#24 The Truth About Entrepreneurship No One Talks About

28. Maybe You Don't Need to Try So Hard

In this heartfelt conversation, I sit down with my friend Britta of Aligned & Undefined [https://www.alignedandundefined.com] to explore what it means to trust yourself in a world that constantly asks you to do more, move faster, and prove your worth. While our conversation begins with Human Design and Britta’s experience as a Reflector, it quickly expands into something much deeper: learning to honor your own timing, choosing environments that support your well-being, releasing the need to fix others, and returning to the wisdom of the body and heart. Together we explore the tension between productivity and presence, the courage required to slow down, and the quiet joy that can be found in everyday life. Whether you’re familiar with Human Design or not, this conversation is an invitation to question the pressures you’ve inherited and reconnect with what feels true for you. In This Episode We Explore * Britta’s experience living as a Reflector * Why environment matters more than we often realize * The difference between presence and performance * Letting go of responsibility for other people’s reactions * Root pressure, over-functioning, and trusting your timing * Returning to the body instead of living in the mind * Finding safety within yourself * The role Human Design has played in our personal journeys * Why slowing down can be an act of leadership * Rediscovering joy through simple everyday moments * The courage to live from your heart rather than external expectations Memorable Moments “Sometimes my presence is just enough.” “This rush that we put on ourselves to get things done is made up.” “Life is too short to trudge along under other people’s expectations.” Connect with Britta Britta is the creator of Aligned & Undefined, where she works with the Akashic Records and supports others in reconnecting with their own wisdom and alignment. Instagram: @alignedandundefined [https://www.instagram.com/alignedandundefined] Website: alignedandundefined.com [https://www.alignedandundefined.com] Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@alignedandundefined [https://www.youtube.com/@alignedandundefined] Connect with Valerie For those who feel called to support this work, thank you. [https://www.paypal.com/ncp/payment/UMLZHB7NP6ZNN] Looking for your Human Design chart and free download? Check it out here [https://www.valeriebirch.com/humandesign] and scroll down. Curious to dive into conversation together via a speaking engagement or on the podcast, I’d love to hear from you [https://www.valeriebirch.com/speaking]! This podcast resonated with you and you want to dive deeper into what it means to not try so hard based on your design, let’s sit together [https://www.valeriebirch.com/sitwithme] and have our own deep conversation. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit soulfulspaces.substack.com/subscribe [https://soulfulspaces.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_2]

#27 Simplicity of supporting others, the pathless woods and following what lights you up

What if supporting others had nothing to do with giving advice? In this episode, Valerie reflects on how her solo retreat inadvertently gave friends permission to slow down — simply by being herself. She explores the profound difference between following cement paths versus trusting what lights you up, sharing how small acts of rebellion (like taking back roads home) can rewire your brain and change how you see the world. A gentle invitation to consider: when did you last choose pleasure over efficiency, and what might shift if you trusted your own pathless woods? Please share this podcast with someone you love and leave a review. Your support is greatly appreciated! If this resonated and you’d like to support, click here [https://www.paypal.com/ncp/payment/UMLZHB7NP6ZNN]. Podcast on solo trip [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/deep-conversations-with-valerie-birch/id1822618938?i=1000766958133]: Website: valeriebirch.com [https://www.valeriebirch.com/] This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit soulfulspaces.substack.com/subscribe [https://soulfulspaces.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_2]

#26 Solo Trips & the range of emotions and freedom

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#25 Motherhood Without the Energy to Keep Going with Katie Wilson

Motherhood isn’t meant to feel like constant output. And yet… for so many women - especially non-sacral mothers - it does. In this episode, Valerie and Katie explore what it really means to parent without consistent energy in a world that expects you to always keep going. From Human Design to real-life motherhood moments, this conversation unravels the pressure to “do it all” and opens up a different way—one rooted in trust, presence, and honoring your body. If you’ve ever felt exhausted trying to keep up… this one will feel like exhale. Only love, Valerie Curious if you’re a non-sacral (Manifestor, Projector, Reflector)? Grab your free chart. [https://www.valeriebirch.com/getyourchart-1] Let’s co-create together: The Activation [https://www.valeriebirch.com/the-activation] Voice Note Reflections. Sometimes just a new insight and energetic shift is exactly what you’re looking for in challenge or shift. A simple voice note exchange is a $20 investment for deep seeing and energy. Venmo @Valerie-Birch with your name and phone number and I’ll begin a text thread to connect. In voice notes, send me what’s coming up, and I’ll send back a voice reflection that’s sure to shift something within. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit soulfulspaces.substack.com/subscribe [https://soulfulspaces.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_2]

#24 The Truth About Entrepreneurship No One Talks About

In this solo episode of Deep Conversations with Valerie Birch, Valerie shares a pattern she has been observing for years while building her own business. As more people step into entrepreneurship and creating work aligned with their gifts, there is often a strong focus on strategies, systems, and building something successful. But Valerie reveals a deeper truth: the real work isn’t only in the business itself. It’s in the everyday moments of life. How you respond to the mundane moments — your tone of voice with your children, your patience in moments of stress, your ability to soften and stay present — shapes the energy you bring into everything you create. Instead of separating business from life, Valerie invites us to recognize that the way we live our lives is the foundation of the work we share with the world. What resonated for you? Share your reflections and aha moments with Valerie and your friend! If this shifted an awareness for you, please subscribe. Subscribing truly helps grow this community and consciousness. Curious of the insights of your foundation of life and business? Grab your free Human Design chart [https://www.valeriebirch.com/getyourchart] and begin exploring and experimenting. Sometimes one conversation can reveal what we couldn’t see before. Connect with Valerie If something in this reflection stirred a deeper awareness for you, you’re warmly invited to explore The Activation Session with Valerie — a one-to-one conversation designed to reveal what may be ready to shift, clarify, or come into view. Learn more here [https://www.valeriebirch.com/the-activation]. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit soulfulspaces.substack.com/subscribe [https://soulfulspaces.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_2]