * The spiritual condition of modernity, and why most men are culturally orphaned * The difference between initiation and rite of passage (and why both matter) * How routine without ritual leaves men spiritually starving * Parenting, grief, and the unexpected initiations of fatherhood * Sacred reciprocity: reclaiming relationship with land, air, and water * Why nervous system work isn’t enough without soul confrontation * The return to songs, stories, offerings—and building true belonging 🔥 Love this episode?  Don't forget to subscribe and share your thoughts in a review. We love hearing from our listeners! 🔥 Let's stay connected: Follow Meg: @the.meg.o Follow Jacob: @thejacoboneill Follow the podcast: @sexloveandeverythinginbetween 🔥 Want more? ⚡ Grab our relationship freebie: https://meg-oneill.com/relationship-freebie [https://meg-oneill.com/relationship-freebie] ⚡ Join CLAIMED: https://meg-oneill.com/claimed-immersion [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbC1HU0JLNVF5ZlZUbHhLc3MwWC1MdGRaUkZPZ3xBQ3Jtc0trZWNwaGRyc0lmSjFkOHRIME5XZ09hY3N6cDFVR2RkSGdiSm9XWlZBdVRxYUxTaVJlRU92T2h6a3RqekhZU3kxeUJGbTM4SUxFbXk1bHlRUDc1VDROYVBaU1Y0MWJ2SUUzUUVCSjNkYlJacTNEVl9lVQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fmeg-oneill.com%2Fclaimed-immersion&v=E3ZfC64fptA] ⚡ Join DESIRE DATE: https://meg-oneill.com/desire-date [https://meg-oneill.com/desire-date] ⚡ Join Full Spectrum Woman LIVE: https://meg-oneill.com/fsw-live [https://meg-oneill.com/fsw-live] Ready to dive deeper?  We work with individuals and couples - slide into our DMs to learn more!

“When a woman starts performing in her relationship, she stops being seen.” Every word in this episode is a mirror for the woman who quietly wonders, “Do I still matter?” Meg & Jacob crack open part two of one of their most tender, triggering, and transformational convos yet what it means for a woman to want to matter, deeply, not just in her business or family but in her relationship. We’re diving into the difference between being needed vs. being chosen, why female significance is not the same as attention-seeking, and how the fear of being too much makes women shrink their wildest longings. You’ll hear the real-time reflections from their own partnership, including the raw moment Meg almost gave up, and how they found each other again not in roles, but in real presence. If you’ve ever felt unseen, under-chosen, or like you have to “earn” your seat in love… this one is going to go straight to your heart. 🔥 Here’s What We Dive Into: * The difference between being significant and being useful * Why female longing is sacred—not dramatic or needy * The silent heartbreak of becoming "just the mom" in a relationship * Jacob’s reflection on what most men miss when their woman starts to pull away * How to feel chosen again without begging for attention * Why a man’s leadership must include emotional devotion * What it actually means to see, hold, and re-choose your woman daily 🔥 Love this episode?  Don't forget to subscribe and share your thoughts in a review. We love hearing from our listeners! 🔥 Let's stay connected: Follow Meg: @the.meg.o Follow Jacob: @thejacoboneill Follow the podcast: @sexloveandeverythinginbetween 🔥 Want more? ⚡ Grab our relationship freebie: https://meg-oneill.com/relationship-freebie [https://meg-oneill.com/relationship-freebie] ⚡ Join CLAIMED: https://meg-oneill.com/claimed-immersion [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbC1HU0JLNVF5ZlZUbHhLc3MwWC1MdGRaUkZPZ3xBQ3Jtc0trZWNwaGRyc0lmSjFkOHRIME5XZ09hY3N6cDFVR2RkSGdiSm9XWlZBdVRxYUxTaVJlRU92T2h6a3RqekhZU3kxeUJGbTM4SUxFbXk1bHlRUDc1VDROYVBaU1Y0MWJ2SUUzUUVCSjNkYlJacTNEVl9lVQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fmeg-oneill.com%2Fclaimed-immersion&v=E3ZfC64fptA] ⚡ Join DESIRE DATE: https://meg-oneill.com/desire-date [https://meg-oneill.com/desire-date] ⚡ Join Full Spectrum Woman LIVE: https://meg-oneill.com/fsw-live [https://meg-oneill.com/fsw-live] Ready to dive deeper?  We work with individuals and couples - slide into our DMs to learn more!

