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#71-Why So Many Women Feel Mentally Exhausted with Carole Filion

42 min · 15 de may de 2026
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In this episode of The Art of Being Unstoppable, Vicki McDougall chats with Carole Filion about the importance of mental fitness in personal development. They delve into PQ Intelligence and the blend of neuroscience, performance science, and positive psychology. Carole shares her ADHD journey, highlighting its frequent misdiagnosis in women as depression or anxiety. The discussion covers personal awareness, thought management, and insights from James Clear's Atomic Habits, emphasizing small actions and mental shifts. They encourage women to support each other and offer advice for future selves, focusing on joy and mental health awareness. In this episode of The Art of BEing Unstoppable, Vicki McDougall sits down with mindset coach and mentor Carole Filion for a powerful conversation about mental health, neuroscience, self-awareness, and the small shifts that can completely transform the way we experience life. As part of Mental Health Awareness Month, this episode dives into the importance of understanding how our minds work — and how strengthening our mindset can help us move through life with more clarity, confidence, and compassion for ourselves. Carole shares her deeply personal journey with mental health and receiving an ADHD diagnosis later in life, opening up about the challenges of masking, overwhelm, misdiagnosis, and learning to navigate a brain that processes the world differently. Together, Vicki and Carole explore how our thoughts shape our reality, why positivity and energy are contagious, and how simple daily practices can begin to rewire the way we think, feel, and respond to life. Throughout this conversation, they discuss: Mental health and the science behind neuroscience ADHD, mental health, and late-life diagnosis The impact of thoughts, beliefs, and self-talk How positivity and negativity affect the people around us Breaking the stigma around mental health labels Practical tools and systems for managing overwhelm Habit formation and mindset shifts The importance of self-awareness and continuous growth Why courage often starts with small acts of bravery Learning to embrace imperfection and honor your journey This episode is a reminder that mental health is not about “fixing” yourself — it’s about understanding yourself. Carole’s insights are honest, educational, and deeply empowering for anyone navigating anxiety, ADHD, overwhelm, personal growth, or the desire to better understand their mind and emotions. If you’ve ever felt mentally exhausted, disconnected from yourself, or stuck in patterns you don’t fully understand, this conversation will leave you feeling seen, inspired, and reminded that growth starts with awareness. Connect with Carole Filion: Substack: https://substack.com/@carolefilion [https://substack.com/@carolefilion] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carolejfilion [https://www.instagram.com/carolejfilion] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carole.filion.52 [https://www.facebook.com/carole.filion.52] LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carolefilion/ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/carolefilion/] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@badassbanter-kk8yv [https://www.youtube.com/@badassbanter-kk8yv] (0:00) Introduction and guest Carole Filion's background (1:27) PQ Intelligence and its impact on mental fitness (3:26) Importance of mental fitness for personal development (5:29) Neuroscience, performance science, and positive psychology in mental fitness (7:07) Carole's journey with ADHD and its life impact (10:55) Misdiagnosis of women with ADHD as depression/anxiety (13:36) Carole's experience with medication and research (18:53) Personal awareness in managing mental health (23:16) Thought management and maintaining good mental health (28:50) Re-listening for deeper understanding (30:01) Insights from Atomic Habits by James Clear (31:17) Visual cues for motivation and productivity (32:20) Power of small, consistent actions (33:39) Shifting from "have to" to "get to" (34:47) Mental tricks to shift energy and perspective (35:13) David Hawkins' map of consciousness and courage (36:11) Encouragement for women to share and support each other (37:04) Advice to your future and younger self, finding joy (40:03) Appreciation for mental health awareness (41:32) Closing remarks and call to action

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