The Me in Us

Self Criticism

In this episode we discuss the pitfalls of self criticism and how we can manage our self criticism to help improve and grow in our relationships.

Sex - Part III: The Pressures to Initiate, reject and orgasm

In this episode with discuss the complexities and pressures surrounding the roles of initiating, rejecting and experiencing orgasms in intimate relationships. The conversation explores how these dynamics can create anxiety and tension, and how they are influenced by gender, societal expectations, and the evolution of a relationship over time. We delve into topics such as the differences in sexual desire between men and women, the importance placed on orgasms, and the need for open communication and flexibility within a couple's sexual experiences. We also discuss the importance of understanding the internal dialogue and personal experiences of each partner to navigate these sensitive topics effectively and maintain a healthy, fulfilling sex life.

Sibling Position

In this episode we talk about Sibling Position. It is a discussion about how a person's position in their family as the oldest, middle, youngest, or only child shapes their personality and relationships. We talk about the origins of sibling position theory in psychology, common traits associated with different sibling positions, and how factors like family dynamics, gender, and culture influence how those positions play out. We also discuss how knowing your sibling position can provide insight into your behavior and relationships as an adult, including in intimate relationships, at work, and as a parent. Overall, it is an exploration of the complexity and impact of birth order in families.

The In-Laws

In this episode we have an insightful discussion about managing relationships with in-laws. We explore common tensions that arise, cultural expectations, setting boundaries, the importance of open communication, and more.

Sex - Part II: Masturbation and Porn in Relationships

In this episode we discuss the topics of masturbation, pornography, and how they relate to couples and relationships. We talk about the prevalence of porn, the porn industry, and the pros and cons of porn and masturbation when done individually versus as a couple. We explore questions around whether porn and masturbation replace partnered sex, how to have conversations with your partner about these topics, whether making your own porn as a couple could be beneficial, and more. Overall, we aim to provide perspective on the complexity surrounding porn, masturbation, sex toys and how they affect intimacy and connection in relationships.