Why I Don’t Set New Year Goals (And What I Do Instead)

SNakes and Toads

In Snakes and Toads, we explore the difference between disappointment and deception in modern dating. Through personal reflection on heartbreak and betrayal, this episode looks at what happens when you realize someone wasn’t who they said they were and how your instincts may have known before you did. We talk about “toads” (the wrong fits) and “snakes” (the ones who misrepresent reality), and what both teach us about trust, self-awareness, and emotional patterns. At its core, this episode is about learning to trust yourself again after confusion, heartbreak, and the slow return to clarity. Support the show [https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TheyCallMeT] theycallmetpod@gmail.com

I'm Perplexed

Why does life sometimes feel unclear, even when things are moving forward? In this episode, I’m Perplexed, we explore the quiet, in-between moments where growth doesn’t feel linear, clarity comes and goes, and you find yourself questioning things you once felt sure about. From feeling “stuck” while still progressing to wanting something and then second-guessing it, this conversation unpacks the contradictions of personal growth. If you’ve ever thought, “I thought I’d feel different by now,” this episode is for you. It’s a reminder that confusion isn’t failure it might just be awareness, transition, or growth happening in real time Support the show [https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TheyCallMeT] theycallmetpod@gmail.com

Things Need To Change: Breaking Bad Habits & Getting Back to Yourself

In this episode of They Call Me T, I talk about feeling unbalanced mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and physically, and the realization that sometimes things simply need to change. From doomscrolling and slipping routines to feeling stuck at work, this episode explores how small habits can slowly pull us away from ourselves and how we can start returning to balance. A thoughtful and honest conversation about resetting routines, breaking phone addiction, reconnecting with yourself, and making meaningful life changes. Support the show [https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TheyCallMeT] theycallmetpod@gmail.com

The Happiness Trap

Why does chasing happiness so often leave us feeling dissatisfied? In this episode, we explore the psychology behind the happiness trap and why pursuing happiness as a goal can actually push it further away. From hedonic adaptation to the distinction between pleasure and meaning, we unpack why achievements, relationships, and milestones don’t always lead to lasting fulfillment. If you’ve ever found yourself thinking, “I’ll be happy when…” this conversation will help you rethink what happiness really is and how to experience more of it without constantly chasing the next thing. Support the show [https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TheyCallMeT] theycallmetpod@gmail.com

Things People Said to Me That Changed Nothing… and Everything

In this episode of They Call Me T, I reflect on advice that missed, words that stayed, and the unexpected things people said that mattered more than they knew. A soft, thoughtful conversation about being seen instead of fixed. Support the show [https://www.buymeacoffee.com/TheyCallMeT] theycallmetpod@gmail.com