ADHD, Private Practice, and a Little Magic

The Magic of the Highest Vantage Point

My work wife Lauren Herman is a former medical speech language pathologist turned author, published researcher, and copywriting agency founder, and this turned into our longest episode yet because neither of us wanted it to end. We dig into why sitting on the fence, the exact thing people kept telling her to quit doing, became her real superpower for research, writing, and staying steady when everyone else wants to pick a fight. If you have ever fired off a comment or an email you wished you could take back, this conversation is for you. KEY TOPICS * The three-year journey to publishing her book "But My Speech Is Fine," why she self-published, and how responsibility to the other SLPs who trusted her with their stories got her to hit publish * Going from clinician to published researcher, getting her work into a radiology journal, and having it picked up by a major radiology publication * Starting a copywriting agency for healthcare brands with no business or marketing degree, then scaling it into a small team * Why being called a "fence sitter" turned out to be her superpower, and the difference between emotional, cognitive, and compassionate empathy * The college philosophy class and the Plato versus Aristotle essay where she first claimed the middle on purpose * How she knows when she has researched enough to speak on something, and how she prepares for every counterpoint before she posts * A death row story that shows how cognitive empathy can completely reframe who the real problem is * Why people crave human-made writing, music, and content more than ever right now * Her tactic for the moment your emotions want to fire: type out the whole novel of a response, then sit on it for 24 hours * Exploring film and journalism as her next creative medium TIMESTAMPS * 00:01 Welcome and introducing Lauren * 01:09 "But My Speech Is Fine" and the Chicken Soup for the Soul inspiration * 05:49 Her three proudest accomplishments: the book, the research paper, the agency * 13:17 Being told to pick a side, and the three types of empathy * 20:08 The philosophy of happiness class and choosing the middle * 29:00 How she knows she has researched enough to speak * 43:50 Why human-made content matters more in an AI world * 1:11:09 The "type it out and sit on it" tactic * 1:14:05 Her venture into film and journalism RESOURCES & LINKS * Lauren's book, "But My Speech Is Fine" * Follow Lauren: Instagram.com/slp.writer [http://Instagram.com/slp.writer] * Follow Sarah: instagram.com/bcsarahsaidso [http://instagram.com/bcsarahsaidso] Loved this one? Come find the full library at youarethemagicpodcast.com [http://youarethemagicpodcast.com], and if you are craving a few days to actually practice the pause instead of just talking about it, the details for the retreat are at social-moguls.com/retreat [http://social-moguls.com/retreat].

Wealth Energetics and the Magic of Surrender

Emily Rose and I got into what it actually means to create your own universe, why she teaches wealth as the byproduct of tapping into your own creatorhood, and how loosening your grip on the outcome is the thing that lets the good stuff flow in. If you have ever been told you are too wild, too woo, or too much, this episode is going to feel like the green light to let every bit of that be your magic. KEY TOPICS * What "create your own damn universe" means and why wealth is the byproduct of creation * Quantum wealth, wealth energetics, and the science-meets-spirituality approach to money * The reticular activating system and how changing your beliefs changes what you see * Fractal loops and the one degree decision that puts you on a whole new timeline * Human design, the manifestor generator, and turning "too much" into your superpower * The Surrender Experiment and how releasing your grip lets you actually receive * Why relationships and money trace back to the same worthiness work * Being her now and rebuilding your business around identity and energetics * The rise of in-person retreats and why offline has become the new luxury * Manifestation, the music industry, and following your excitement as intuition TIMESTAMPS 02:04 Emily's bi-coastal life, luxury short-term rentals, and building a cross-industry empire 06:18 What a quantum wealth mentor actually does, and "create your own damn universe" 08:40 The reticular activating system, the quantum field, and how beliefs build your reality 11:31 Getting into the music industry through manifestation 21:18 Bougie Hippie Properties, the retreat center vision, and why offline is the new luxury 31:09 Retreat breakthroughs, breath work, and the Costa Rica moment that changed everything 32:41 Fractal loops and the one degree decision that changes your whole timeline 35:24 Too wild, too woo, too much, and how human design turned that into a superpower 41:16 The Surrender Experiment 43:30 The yoga body scan, releasing the grip, and how to actually receive 44:37 Why relationships and money come from the same underlying worthiness work 47:07 Being her now, and why Sarah is rebranding her mastermind 54:17 Energetics-first containers, frequency tuning, and mediumship 56:13 Identity and energetics first, strategy second, and why the sequence works RESOURCES & LINKS * youarethemagicpodcast.com [http://youarethemagicpodcast.com] * Emily: Instagram.com/theBoldBougieHippie [http://Instagram.com/theBoldBougieHippie] * Sarah: Instagram.com/bcsarahsaidso [http://Instagram.com/bcsarahsaidso] * The Surrender Experiment: https://amzn.to/4eFotHx [https://amzn.to/4eFotHx] * Joe Dispenza's You Are the Placebo: https://amzn.to/3QVSVnJ [https://amzn.to/3QVSVnJ] This whole conversation reminded me that the real magic happens face to face, and that is exactly what my in-person retreat is all about. If you want to do the identity and energetics work first and then put strategy on top of it, come find all the details at social-moguls.com/retreat [http://social-moguls.com/retreat].

