The Unmasked Therapist Podcast

Episode 27: How to Discover Your Theoretical Orientation

28 min · 11 de may de 2026
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In this episode of The Unmasked Therapist Podcast, Clinical Supervisors ⁠⁠Kim Rippy [https://keystonetherapygroup.com/kim-rippy/]⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠Kaitlyn Steel⁠⁠ [https://keystonetherapygroup.com/kaitlyn-steel/]continue their series on therapist identity development by exploring one of the biggest questions early clinicians face: “What is my model?” Rather than encouraging therapists to rush into choosing a theoretical orientation based on popularity, supervision expectations, or graduate school pressure, Kim and Kaitlyn unpack how a therapist’s model often develops through deeper self-awareness, lived experience, and clinical curiosity. They discuss how understanding your own values, emotional responses, relational patterns, and clinical instincts can guide you toward approaches that genuinely align with who you are as a therapist. Through conversations about EFT, CBT, trauma work, attachment, supervision, and the process of “dating” different therapeutic models, this episode examines how clinicians can begin identifying the theories and interventions that feel authentic rather than performative. Kim and Kaitlyn also explore the importance of hypothesis-building, clinical curiosity, and using supervision as a space to intentionally reflect on what naturally stands out to you in the therapy room. This episode invites therapists to move away from trying to force themselves into a model and instead begin discovering the approaches that already reflect how they naturally conceptualize and connect with clients. In this episode, we discuss: • Why many early clinicians feel pressure to “pick a model” • How therapist identity influences theoretical orientation • The difference between learning skills and developing clinical authenticity • Why self-awareness helps therapists recognize aligned approaches • How attachment, values, trauma, and relationships shape conceptualization • The process of exploring and “dating” therapeutic models • Using curiosity and supervision to clarify your clinical direction • Why confidence grows when interventions align with who you are as a therapist Connect with us: Supervision: ⁠www.keystonetherapygroup.com/supervision/⁠ Instagram: @TheUnmaskedTherapist Email: ⁠Supervision@KeystoneTherapyGroup.com [Supervision@KeystoneTherapyGroup.com]⁠ If this episode resonated with you, leave a five-star review and subscribe for more conversations about authentic, grounded, human-centered therapy. Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for clinical supervision. All information shared represents our own opinions and should not be taken as legal or clinical direction. #TheUnmaskedTherapist #UnmaskedTherapist #TherapistPodcast #MentalHealthPodcast #TherapistConversations

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episode Episode 35: Consultation Calls That Build Connection artwork

Episode 35: Consultation Calls That Build Connection

In this episode of The Unmasked Therapist Podcast, Clinical Supervisors ⁠⁠⁠Kim Rippy, LPC [https://keystonetherapygroup.com/kim-rippy/]⁠⁠⁠, and ⁠⁠⁠Kaitlyn Steel, LMFT⁠⁠⁠ [https://keystonetherapygroup.com/kaitlyn-steel/], explore the purpose and power of consultation calls through the lens of authenticity and the Person of the Therapist model. Beginning with an honest conversation about recognizing and correcting blind spots, they model what it looks like to take accountability, learn publicly, and approach growth with humility and compassion. From there, Kim and Kaitlyn break down the consultation process itself, discussing how therapists can move beyond simply gathering information to creating an authentic first experience of therapy. They explore how consultation calls allow both therapist and client to assess goodness of fit, demonstrate intentionality, and begin building trust before the first official session. Drawing from both individual and couples therapy perspectives, they share practical examples of how they structure consultation calls while remaining true to their own therapeutic styles. Throughout the conversation, they emphasize that consultation calls are more than administrative conversations—they are an opportunity to model the type of therapeutic relationship clients can expect. By approaching these conversations with authenticity, clarity, and genuine curiosity, therapists can help clients feel seen, understood, and confident in taking the next step toward therapy. In this episode, we discuss: • Taking ownership of mistakes and modeling authentic accountability • Why consultation calls are about more than gathering information • Helping clients determine whether a therapist is the right fit • Creating a first experience that reflects your authentic therapeutic style • Balancing information gathering with genuine human connection • Structuring consultation calls for both individual and couples therapy • Demonstrating competence without sounding scripted or rehearsed • Helping clients understand what therapy with you will actually feel like • Setting appropriate boundaries while avoiding "doing therapy" during consultations • Building trust and hope before the first official session Connect with us: Supervision: ⁠⁠www.keystonetherapygroup.com/supervision/⁠⁠ Instagram: @TheUnmaskedTherapist Email: ⁠⁠⁠Supervision@KeystoneTherapyGroup.com [Supervision@KeystoneTherapyGroup.com]⁠⁠⁠ If this episode resonated with you, leave a five-star review and subscribe for more conversations about authentic, grounded, human-centered therapy. Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for clinical supervision. All information shared represents our own opinions and should not be taken as legal or clinical direction. #TheUnmaskedTherapist #UnmaskedTherapist #TherapistPodcast #MentalHealthPodcast #ClinicalSupervision #ConsultationCalls #PrivatePractice #TherapistIdentity #PersonOfTheTherapist #Authenticity #TherapistGrowth #ClientConnection #CouplesTherapy #IndividualTherapy #TherapyPractice

