When They Weaponize Your Past"

Mapping From Broken to Unbroken

💬 Got something to share? Text or voice note me [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2628501/fan_mail/new] 📖 EPISODE SUMMARY Monday: We learned transformation is a JOURNEY. Today: We MAP YOUR JOURNEY. Where are you? What work do you need? What support do you need? Transformation isn't theoretical. It's PRACTICAL. It's REAL. 🧘 60-SECOND MEDITATION "I accept where I am. I commit to the work. I don't have to be fixed. I just have to be willing. I'm starting my journey from broken to unbroken. I am not doing it alone." 📝 THE 5 EXERCISES 1. ASSESS YOUR BROKENNESS * Scale 1-10: Where are you RIGHT NOW? * What area is broken? (relationships, health, career, etc.) * How long have you carried this? 2. FACING THE TRUTH * What broke you? * How have you been coping? (numbing, hiding, controlling, avoiding) * What's it costing you? (relationships, health, peace, potential) 3. THE 5 CHOICES OF TRANSFORMATION * Facing the truth (1-10 scale) * Getting support (therapist? coach? friend? group?) * Doing healing work (therapy? journaling? meditation?) * Changing patterns (what are you ready to break?) * Building something new (what do you want to create?) 4. YOUR TRANSFORMATION ROADMAP * What's your FIRST STEP? (make appointment? journal? set boundary?) * What support do you need? (make ONE call this week) * What will you STOP doing? * Timeline commitment: How long are you willing to work? 5. THE MESSENGER COMMITMENT * Write: "I am broken in ___. I am willing to do the work. I'm committing to ___. I'm asking for ___. I am ready to become unbroken. I am willing to let people see my journey." * Who needs to know? * ONE action this week (put it on your calendar) 📝 CLOSING AFFIRMATION I am broken in [area] and I am willing to do the work. I am facing the truth and I am getting support. I am doing healing work and I am changing my patterns. I am building something new and I am starting my journey. I am not alone. I am reclaimed. I am unashamed. I am becoming unbroken. 💬 CONNECT WITH ME Text or voice note: Link in show notes Instagram: @TheRealNyomiBanks | @TheSeasonofSelfLovePodcast Website: theseasonofselflove.com YouTube: @TheSeasonofSelfLovewNyomiBanks 🎯 ELEVATE ME APP Four phases: Awakening → Healing & Reclamation → Rooting in Self-Love → Integration & Elevation 👉 Learn more: studio.com/nyomi #️⃣ HASHTAGS #DoTheWork #MapYourJourney #BrokenToUnbroken #TransformationRoadmap #FirstStep #GetSupport #HealingWork #RealTransformation #MessengerCommitment #ActionWednesday #SeasonOfSelfLove #ReclaimedAndUnashamed #UnderestimatedAndUnstoppable #NotAlone #BeTheMessenger REMEMBER: You are not broken forever. You are broken right now. And this is where the work begins. The Season of Self Love Podcast | Season 5 | Hosted by Nyomi Banks Elevate Me: Self Discovery App [https://studio.com/nyomi/elevate?a=season-user&c=Dle0QNTV] 4-phase self-love journey: meditations, workbooks, coaching chat & journaling. --- ## 💬 CONNECT WITH ME **Text or Voice Note:** Use the link below to send me a message or voice note directly through Buzzsprout. I read and listen to everything! **Instagram:** @TheRealNyomiBanks [https://instagram.com/TheRealNyomiBanks] | @TheSeasonofSelfLovePodcast [Https://instagram.com/theseasonofselflovepodcast] **Website:** theseasonofselflove.com [https://theseasonofselflove.com] **YouTube:** Subscribe to @TheSeasonofSelfLove [https://youtube.com/theseasonofselflove] for video episodes, behind-the-scenes content, and more! --- ## 🎯 ELEVATE ME: SELF-DISCOVERY APP Ready to go deeper with guided support? **Elevate Me: Self-Discovery** is an AI-powered coaching app with 4 transformation phases, guided meditations, body scans, journaling prompts, and personalized daily practices. 👉 **Learn more:**  studio.com/nyomi [https://studio.com/nyomi]   Join the mailing list: elevatemenyomi.com [https://elevatemenyomi.com] --- ## 📋 SHOW NOTES & RESOURCES All links, templates, exercises, and resources mentioned in this episode are available in the full show notes above. --- ## 🙏 CLOSING Be good to one another and yourselves, and always keep it sexy. Love yourself first so you can love others well. **Have a good one.** 💜 --- ...

