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Tony Overbay, LMFT: Narcissism, Faith Crisis, Shame & Healing Relationships

1 h 55 min · 4 de may de 2026
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What’s the difference between narcissism and emotional immaturity—and why does it matter more than people think?   In this episode of the Edlow Podcast, I sit down with Tony Overbay, LMFT to unpack some of the most misunderstood (and misused) concepts in modern relationships and mental health.   We go way beyond surface-level takes.   We break down:   * The critical difference between narcissism and emotional immaturity (and why labeling matters) * What reactive abuse actually is—and how people get it completely wrong * Projection in relationships—why people accuse you of the very things they’re doing * Confabulation and how the brain rewrites reality to protect itself * The difference between good therapy vs. bad therapy * How therapy language is being misused, weaponized, and misunderstood online * The danger of “Switzerland friends”—people who stay neutral in toxic dynamics and unintentionally enable harm * How a trained therapist can identify narcissistic patterns * Navigating a faith crisis without losing yourself * Shame rooted in religious concepts of right and wrong—and how the atonement is meant to relieve shame, not reinforce it * The subtle signs of emotional abuse most people miss * And most importantly… what real healing actually looks like   This conversation is raw, nuanced, and incredibly practical. If you’ve ever questioned your reality in a relationship, struggled with faith, or tried to make sense of modern therapy culture—this episode is for you.   Subscribe to the Edlow Podcast for more real conversations that cut through the noise.   🎧 Available on YouTube, Apple Podcasts, and Spotify   #Edlowpodcast

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