“The superwoman archetype is killing us. We rise when we let ourselves be supported.” This one’s a rewire for every ambitious mama out there. In this powerful episode, Meg is joined by the radiant Cait Scudder, leadership mentor, mother of three, and creator of The Millionaire Mother brand, for a truth-packed convo on what it really takes to lead in business while raising kids without burning out or betraying yourself. They go deep into the unseen mental load mothers carry, the nervous system capacity required to lead, and why we need to stop pretending we’re doing this alone. Kate shares her story of rebranding her entire business after her second baby, building home systems that actually work, and what it looks like to embody the matriarch archetype. 🔥 Here's what we dive into: * Why you don’t have to choose between your babies and your business * Releasing the "superwoman" myth and rewriting what success looks like * Masculine vs. feminine energy in motherhood + business * Why nervous system bandwidth is the foundation for sustainable leadership * The mindset shift from “good girl” to matriarch * Home SOPs, rhythms, and the sacred structure behind her success * Why receiving support is the most powerful gift you can model for your kids If you’ve ever felt like you had to do it all to be a good mom, this episode is your permission slip to do it differently. 🔥 Connect with Cait Scudder: Instagram: @themillionairemother TAKE THE QUIZ HERE >>> https://meg-oneill.com/quiz [https://meg-oneill.com/quiz] 🔥 Love this episode?  Don't forget to subscribe and share your thoughts in a review. We love hearing from our listeners! 🔥 Let's stay connected: Follow Meg: @the.meg.o Follow Jacob: @thejacoboneill Follow the podcast: @sexloveandeverythinginbetween 🔥 Want more? ⚡ Grab our relationship freebie: https://meg-oneill.com/relationship-freebie [https://meg-oneill.com/relationship-freebie] ⚡ Join CLAIMED: https://meg-oneill.com/claimed-immersion [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbC1HU0JLNVF5ZlZUbHhLc3MwWC1MdGRaUkZPZ3xBQ3Jtc0trZWNwaGRyc0lmSjFkOHRIME5XZ09hY3N6cDFVR2RkSGdiSm9XWlZBdVRxYUxTaVJlRU92T2h6a3RqekhZU3kxeUJGbTM4SUxFbXk1bHlRUDc1VDROYVBaU1Y0MWJ2SUUzUUVCSjNkYlJacTNEVl9lVQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fmeg-oneill.com%2Fclaimed-immersion&v=E3ZfC64fptA] ⚡ Join DESIRE DATE: https://meg-oneill.com/desire-date [https://meg-oneill.com/desire-date] ⚡ Join Full Spectrum Woman LIVE: https://meg-oneill.com/fsw-live [https://meg-oneill.com/fsw-live] Ready to dive deeper?  We work with individuals and couples - slide into our DMs to learn more!

"Devotion to love will ask you to put down the sword and pick up presence." In today’s episode, we’re sharing a real and raw story straight from our recent road trip, baby meltdowns, car seat chaos, and all the feelings. What unfolded was a powerful reflection on devotion, forgiveness, and the quiet ways resentment creeps into relationships. We’re talking about the difference between preference and truth, how to stay connected in discomfort, and why letting go is sometimes the most loving thing you can do. If you’ve ever found yourself in a power struggle, holding onto the small stuff, or feeling like you need to be right… this one’s for you. 🔥 Here’s what we get into: * Why forgiveness isn’t about words—it’s an energy * How holding onto "small things" kills intimacy * The truth about letting go without repressing yourself * The difference between preference and truth in love * Why your nervous system holds the key to deeper connection * How devotion shifts the dynamic from “winner/loser” to interdependence * Parenting, power struggles, emotional triggers… all of it. 🔥 Love this episode?  Don't forget to subscribe and share your thoughts in a review. We love hearing from our listeners! 🔥 Let's stay connected: Follow Meg: @the.meg.o Follow Jacob: @thejacoboneill Follow the podcast: @sexloveandeverythinginbetween ⚡ Grab our relationship freebie: https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqa0Y0b0tzbkk2eGZQYnI2cS1hYzFwVzhJOF9yd3xBQ3Jtc0tuWmo3bWp3TUctdTVmeDdLVWZvZE50dkdhTk5TcFU4ay1BLU1ab2dqdndoMHEtTU43R1AwZi0zX05ud2dyTFFZUXVfbzJHa09SRk5oR1hObzA1bjRKN0E1aVJmRF80bHRmVE5ZYlM2bnNOOE04cU85UQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fmeg-oneill.com%2Frelationship-freebie&v=E3ZfC64fptAhttps://meg-oneill.com/relationship-freebie [https://meg-oneill.com/relationship-freebie] ⚡ Join CLAIMED: https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbC1HU0JLNVF5ZlZUbHhLc3MwWC1MdGRaUkZPZ3xBQ3Jtc0trZWNwaGRyc0lmSjFkOHRIME5XZ09hY3N6cDFVR2RkSGdiSm9XWlZBdVRxYUxTaVJlRU92T2h6a3RqekhZU3kxeUJGbTM4SUxFbXk1bHlRUDc1VDROYVBaU1Y0MWJ2SUUzUUVCSjNkYlJacTNEVl9lVQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fmeg-oneill.com%2Fclaimed-immersion&v=E3ZfC64fptAhttps://learn.meg-oneill.com/claimed-waitlist-thank-you-page-1 [https://learn.meg-oneill.com/claimed-waitlist-thank-you-page-1] ⚡ Join DESIRE DATE: https://meg-oneill.com/desire-date [https://meg-oneill.com/desire-date] ⚡ Join Full Spectrum Woman: https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbUxhMmxRb05ydUlTaVVlbWJEYkRKTnhYX2UyZ3xBQ3Jtc0tsZ2dScmVPZVIyV0JBZjJtcGMtNG4wS3VGSHVrWkdtZ3NMaXY2NUZWY01jNF9OZ3haTW5DNm1adlJsOURlTnpTLVBjc25wS25GR3FLSzRUZmtIdGhvYTlGZGI0Sjh5cHZfMHkzeGl1Ykk1VEZra2NyRQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fmeg-oneill.com%2Ffull-spectrum-woman&v=E3ZfC64fptAhttps://meg-oneill.com/full-spectrum-woman [https://meg-oneill.com/full-spectrum-woman] Ready to dive deeper?  We work with individuals and couples - slide into our DMs to learn more!