From Broken to Unbroken: The Journey of Transformation

💬 Got something to share? Text or voice note me [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2628501/fan_mail/new] FROM BROKEN TO UNBROKEN: THE JOURNEY OF TRANSFORMATION Season 5 | Week 2 Mindset Monday | Hosted by Nyomi Banks 📖 EPISODE SUMMARY Last week, we talked about being the messenger and staying visible. This week, we go DEEPER into the actual journey from broken to unbroken. Not the destination. Not the highlight reel. The ACTUAL WORK. What real healing looks like when you're willing to do it. Because being a messenger isn't just showing people who you are NOW — it's showing them what it TAKES to get there. 🎯 KEY TAKEAWAYS ✨ Broken isn't weakness — it's what happens when life breaks you open ✨ Transformation isn't clean — it's messy, hard, and nonlinear ✨ The journey requires HONEST WORK — not a moment, but a series of daily choices ✨ Your journey from broken to unbroken IS your message — people need to see what it took, not just where you ended up ✨ The messenger effect — showing your real journey gives others permission to transform too 🔄 THE 5 CHOICES OF TRANSFORMATION Choice 1: Facing the Truth * Look at what broke you (abuse, betrayal, systems that harmed you) * Don't avoid it, minimize it, or reframe it * Feel what you've been avoiding Choice 2: Getting Support * Therapy, coaching, community, spiritual guidance, trusted friends * Be vulnerable with someone * Let them see your broken parts * You can't do this alone Choice 3: Doing the Healing Work * Active work, not passive * Therapy sessions where you cry * Journaling through trauma * Setting boundaries * Making hard choices * Forgiving (including yourself) * Show up week after week, even when it's hard, even when you don't see progress Choice 4: Changing Your Patterns * Patterns are comfortable but they keep you broken * Interrupt old patterns * Notice when you're repeating them * Make different choices over and over * Until the new pattern becomes comfortable Choice 5: Building Something New * New relationships, new beliefs, new boundaries, new standards, new community * Don't just remove what was broken * ACTIVELY BUILD something new 💡 WHY PEOPLE ARE WILLING TO DO THIS WORK Desperation: When staying broken costs more than healing Love: Doing it for someone else (your children, partner, community) Vision: Catching a glimpse of who you could be and wanting it badly Refusal: Looking in the mirror and saying "Not me. Not anymore." That refusal becomes fuel. 🧘 60-SECOND GUIDED MEDITATION (From Episode) "I honor every step of my journey. The broken parts taught me. The healing parts strengthened me. I didn't waste my pain. I transformed it. I am unbroken because I am willing to do the work." 📝 CLOSING AFFIRMATION (Repeat After Nyomi) I was broken. I admit it. I faced it. I got support. I did the work. I kept going. I changed my patterns. I built something new. I honored my journey and every hard step, every choice, every moment. I am not perfect. I am unbroken and I am becoming. I am reclaimed. I am unashamed. I am unstoppable. 🌟 REAL TALK FROM NYOMI "When you come from broken to unbroken, those conversations become so much better. They become so much better because you are no longer coming from a broken place. You are no longer coming from a hurt place. You're coming from a whole different space." And: "Your journey from broken to unbroken, that is your message. Not the destination, but the journey. Because people don't need to see you perfect. They need to see you real." 