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Ignore the Noise: How to Handle Negativity When You're Trying to Get Healthy

31 min · 11 de jun de 2026
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Let's be real — the hardest part of getting healthy sometimes isn't the workouts or the meal prep. It's the people around you. In this episode, Alex and Aaron break down the different flavors of negativity you'll run into on your health journey: the friend who won't stop pushing the cheesecake, the spouse who makes you feel dumb for going to the gym, and the random internet troll who's convinced Aaron claimed to be an elite athlete (he didn't). They also get into why gym culture gets a bad rap it doesn't deserve, why obesity is apparently contagious (there's a real study on this), and how surrounding yourself with the right people can make or break your goals. What You'll Learn: * Why people pressure you to eat bad food — and why it's not really about the food * The truth about gym culture and why the fear of being judged is probably holding you back * How social media negativity is different from real-life negativity (and how to handle both) * Why the people you spend the most time with have a massive impact on your health outcomes * How to be the kind of friend or partner that actually helps people hit their goals

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