The Magic of Rehabbing Your Own Brain

Anna Hernandez had a golf ball sized brain tumor she never saw coming, hidden for years behind migraines and sinus infections she kept finding reasons to brush off. The day it caught up with her, she was crawling on her office floor in the dark before a seizure sent her to the ER, and what followed was a recovery of her own making using what she knew as a speech-language pathologist and a years-long obsession with neuroplasticity. This conversation goes deep into how she taught her own brain to heal, why being weird is the whole point, and how she stopped asking "why me" long enough to build a life she's proud of. KEY TOPICS * The sudden diagnosis and the symptoms Anna explained away for months before her seizure * Rehabbing her own brain after surgery with no prescribed therapy, using lists, structure, and self-directed neuroplasticity * Telling your brain what to think, and how repetition rewires your thought patterns over time * Flower walks, morning sunlight, anchored sleep, and the brain health practices that carried her recovery * Being the weird kid in two countries and how that became her magic * Self-advocacy in the workplace when your brain has a daily energy budget * The friends who showed up for the dramatic part and the ones who stayed for the long recovery * Winning SLP of the Year at the NSA conference and the stranger who told her she was running from something * Habit stacking gratitude and how five seconds can be a fork in the road TIMESTAMPS * 00:45 Anna's background and the teaser of everything she's overcome * 06:35 The morning at school when she couldn't remember the kids' names or her password * 07:43 The diagnosis, the ICU week, and the surgery * 09:01 Going back to work one month later * 12:17 Rehabbing herself with no prescribed therapy * 18:23 Recognizing she rehabbed her own brain * 19:08 Breath work, flower walks, sleep, and what felt good to her brain * 22:14 "This is hard, but I'm doing it" * 24:11 Growing up between a village in Mexico and a small town in Texas * 26:02 Being weird is the magic * 29:14 The people who left and the people who stayed * 36:14 If we're not growing, we're shrinking * 38:02 "Do you ever wonder why me?" * 41:02 Winning SLP of the Year * 46:15 Working less, raising her prices, and building self-respect * 51:45 Why the fulfillment is in the work, not the reward RESOURCES & LINKS * The Brain That Changes Itself: https://amzn.to/4fYi3UY [https://amzn.to/4fYi3UY] * Rao, R. P. N., & Ballard, D. H. (1999). "Predictive coding in the visual cortex: a functional interpretation of some extra-classical receptive-field effects." Nature Neuroscience, 2, 79–87. DOI: 10.1038/4580. * Anna: Instagram.com/adultstuttering * youarethemagicpodcast.com [http://youarethemagicpodcast.com] Ready for more magic? Come find your people and your next level at the retreat: social-moguls.com/retreat [http://social-moguls.com/retreat].