📋 WHAT'S NEXT Action Wednesday (This Week): * Identify the work YOU need to do * Find the support YOU need to get * Name the patterns YOU need to break Until then: Sit with this: Your journey is your message. Your worth is the work it takes. 💬 CONNECT WITH ME Text or Voice Note: Use the link below to send me a message or voice note directly through Buzzsprout. If something in today's episode hit home, I want to hear about it! Instagram: @TheRealNyomiBanks | @TheSeasonofSelfLovePodcast Website: theseasonofselflove.com YouTube: Subscribe to @TheSeasonofSelfLove for video episodes, behind-the-scenes content, and more! 🎯 ELEVATE ME: SELF-DISCOVERY APP Ready to move through your journey from broken to unbroken with guided support? Elevate Me: Self-Discovery guides you through: * Phase 1: Awakening — See yourself clearly * Phase 2: Healing & Reclamation — Do the work * Phase 3: Rooting in Self-Love — Build something new * Phase 4: Integration & Elevation — Step into your power 👉 Start your journey: studio.com/Nyomi [http://studio.com/nyomi/elevate] #️⃣ HASHTAGS #BrokenToUnbroken #TransformationJourney #HealingWork #DoTheWork #UnbrokenAndBecoming #MessengerStory #RealHealing #NonlinearJourney #SelfLoveWork #PersonalGrowth #HonorYourJourney #TherapyWorks #CommunityHeals #BoundariesMatter #PatternBreaking #BuildSomethingNew #ReclaimedAndUnashamed #UnderestimatedAndUnstoppable #SeasonOfSelfLove #NotPerfectButUnbroken #YourJourneyIsYourMessage #ProofOfTransformation #HealingIsNotLinear #SelfLoveJourney #BeTheMessenger The Season of Self Love Podcast | Season 5 | Hosted by Nyomi Banks 🎙️ Listen to Action Wednesday (coming soon) to do the work and map your transformation journey! Elevate Me: Self Discovery App [https://studio.com/nyomi/elevate?a=season-user&c=Dle0QNTV] 4-phase self-love journey: meditations, workbooks, coaching chat & journaling. Goli Ashwagandha Gummies [https://go.goli.com/AskNyomi] Daily wellness support for grounding & stress relief. Use code AskNyomi for a discount! Bodyotics Intimate Wellness [https://bodyotics.sjv.io/e1oqbZ] Body-safe pelvic floor & intimate care products for every stage of your journey. --- ## 💬 CONNECT WITH ME **Text or Voice Note:** Use the link below to send me a message or voice note directly through Buzzsprout. I read and listen to everything! **Instagram:** @TheRealNyomiBanks [https://instagram.com/TheRealNyomiBanks] | @TheSeasonofSelfLovePodcast [Https://instagram.com/theseasonofselflovepodcast] **Website:** theseasonofselflove.com [https://theseasonofselflove.com] **YouTube:** Subscribe to @TheSeasonofSelfLove [https://youtube.com/theseasonofselflove] for video episodes, behind-the-scenes content, and more! --- ## 🎯 ELEVATE ME: SELF-DISCOVERY APP Ready to go deeper with guided support? **Elevate Me: Self-Discovery** is an AI-powered coaching app with 4 transformation phases, guided meditations, body scans, journaling prompts, and personalized daily practices. 👉 **Learn more:**  studio.com/nyomi [https://studio.com/nyomi]   Join the mailing list: elevatemenyomi.com [https://elevatemenyomi.com] --- ## 📋 SHOW NOTES & RESOURCES All links, templates, exercises, and resources mentioned in this episode are available in the full show notes above. --- ## 🙏 CLOSING Be good to one another and yourselves, and always keep it sexy. Love yourself first so you can love others well. **Have a good one.** 💜 --- ...