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episode Episode 34: Prioritizing Life Beyond the Therapy Room artwork

Episode 34: Prioritizing Life Beyond the Therapy Room

In this episode of The Unmasked Therapist Podcast, Clinical Supervisors ⁠⁠Kim Rippy, LPC [https://keystonetherapygroup.com/kim-rippy/]⁠⁠, and ⁠⁠Kaitlyn Steel, LMFT⁠⁠ [https://keystonetherapygroup.com/kaitlyn-steel/], explore what it really means to put life before work. Building on their ongoing conversations about authenticity and the Person of the Therapist model, they discuss how therapists can identify their core values, prioritize the identities that matter most, and navigate the inevitable tension between caring for clients and caring for themselves and their families. Drawing from both personal and professional experiences—including recording the episode while balancing the realities of parenthood—Kim and Kaitlyn reflect on the challenges of maintaining a healthy life-work balance. They discuss the guilt therapists often feel when personal responsibilities interrupt clinical work, the importance of setting boundaries with clients, and how modeling authenticity and self-respect can strengthen the therapeutic relationship rather than diminish it. Throughout the conversation, they emphasize that therapists are people first. Whether the identity that grounds you is being a parent, partner, caregiver, friend, or something else entirely, honoring those values creates a more sustainable career and a more authentic therapeutic presence. Rather than striving to be everything for everyone, therapists can better serve their clients by remaining connected to the people they are outside of the therapy room. In this episode, we discuss: • Why life-work balance may be a healthier perspective than work-life balance • Identifying the personal identities and values that guide your life • Navigating guilt when family responsibilities conflict with client care • How supervisors and colleagues can reinforce healthy boundaries • Why authenticity sometimes means letting clients see your humanity • Modeling healthy priorities and self-respect within the therapeutic relationship • The connection between personal identity, burnout prevention, and therapist sustainability • Giving yourself permission to prioritize what matters most • Supporting therapists through seasons of changing identities and responsibilities • Building a career that aligns with your values rather than competing with them Connect with us: Supervision: ⁠⁠www.keystonetherapygroup.com/supervision/⁠⁠ Instagram: @TheUnmaskedTherapist Email: ⁠⁠Supervision@KeystoneTherapyGroup.com [Supervision@KeystoneTherapyGroup.com]⁠⁠ If this episode resonated with you, leave a five-star review and subscribe for more conversations about authentic, grounded, human-centered therapy. Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for clinical supervision. All information shared represents our own opinions and should not be taken as legal or clinical direction. #TheUnmaskedTherapist #UnmaskedTherapist #TherapistPodcast #MentalHealthPodcast #ClinicalSupervision #TherapistIdentity #PersonOfTheTherapist #LifeWorkBalance #TherapistBurnout #Authenticity #Boundaries #TherapistGrowth #PrivatePractice #WorkingParents #SelfCare

29 de jun de 202640 min
episode Episode 33: Navigating the Gap Between Graduation and Residency as a New Therapist artwork

Episode 33: Navigating the Gap Between Graduation and Residency as a New Therapist