Doing More Doing, Duality, and Determination: The Magic of Betting on Yourself

Sarah Weiss shares how she went from burnt-out speech therapist to full-time TikTok and social media expert, building two thriving brands while navigating chronic illness, infertility, and new motherhood. She breaks down the power of duality, the art of doing more doing, and what it really takes to show up as your full, unapologetic self. Get ready for a deep dive into betting on yourself, holding two truths at once, and owning your magic. KEY TOPICS * Leaving a speech therapy career to bet on herself with zero formal marketing training * Replacing a full salary with social media clients in six months * Why betting on yourself feels like the safest bet, even when it doesn't look that way * The power of duality and holding success alongside hard seasons * Navigating male factor infertility and the IVF journey to her daughter * Building a business around chronic illness with fibromyalgia and chronic migraines * Doing more doing as the antidote to overthinking and waiting * Refusing to shrink and showing up loud, sarcastic, and fully herself * Rewiring your brain through hypnosis, tapping, and energy healing * The mere exposure effect and leaning into neuroplasticity * Naming your inner critic and working with your brain instead of against it TIMESTAMPS 02:18 - From speech therapist to social media in six months 05:01 - Why betting on yourself never scared her 06:50 - The $10,000 move that proved business ownership gives you control 09:02 - Being relentless in the pursuit of what she wants 10:04 - Doing more doing instead of talking and planning 11:39 - The hard things happening behind the scenes 12:41 - Duality and two things being true at once 14:58 - Creating something from nothing and the magic of it 17:59 - Fuck around and find out, and giving yourself permission to play 21:01 - The infertility journey and male factor diagnosis 24:32 - The biggest lesson IVF taught her 27:58 - How growing her family grew her business 31:56 - Refusing to shrink and showing up as her full self 37:35 - Being the same person on every platform 40:51 - What chronic illness taught her about solutions over complaining 44:12 - Toxic positivity versus deciding to be an optimist 46:24 - Energy healing, hypnosis, and tapping during infertility 49:52 - The Stella app and rehearsing your future reality 52:18 - Naming your inner critic and the mirror exposure effect 54:16 - Her number one piece of advice for owning your magic RESOURCES & LINKS * Stella app: * tiktok.com/@OnBrandbySarah [http://tiktok.com/@OnBrandbySarah] * tiktok.com/@SarahandBabes [http://tiktok.com/@SarahandBabes] * youarethemagicpodcast.com [http://youarethemagicpodcast.com] * instagram.com/bcsarahsaidso [http://instagram.com/bcsarahsaidso] You're Invited! You are the magic, my girl, and this retreat is where you finally own it, embody it, and never shrink from it again. See you in St. Pete, October 2026. social-moguls.com/retreat [http://social-moguls.com/retreat]

Audacious Magic: Somatic Clearing, Burnout Recovery, and Owning Your Worth

Audacious Magic: Somatic Clearing, Burnout Recovery, and Owning Your Worth Lynda Stretton had a boss she genuinely loved, and one day he sat her down to help her out. She was a big person, he told her, with a big personality, a big energy, and a big smile, and she walked into rooms and intimidated people. Could she find a way to make herself a little smaller? Lynda had been hearing versions of that her whole life. She got told she was too tall, too direct, too fast, too much, and for a long time she believed it. In this episode she tells me how those exact qualities turned out to be the foundation of the work she does now, helping high achieving women own their worth and stop shrinking to keep everyone else comfortable. Lynda spent 17 years in corporate marketing, running a £45 million budget as a marketing director for three different brands, before she walked away from a six figure salary to be fully present with her kids. That choice became the start of her own healing and the method she teaches now, somatic clearing, with a goal of touching and transforming one billion lives. We get into trusting your intuition and following the energy, why lived wisdom will outlast knowledge in a world full of AI, the honest conversation around money and worth, and the way so many women lose themselves in their relationships and then carry that same smallness into their businesses. I loved this one, and I think you will too. KEY TOPICS * Walking away from a six figure corporate marketing career to be a present mum * Somatic clearing and healing what the body holds onto * Burnout recovery and rebuilding a business with strong boundaries * Owning your worth and charging premium prices * Trusting your intuition, following the energy, and acting on an idea without overthinking it * Why wisdom and lived experience outlast knowledge in a world full of AI * The qualities women get told are "too much" becoming their real superpowers * Losing yourself in a relationship and how it shows up in your business * Female success, being the breadwinner, and navigating partners who feel triggered TIMESTAMPS * 01:16 What Lynda's work looks like now and who she helps * 04:00 The origin of the Audacious One Mastermind * 05:30 Transforming one billion lives with somatic clearing * 06:48 Humble beginnings and a first job at £1.76 an hour * 14:10 What Lynda is most proud of and the choice to become a present mum * 20:38 Why people will pay for wisdom over knowledge * 23:35 Trusting intuition and the Money May download * 35:14 Being told she was too direct, too tall, too much * 41:39 Women losing themselves in relationships and in business * 50:26 Lynda's takeaway and the free breath work journey RESOURCES AND LINKS Find Lynda on IG: instagram.com/lynda.stretton/ [http://instagram.com/lynda.stretton/] Lynda's free breathwork: https://youtu.be/AVitwaN3gHA [https://youtu.be/AVitwaN3gHA] Find Sarah on IG: instagram.com/bcsarahsaidso [http://instagram.com/bcsarahsaidso] Pod Site: YouAretheMagicPodcast.com [http://YouAretheMagicPodcast.com] Come join us for the You Are the Magic retreat at social-moguls.com/retreat [http://social-moguls.com/retreat]