Your Messenger Story: Identifying Who You Are NOW"

💬 Got something to share? Text or voice note me [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2628501/fan_mail/new] Monday, we talked about being the messenger. About staying visible. About refusing to hide. Today? We identify YOUR messenger story. Not your past. Not your label. Who you are NOW. What you've overcome. What you're building. What you're becoming. 5 POWERFUL EXERCISES: Exercise 1: What Have You Overcome? * Name what you came from (poverty, abuse, trauma, discrimination, loss, illness, broken relationships) * What did you LEARN from each? * What strength did you develop? * Acknowledge your survival Exercise 2: What Are You Building NOW? * Who are you NOW? (identity, role, what you create) * What impact are you having? * Write your messenger story Exercise 3: The Gap — From Past to Present * Bridge past → present → impact * Why your messenger story matters * Who you can help BECAUSE of what you survived Exercise 4: Claiming Your Messenger Identity * Write your MESSENGER STATEMENT * Say it OUT LOUD (3 times, louder each time) * Look in mirror. Own it. Feel it. Exercise 5: Visibility Commitment * Are you ready to stay visible as a messenger? * Who needs to see your story? * What's ONE action this week? 📝 YOUR MESSENGER STATEMENT TEMPLATE (Use in Show Notes) Fill in the blanks and say it OUT LOUD: "I am [your identity/role]. I am building [what you're creating]. I am impacting [who you're serving/how]. My past is [where you came from], but I overcame it. I learned [what you learned]. And now I am [who you are NOW]. That's my messenger story. That's who I am NOW." 📝 YOUR COMMITMENT STATEMENT (Use in Show Notes) Write this down and commit: "I commit to staying visible as a messenger. I commit to claiming my messenger identity. I commit to letting people see what's possible. I understand this costs comfort, safety, and opens me to judgment. And I'm choosing to do it anyway. Because the world needs my story. Because someone needs to see my proof. I am staying visible. Starting today." YOUR MESSENGER STORY INCLUDES: ✨ What you came from ✨ What you learned ✨ What you've overcome ✨ Who you ARE NOW ✨ What you're building ✨ Your impact KEY MESSAGE: "Don't look at the messenger, listen to the message." NO. LOOK AT THE MESSENGER. Because the messenger IS the proof. Your past is context. Your present is the message. Your visibility is the proof that transformation is real. CLOSING INVITATION: This week: Claim your messenger story using the templates above. Say it out loud. Record yourself. Share it. Post about it. Stay visible. Let people see what's possible. The world doesn't need your apologies. It needs your PROOF. Elevate Me: Self Discovery App [https://studio.com/nyomi/elevate?a=season-user&c=Dle0QNTV] 4-phase self-love journey: meditations, workbooks, coaching chat & journaling. Goli Ashwagandha Gummies [https://go.goli.com/AskNyomi] Daily wellness support for grounding & stress relief. Use code AskNyomi for a discount! Bodyotics Intimate Wellness [https://bodyotics.sjv.io/e1oqbZ] Body-safe pelvic floor & intimate care products for every stage of your journey. Goli Ashwagandha Gummies [https://go.goli.com/AskNyomi] Daily wellness support for grounding & stress relief. Use code AskNyomi for a discount! Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you. --- ## 💬 CONNECT WITH ME **Text or Voice Note:** Use the link below to send me a message or voice note directly through Buzzsprout. I read and listen to everything! **Instagram:** @TheRealNyomiBanks [https://instagram.com/TheRealNyomiBanks] | @TheSeasonofSelfLovePodcast [Https://instagram.com/theseasonofselflovepodcast] **Website:** theseasonofselflove.com [https://theseasonofselflove.com] **YouTube:** Subscribe to @TheSeasonofSelfLove [https://youtube.com/theseasonofselflove] for video episodes, behind-the-scenes content, and more! --- ## 🎯 ELEVATE ME: SELF-DISCOVERY APP Ready to go deeper with guided support? **Elevate Me: Self-Discovery** is an AI-powered coaching app with 4 transformation phases, guided meditations, body scans, journaling prompts, and personalized daily practices. 👉 **Learn more:**  studio.com/nyomi [https://studio.com/nyomi]   Join the mailing list: elevatemenyomi.com [https://elevatemenyomi.com] --- ## 📋 SHOW NOTES & RESOURCES All links, templates, exercises, and resources mentioned in this episode are available in the full show notes above. --- ## 🙏 CLOSING Be good to one another and yourselves, and always keep it sexy. Love yourself first so you can love others well. **Have a good one.** 💜 --- ...