In this episode of The Unmasked Therapist Podcast, Clinical Supervisors ⁠Kim Rippy, LPC⁠ [https://keystonetherapygroup.com/kim-rippy/], and ⁠Kaitlyn Steel, LMFT⁠ [https://keystonetherapygroup.com/kaitlyn-steel/], explore the role of body awareness, attunement, and therapist self-awareness in the therapy room. Building on their ongoing conversations about authenticity and the Person of the Therapist model, they discuss how therapists can learn to distinguish between a genuine attunement to a client's experience, their own body memories, and countertransference. Drawing from personal and professional experiences, Kim and Kaitlyn examine how therapists' bodies often provide valuable information about what is happening in a session. They discuss how noticing physical sensations, emotional reactions, and internal shifts can deepen connection with clients when approached thoughtfully and ethically. At the same time, they explore the importance of recognizing when a therapist's own unresolved experiences may be influencing the therapeutic process. Throughout the conversation, they highlight the value of ongoing self-reflection, supervision, and personal growth, emphasizing that therapists do not need to be blank slates to be effective. Instead, meaningful therapeutic work often emerges when clinicians learn to honor their own experiences while remaining grounded in the client's reality. In this episode, we discuss:• What therapists mean when they talk about attunement and limbic system reactions• How body awareness can strengthen therapeutic connection• The difference between attunement, empathy, body memory, and countertransference• Why therapists often experience emotions before clients consciously recognize them• The role of the Person of the Therapist model in clinical work• Staying with emotion instead of moving too quickly into psychoeducation• How personal experiences can both support and interfere with therapeutic attunement• Recognizing when unresolved experiences may be impacting clinical work• Ethical considerations when therapists encounter emotionally activating client material• Using supervision and self-reflection to grow as a clinician Connect with us: Supervision: ⁠www.keystonetherapygroup.com/supervision/⁠ [http://www.keystonetherapygroup.com/supervision/]Instagram: @TheUnmaskedTherapistEmail: ⁠Supervision@KeystoneTherapyGroup.com⁠ [Supervision@KeystoneTherapyGroup.com] If this episode resonated with you, leave a five-star review and subscribe for more conversations about authentic, grounded, human-centered therapy. Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for clinical supervision. All information shared represents our own opinions and should not be taken as legal or clinical direction. #TheUnmaskedTherapist #UnmaskedTherapist #TherapistPodcast #MentalHealthPodcast #ClinicalSupervision #TherapistIdentity #PersonOfTheTherapist #Countertransference #TherapistGrowth #BodyAwareness #Attunement #EFTTherapy #ClinicalDevelopment #TherapeuticRelationship #Authenticity

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episode Episode 32: Listening to Your Body as a Therapist artwork

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In this episode of The Unmasked Therapist Podcast, Clinical Supervisors Kim Rippy, LPC [https://keystonetherapygroup.com/kim-rippy/], and Kaitlyn Steel, LMFT [https://keystonetherapygroup.com/kaitlyn-steel/], explore the role of body awareness, attunement, and therapist self-awareness in the therapy room. Building on their ongoing conversations about authenticity and the Person of the Therapist model, they discuss how therapists can learn to distinguish between a genuine attunement to a client's experience, their own body memories, and countertransference. Drawing from personal and professional experiences, Kim and Kaitlyn examine how therapists' bodies often provide valuable information about what is happening in a session. They discuss how noticing physical sensations, emotional reactions, and internal shifts can deepen connection with clients when approached thoughtfully and ethically. At the same time, they explore the importance of recognizing when a therapist's own unresolved experiences may be influencing the therapeutic process. Throughout the conversation, they highlight the value of ongoing self-reflection, supervision, and personal growth, emphasizing that therapists do not need to be blank slates to be effective. Instead, meaningful therapeutic work often emerges when clinicians learn to honor their own experiences while remaining grounded in the client's reality. In this episode, we discuss: • What therapists mean when they talk about attunement and limbic system reactions • How body awareness can strengthen therapeutic connection • The difference between attunement, empathy, body memory, and countertransference • Why therapists often experience emotions before clients consciously recognize them • The role of the Person of the Therapist model in clinical work • Staying with emotion instead of moving too quickly into psychoeducation • How personal experiences can both support and interfere with therapeutic attunement • Recognizing when unresolved experiences may be impacting clinical work • Ethical considerations when therapists encounter emotionally activating client material • Using supervision and self-reflection to grow as a clinician Connect with us: Supervision: www.keystonetherapygroup.com/supervision/ [http://www.keystonetherapygroup.com/supervision/] Instagram: @TheUnmaskedTherapist Email: Supervision@KeystoneTherapyGroup.com [Supervision@KeystoneTherapyGroup.com] If this episode resonated with you, leave a five-star review and subscribe for more conversations about authentic, grounded, human-centered therapy. Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for clinical supervision. All information shared represents our own opinions and should not be taken as legal or clinical direction. #TheUnmaskedTherapist #UnmaskedTherapist #TherapistPodcast #MentalHealthPodcast #ClinicalSupervision #TherapistIdentity #PersonOfTheTherapist #Countertransference #TherapistGrowth #BodyAwareness #Attunement #EFTTherapy #ClinicalDevelopment #TherapeuticRelationship #Authenticity

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episode Episode 31: When Your Client's Story Isn't Your Story artwork

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8 de jun de 202624 min