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93 | Lost in Motherhood? Rediscover Your Identity, Self‑Worth, and Priorities as a SAHM

9 min · 24 de jun de 2026
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Do you ever feel like your routines are running your life instead of helping you protect your priorities — especially when mom guilt or comparison starts whispering that you’re not doing enough? Have you noticed how easily your self-esteem and self-worth get tangled up in being a SAHM, as if your identity begins and ends with what you do for everyone else? Are you carrying the weight of motherhood in a way that leaves you drained, overwhelmed, and unsure how to realign your priorities so you can actually enjoy your kids again? If so, you’re in the right place.  Hi, Beautiful! I’m Cheryl — wife, SAHM, Coach and Mom Mentor. I learned the not‑so‑secret ways to become the mom my girls needed by prioritizing Jesus, building simple routines that supported my priorities, rejecting mom guilt, and discovering what self‑esteem and self‑worth really look like in everyday motherhood. In Time for Mom, we have honest conversations about comparison, practical devotional moments, and encouragement you can tuck into the cracks of your day. If you’re ready to build faith while washing dishes, rediscover your identity, and love yourself the way your babies already do — grab your earbuds and lock the bathroom door for a minute alone. It’s Time for Mom. In this episode, I’m sharing some lessons on mom identity that I've learned in the last six years of motherhood so you can reject expectations and comparison in favor of reclaiming your identity as more than just mom.  * The “respond to every cry” season is short — don’t stay stuck in it long‑term. * As your family grows, boundaries matter; babies can wait a few minutes and older kids still need you. * Small, steady adjustments help you realign motherhood with your true priorities. * You’re a mom, but not only a mom — caring for yourself and your identity matters. * Staying rooted in God shifts the whole atmosphere of your home and helps you show up with grace. Next Steps: >Subscribe to the Time for Mom weekly devotion and newsletter: https://bit.ly/timeformomsubscribe [https://bit.ly/timeformomsubscribe] Join the Time for Mom private Facebook Community: https://bit.ly/timeformomcommunity [https://bit.ly/timeformomcommunity] >Leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts! https://bit.ly/timeformompodcast [https://bit.ly/timeformompodcast] >Need a mom mentor? Schedule a 1:1 Time for Mom coaching call: https://bit.ly/tfmcoaching [https://bit.ly/tfmcoaching] Related Episodes, Devotions, and Links: 82 | I Am Not My Own... Learning to Surrender Control - Devotion https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/82-i-am-not-my-own-learning-to-surrender-control-devotion/id1828707938?i=1000767944375 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/82-i-am-not-my-own-learning-to-surrender-control-devotion/id1828707938?i=1000767944375] 75 | No Purpose in Motherhood? Let's Find Your Dream Again Special Guest Nicole Naicker https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/75-no-purpose-in-motherhood-lets-find-your-dream-again/id1828707938?i=1000763048929 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/75-no-purpose-in-motherhood-lets-find-your-dream-again/id1828707938?i=1000763048929]

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episode 97 | Emotional Regulation for Overwhelmed Moms with Special Guest Kelsey Redd artwork

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