Look at the Messenger: Why Staying Visible Is an Act of Courage

💬 Got something to share? Text or voice note me [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2628501/fan_mail/new] While launching Elevate Me: Self Discovery, Nyomi has been the target of stalking emails, manipulated images, and DMs demanding she hide her past. In this raw and unfiltered Mindset Monday, she breaks her silence on what it really costs to stay visible — and why she's not going anywhere. This episode covers: * The truth behind why Nyomi kept her name through her transformation * What it means to be "the messenger" instead of hiding from your own story * Why attacks on visibility are really about other people's discomfort with change * Real talk on the emotional cost — and the deeper reward — of refusing to disappear * A closing affirmation to help you reclaim your own story, whatever it is Because the messenger is the message. Your past doesn't define your work — your impact does. 🌿 This episode is brought to you by Ask Nyomi and Elevate Me: Self Discovery — start your own transformation journey today at studio.com/nyomi. Be good to one another and yourselves, and always keep it sexy. Elevate Me: Self Discovery App [https://studio.com/nyomi/elevate?a=season-user&c=Dle0QNTV] 4-phase self-love journey: meditations, workbooks, coaching chat & journaling. Goli Ashwagandha Gummies [https://go.goli.com/AskNyomi] Daily wellness support for grounding & stress relief. Use code AskNyomi for a discount! Bodyotics Intimate Wellness [https://bodyotics.sjv.io/e1oqbZ] Body-safe pelvic floor & intimate care products for every stage of your journey. --- ## 💬 CONNECT WITH ME **Text or Voice Note:** Use the link below to send me a message or voice note directly through Buzzsprout. I read and listen to everything! **Instagram:** @TheRealNyomiBanks [https://instagram.com/TheRealNyomiBanks] | @TheSeasonofSelfLovePodcast [Https://instagram.com/theseasonofselflovepodcast] **Website:** theseasonofselflove.com [https://theseasonofselflove.com] **YouTube:** Subscribe to @TheSeasonofSelfLove [https://youtube.com/theseasonofselflove] for video episodes, behind-the-scenes content, and more! --- ## 🎯 ELEVATE ME: SELF-DISCOVERY APP Ready to go deeper with guided support? **Elevate Me: Self-Discovery** is an AI-powered coaching app with 4 transformation phases, guided meditations, body scans, journaling prompts, and personalized daily practices. 👉 **Learn more:**  studio.com/nyomi [https://studio.com/nyomi]   Join the mailing list: elevatemenyomi.com [https://elevatemenyomi.com] --- ## 📋 SHOW NOTES & RESOURCES All links, templates, exercises, and resources mentioned in this episode are available in the full show notes above. --- ## 🙏 CLOSING Be good to one another and yourselves, and always keep it sexy. Love yourself first so you can love others well. **Have a good one.** 💜 --- ...

Celebrating Your Real Community + Elevate Me App Launch"

💬 Got something to share? Text or voice note me [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2628501/fan_mail/new] THIS WEEK IS CELEBRATION. We've done the work. We've identified our real community. We've claimed our power. We recognize that our community is in OUR space—not the space of underestimators. Today we celebrate them. We celebrate us. And we take this to the NEXT LEVEL. Because TODAY, Elevate Me Self-Discovery app is LIVE. 4 POWERFUL EXERCISES: Exercise 1: Community Appreciation * Identify your real community (overstanders, believers, builders) * Why are they in your space? * Express gratitude (write it, feel it, TELL them) * Action: Thank at least 3 people this week Exercise 2: Building with Your Community * How are you creating together? * How can you deepen that building? * Take ONE action this week to strengthen a relationship Exercise 3: Elevate Me App Launch - FULL DETAILS * AI-powered coaching app (your voice, your teachings, your guidance) * 4 transformation phases (Awakening → Healing & Reclamation → Rooting in Self-Love → Integration & Elevation) * 5 activities per day max (meditations, journaling, body scans, chakra work, self-love practices) * Voice-activated journaling (speak instead of write) * Advanced Journey after Phase 4 (transformation continues) * Pricing: $79/quarter or $179/year * Launch Special: 20% off founding members (June 23 - July 