"I refuse to f*** with any of those stories." This episode is a wake-up call.  We’re ditching outdated expectations and talking about what it really means to step into your power as a woman, a mother, an entrepreneur.  No fluff, no filters—just the raw, unfiltered truth about balancing ambition, identity, and sensuality without losing yourself in the process.  If you've ever felt torn between who you are and who the world expects you to be, this conversation is for you. 🔥 Here’s what we get into: * Why “having it all” is a lie (and what you should focus on instead) * The identity shift of stepping into motherhood & leadership * How to reconnect with your sensuality (even when life feels chaotic) * The silent ways pregnancy & birth reshape pleasure and desire * What true success looks like—without sacrificing your body or soul * The power of owning your truth, no matter who it makes uncomfortable 🔥 Love this episode?  Don't forget to subscribe and share your thoughts in a review. We love hearing from our listeners! 🔥 Let's stay connected: Follow Meg: @the.meg.o Follow Jacob: @thejacoboneill Follow the podcast: @sexloveandeverythinginbetween 🔥 Want more? ⚡ Grab our relationship freebie: https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqa0Y0b0tzbkk2eGZQYnI2cS1hYzFwVzhJOF9yd3xBQ3Jtc0tuWmo3bWp3TUctdTVmeDdLVWZvZE50dkdhTk5TcFU4ay1BLU1ab2dqdndoMHEtTU43R1AwZi0zX05ud2dyTFFZUXVfbzJHa09SRk5oR1hObzA1bjRKN0E1aVJmRF80bHRmVE5ZYlM2bnNOOE04cU85UQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fmeg-oneill.com%2Frelationship-freebie&v=E3ZfC64fptAhttps://meg-oneill.com/relationship-freebie [https://meg-oneill.com/relationship-freebie] ⚡ Join CLAIMED: https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbC1HU0JLNVF5ZlZUbHhLc3MwWC1MdGRaUkZPZ3xBQ3Jtc0trZWNwaGRyc0lmSjFkOHRIME5XZ09hY3N6cDFVR2RkSGdiSm9XWlZBdVRxYUxTaVJlRU92T2h6a3RqekhZU3kxeUJGbTM4SUxFbXk1bHlRUDc1VDROYVBaU1Y0MWJ2SUUzUUVCSjNkYlJacTNEVl9lVQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fmeg-oneill.com%2Fclaimed-immersion&v=E3ZfC64fptAhttps://learn.meg-oneill.com/claimed-waitlist-thank-you-page-1 [https://learn.meg-oneill.com/claimed-waitlist-thank-you-page-1] ⚡ Join DESIRE DATE: https://meg-oneill.com/desire-date [https://meg-oneill.com/desire-date] ⚡ Join Full Spectrum Woman: https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbUxhMmxRb05ydUlTaVVlbWJEYkRKTnhYX2UyZ3xBQ3Jtc0tsZ2dScmVPZVIyV0JBZjJtcGMtNG4wS3VGSHVrWkdtZ3NMaXY2NUZWY01jNF9OZ3haTW5DNm1adlJsOURlTnpTLVBjc25wS25GR3FLSzRUZmtIdGhvYTlGZGI0Sjh5cHZfMHkzeGl1Ykk1VEZra2NyRQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fmeg-oneill.com%2Ffull-spectrum-woman&v=E3ZfC64fptAhttps://meg-oneill.com/full-spectrum-woman [https://meg-oneill.com/full-spectrum-woman] Ready to dive deeper?  We work with individuals and couples - slide into our DMs to learn more!