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The Many Parts of Being a Woman (with Holly Wigmore)

27 min · 29 de abr de 2026
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Therapist Holly Wigmore — a queer- and trans-affirming counselor and IFS-certified candidate practicing in Oregon and California — joins Andrea and Katie for a wide-ranging conversation on what it actually means to be a woman in the therapy room, as both patient and provider. They unpack intersectionality, why so many clients specifically seek out women therapists, the historical baggage of certain diagnoses, the quiet suffering of men under masculinity's weight, and how Internal Family Systems ("parts") work helps people hold their own multitudes. Plus a hard look at high-functioning anxiety — the kind that gets praised as competence — and Holly's parting line you'll want to write down: stop equating your worth with how much you can tolerate. Follow us on social media @dreavita, and start your mental health journey today at dreavita.com.

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