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The Story Behind the Summer of Self-Love

20 min · 16 de jun de 2026
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Most of us didn't learn self-criticism from a magazine. We learned it from the people who loved us. In this episode, Erica traces her own story from a family of well-meaning critics to the time when she discovered that her Human Design chart told her something she would have ever believed before – that the second half of her life is truly about Self-Love. Book your Life Patterns Review [https://ericavoell.com/audit] here. Follow me on Substack: https://substack.com/@ericavoell [https://substack.com/@ericavoell] Connect with me: erica[at]ericavoell[dot]com Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ericavoell.coaching/ [https://www.instagram.com/ericavoell.coaching/]

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