3 ONLY) * Access: elevatemenyomi.com (desktop, tablet, phone) * No long-term contracts (pause anytime) Exercise 4: Your Elevation Commitment * Is Elevate Me for you? (ready to go deeper, invest in yourself, claim power) * Write your commitment * Choose your starting phase (Phase 1: Awakening) * Take action this week (visit site, explore, decide) BONUS: 7-DAY ELEVATION EXPERIENCE Monthly live experience coinciding with app launch * Daily 45-minute live guided sessions * Small, intimate group setting * Personal level guidance * Dates: Coming monthly (July 13-19 confirmed) * First 7 days: FREE trial before committing to app SERIES COMPLETE! WHAT YOU'VE LEARNED IN JUNE: ✅ Your past does NOT define you ✅ Underestimation IS protection ✅ You have ACCUMULATED POWER ✅ You have REAL COMMUNITY in your space ✅ You are READY for what's next  CLOSING MESSAGE: You are reclaimed. You are unashamed. You are unstoppable. Your real community is celebrating you. Your overstanders see your power. Now it's time for YOU to see it too. Go elevate. Go become. Go thrive. Join Elevate Me: studio.com/nyomi (20% off through July 3) 7-Day Experience: Sign up for monthly live guidance (next: July 13-19) Connect: @TheRealNyomiBanks | YouTube: @TheSeasonofSelfLovewNyomiBanks   #CelebrateCommunity #RealCommunity #ElevateMeApp #SelfDiscoveryApp #TransformationApp #AICoaching #GuidedMeditations #PhaseOne #Awakening #HealingJourney #PersonalEmpowerment #CommunityBuilding #ReclaimedAndUnashamed #UnderestimatedAndUnstoppable #SeasonOfSelfLove #Season5 #AppLaunch #June23Launch #7DayExperience #SelfLoveWork #PersonalGrowth #TransformationTool #ElevationExperience #FoundingMembers #InvestInYourself Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-season-of-self-love--6003379/support [https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-season-of-self-love--6003379/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss]. "Thank you for spending this time with me on The Season of Self Love. Remember, self-love isn't selfish – it's sacred. You are worthy of the love you so freely give to others. If today's episode resonated with you, share it with someone who needs this reminder. And don't forget to rate and review the show – it helps us reach more beautiful souls. Connect with me on Instagram @TheRealNyomiBanks and @TheSeasonofSelfLovePodcast visit theseasonofselflovecom [http://theseasonofselflove.com] for resources and our downloadable workbook. Want to be a guest on The Season of Self Love? Send Nyomi Banks a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/171967138753618818df2d7f3 [https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/171967138753618818df2d7f3] Until Monday – keep choosing YOU. This is your girl, the goddess Nyomi Banks. Stay in your season." Elevate Me: Self Discovery App [https://studio.com/nyomi/elevate?a=season-user&c=Dle0QNTV] 4-phase self-love journey: meditations, workbooks, coaching chat & journaling. Goli Ashwagandha Gummies [https://go.goli.com/AskNyomi] Daily wellness support for grounding & stress relief. Use code AskNyomi for a discount! --- ## 💬 CONNECT WITH ME **Text or Voice Note:** Use the link below to send me a message or voice note directly through Buzzsprout. I read and listen to everything! **Instagram:** @TheRealNyomiBanks [https://instagram.com/TheRealNyomiBanks] | @TheSeasonofSelfLovePodcast [Https://instagram.com/theseasonofselflovepodcast] **Website:** theseasonofselflove.com [https://theseasonofselflove.com] **YouTube:** Subscribe to @TheSeasonofSelfLove [https://youtube.com/theseasonofselflove] for video episodes, behind-the-scenes content, and more! --- ## 🎯 ELEVATE ME: SELF-DISCOVERY APP Ready to go deeper with guided support? **Elevate Me: Self-Discovery** is an AI-powered coaching app with 4 transformation phases, guided meditations, body scans, journaling prompts, and personalized daily practices. 👉 **Learn more:**  studio.com/nyomi [https://studio.com/nyomi]   Join the mailing list: elevatemenyomi.com [https://elevatemenyomi.com] --- ## 📋 SHOW NOTES & RESOURCES All links, templates, exercises, and resources mentioned in this episode are available in the full show notes above. --- ## 🙏 CLOSING Be good to one another and yourselves, and always keep it sexy. Love yourself first so you can love others well. **Have a good one.** 💜 --- ...